In order not to serve her daughter-in-law during her confinement period, her mother-in-law pretended to be ill and traveled with her son. When she returned, she found that her granddaughter had a new

In order not to serve her daughter-in-law during her confinement period, her mother-in-law pretended to be ill and traveled with her son. When she returned, she found that her granddaughter had a new father. Is it wrong?

In the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is difficult to tell who is right and who is wrong.

I read the answers from several other students, and they generally believed that the mother-in-law was at fault. After all, her daughter-in-law was in confinement, but she pretended to be sick. It was just pretending to be sick, but she was also traveling with her son, which was outrageous.

If they are gone, who will take care of their daughter-in-law?

You can’t go on a trip at any time, but you choose this time. Isn’t this a dishonest way to bully others?

For this question, the impartial answer should be that the mother-in-law was at fault first. Although the daughter-in-law was the weak one at the beginning, her subsequent behavior turned her weakness into strength and she directly got married to another man. This approach is also inappropriate.

If neither party gives in, the inevitable result will be divorce.

However, is it really appropriate for a couple to get divorced before the child is one month old? Why did my mother-in-law pretend to be sick?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the title is not generally bad.

There are probably three reasons why my mother-in-law pretends to be ill.

First, the mother-in-law does not get along well with her daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law is in confinement, and the mother-in-law comes to take care of the confinement. There are many conflicts between the two, and everyone is annoyed when they see her. To avoid embarrassment, the mother-in-law had to pretend to be sick.

Second, the mother-in-law is usually lazy and has a bad relationship with her daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law was in confinement, and she was too lazy to take care of her, so she came up with a way to pretend to be sick and went on a trip with her son.

Thirdly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is at loggerheads, and the two hate each other and are incompatible with each other. The daughter-in-law was in confinement, and the mother-in-law not only did not take care of her, but to anger her daughter-in-law, she went on a trip with her son at this juncture. I think the third possibility is more likely for the mother-in-law to pretend to be ill.

If the two of them get along well, I believe the possibility of the mother-in-law pretending to be ill is lower. The reason why they are pretending to be sick is probably because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are usually at odds with each other. ?One slap can’t make a difference?, I also believe that conflicts in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be the responsibility of only one party. The mother-in-law was at fault first

No matter what conflicts they had before, just looking at the title, it is absolutely certain that the mother-in-law was at fault first.

My mother-in-law was not only wrong first, but also very wrong.

Daughter-in-law is in confinement when she needs the most care. Even if mother-in-law does not come to help, she will definitely do her best, either by arranging for others to take care of her daughter-in-law on her behalf, or by paying for her daughter-in-law to take care of her. Nanny, this matter is over.

However, she pretended to be sick at this time.

It’s okay to pretend to be sick and look like someone else. It is understandable that he cannot take care of his daughter-in-law when his health is really bad and he needs others to take care of him. However, she was usually fine, but suddenly she fell ill during her daughter-in-law's confinement period. My daughter-in-law is not a fool. How could she not see the clues?

The most important thing, and what is most intolerable to the daughter-in-law, is that her mother-in-law and her husband went on a trip during her confinement period.

When is a bad time to travel, but this time?

The two of them left their daughter-in-law to travel. What should the daughter-in-law do? Is it really appropriate to leave no one in charge and let my mother-in-law help?

So, from this point of view alone, it is really helpless for the daughter-in-law to find another man to help her. But she found a new father for her daughter. This was a choice made out of revenge, which was somewhat inappropriate. The daughter-in-law was at fault later

In the final analysis, if you look at this matter from a neutral perspective, you will think that this family is quite weird. And when we look at this issue, we should not take sides. Because if you stand on either side, you will feel that the other side is wrong.

The daughter-in-law’s fault is based on the mother-in-law’s mistake. If what the mother-in-law does is still justified, it is unlikely that the daughter-in-law will find a new father for her daughter.

But I personally do not encourage my daughter-in-law to do this. After all, looking at this matter from a moral perspective, my daughter-in-law may have cheated.

If you really can't get along, you can divorce. It's not a good idea to end a marriage in a way that will hurt both parties.

Judging from the behavior of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the title, it is difficult to save the marriage between the daughter-in-law and her son. The son is also at fault

Even if the mother-in-law pretends to be ill, the son can take the blame out of filial piety. Wouldn't it be enough for him to spend more time with his wife, take care of her more, and let her sit in peace for a month?

However, not only did he fail to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband, he also went on a trip with his mother. In fact, in this matter, he is more hateful than his mother.

What is the role of a son in a family? ?He must at least act as a ?mediator? If there are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he will comfort both parties and try his best to extinguish the anger between the two parties. But instead of putting out the fire for his mother and daughter-in-law, he instead added fuel to the fire with his mother, making the matter bigger and bigger.

When things got serious, it was their family that suffered in the end. Conclusion:

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important, and the relationship between husband and wife is equally important. When a family is together, tolerance and understanding are important. After all, only by taking a step back can the world be brighter.