Why traveling together is an important criterion to test whether a couple is suitable?

Because through travel, we can see the problems that the other party can't see in the process of communication, and we can see whether he or she is suitable for us. You can see many details about how a person treats people during the trip. For young couples who have never experienced the life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, the question of "should the toilet lid be turned up or put down" can easily be enlarged to "Do you and my worldview fit?" In fact, the difference is not terrible. What is terrible is that it cannot be recognized and tolerated. Through a long trip, we can see the attitude of fellow travelers towards many things.

1. You can learn about each other's consumption views through travel.

In the process of our daily communication, although there will be places to spend money, there are few places that spend money almost all the time like tourism. This is the case in daily life. After-work consumption activities are basically watching movies and going shopping. It is difficult to see the gap between consumption concepts. However, traveling is different. Therefore, consumption habits are an important factor to test travelers. Do you want to sleep in Youth Travel Service or Express Hotel? Should I eat at a roadside stall or go out? In fact, there is no difference between good and bad consumption concepts, but when two people with completely different consumption concepts are together, there will inevitably be many differences and tears.

2. You can know each other's ability to deal with problems.

When two people spend more time together, you may know what he usually does in life, what kind of personality he is, and whether he will care about others. There is a saying that a person should be judged by his performance in difficulties, not by his state in prosperity. There are too many "difficulties" in long-distance travel, and you will constantly encounter problems, such as not understanding the local dialect/foreign language, getting lost, booking hotel tickets, stopping the plane, eating something wrong, and having diarrhea. If you are not in your familiar environment, it is easy to have various situations. At this time, whether your partner can solve these problems shows a lot of abilities of this person.

A trip can let you know more about your lover, and also let you know whether the other person can get along with you. In the life code of a successful traveling companion, quarreling is not terrible. It may be more important to learn the skills of formulating and implementing travel strategies, risk management, emotional management, capital control and stop-loss and profit-taking. After all, after watching the ups and downs together, the feelings should be deeper.