What kind of people are suitable for going abroad?

Xiu Yuan: I live in the United States. I am a researcher. Sometimes I often read some Sawyer magazines when I am bored. I think there must be many friends like me here. People are always curious. See how people fall in love, keep in good health and go abroad. When I came to the United States, I always felt that I was catching the last bus, because many people had gone abroad before, but now I see more and more people going abroad, going to various places and in creative ways, because my intelligence is limited, and I can't think of any clever ideas except reading. First of all, if you don't want to take risks at all, and you are particularly obsessed with the lifestyle in China (people living among China people have friends and family and need some special enjoyment in China), then you'd better stay at home. Because foreign countries are foreign countries, which is different from domestic ones. Everyone is different, and one person's meat is another person's poison. Also, even the best arrangement, there are still some unknowns. Going abroad itself is a gamble of fate. In addition, people who are satisfied with the domestic situation, have money and have a certain social status (official position, etc.). It's best not to go abroad. I have a friend who has always wanted to go back to Beijing since he arrived in the United States. He said to me: You have never been an official, so you don't know what it's like to be an official in China. This is really hard to understand for a person like me who just wants to learn and doesn't want to take care of others or me. In addition, even if you can be an official in the United States, your taste must be worse than that in China. This kind of person doesn't want to go abroad because his past achievements have become his burden today, and it is difficult for him to put down his posture and do what he thinks is low. I once met such a person. When he went abroad, he complained bitterly about my country. In America, there were too many people who were outstanding in the past. But the problem is that you have to remember that everything in your country is irrelevant. Besides, everything in your country only shows that you are useless now. Sticking to your rank and position too much will only make it difficult for you to adapt to everything abroad. Going abroad is your own choice, and you have the right to go back at any time. Stay well when you come. It's no use complaining. America is a very pragmatic society. In order to survive, you must do anything. Even a doctor who can't find a job should wash dishes like a person with a primary school diploma. This is a very fair thing. If you face the reality and use your intelligence, you can change your situation. Compared with the above two kinds of people, the following kind of people are more suitable to go abroad: people who are unknown at home and have no ambitions. On the one hand, they want to live a good life in the advanced stage of socialism as soon as possible, but under the domestic competition rules, they are timid and don't want to "get rich". I consider myself such a person. It is much less difficult for an ordinary scholar to compete in the United States after graduating from college than for a migrant worker from other provinces to make a living in Shanghai. If a person can't get along in America, it's really helpless. From the perspective of personal rapid growth, the more ordinary people in China, the stronger their sense of accomplishment in the United States, because they can go to last stand, and with a little effort, they will be much better than before, but if you have made great achievements in China, it will be even more difficult for you to have the same status in the United States. And to be fair, the social structure of the United States is relatively perfect, and some practices that work in China are not needed in the United States (of course, if you are extremely smart, things may just happen). In addition, those who have made great achievements in China and want to do something for the country and the nation had better go abroad. Personally, I think it is difficult to see the world from a higher perspective without staying in the United States for a year or so. In the United States, especially in new york and Washington, everything in the whole city makes you feel that this is the center of the world. Although Shanghai has built so many houses, it still feels like a new Asian metropolis and the center of a region. Shanghai is an international metropolis, but there are many similar international cities. However, the above-mentioned people with a strong sense of mission should return to China after coming to the United States, because China is their interest and has a deep-rooted social network, which is a great intangible asset for people with lofty ideals. In addition, some of them have a strong sense of the motherland, and living abroad is a kind of pain, so it is a good way for them and the country to return home after their studies. There are many reports about the return of overseas students in the domestic media. In fact, it is very difficult to return to China after coming. Everyone eats grain. Despite the rapid development of domestic life and materials, the overall quality of life is still far behind that of the United States. China has the convenience of China, but the United States also has a very convenient side (the key is actually money, and everything is easy to do with money). Once you get used to the American way of life, it is actually difficult for you to readjust to life in China. If such people really return to China, they will often lose a lot of benefits in the United States. Faced with the pressure of wives who are used to the American way of life (in China circle in the United States, "couple" is a common name except those who have just arrived in China) and children, most people will eventually stay in the United States. Among the mainlanders who come to the United States, there are men who want to return to China, but I haven't met women yet. I think men may be more concerned about their careers, while women are concerned about real life and the well-being of the whole family. The biggest advantage and disadvantage in America is that if you have a good job and income, your life can be very stable. This sense of security is often the goal pursued by many people, but for ambitious men, it is too boring, and you often feel that this is your life. People are always so ambivalent, thinking about what they haven't got yet. Finally, if you are really a capable professional, it may be better for you in the United States, because even China is too small for you. In the United States, you can put aside a regional concept and regard the United States and China as a part of the world. We can gradually see that some world-class large companies are above the state, and their branches around the world are like their enclaves with their specific cultures. These companies use their own strength to gradually influence the politics of various countries. Most of these big companies are European, American and Japanese companies. People who have the ability and yearn for greater power can make use of all kinds of resources in the United States, which is far from being comparable in China.