My boyfriend doesn't want me to travel with friends. What should I do?

After reading your written description, I can feel that you care about your boyfriend's feelings, or think of him from the bottom of your heart. I can also feel that the relationship between you should be good. I just want to ask: what is love?

First of all, you said: I want to go because some friends want to go to graduate school. This should be the last party in years. This group of people is what I learned from netizens at first. They often go out to play together and travel together for more than a dozen times. From this passage of yours, you recognize these friends. It is because of the same hobbies that we meet online, then make friends offline and travel in groups. Is this not good? The purpose is because friends want to go to graduate school, which shows that such friends are self-motivated and positive. Whether you are married or making friends, you should make friends with people who can bring you positive energy. I wonder if you agree?

Secondly, you said: about my boyfriend not letting me go. My boyfriend also met online. My friend who traveled with me didn't know that I was traveling, but I didn't know that he didn't like it very much and didn't support me to go. I told my boyfriend that I would broadcast the report live all the time so as not to worry him, but he said that he was not worried about these problems just because it was unreasonable to play with a group of netizens, and these were different from real friends. I can feel your boyfriend's disapproval of these netizens. You met him online, too. I want to ask him: What's the difference between a net friend and a real friend? What is he afraid of? Are you afraid of being robbed? Or is he not confident?

Then, you say: I have made an appointment for accommodation and tickets. When I left, my boyfriend didn't pick me up or send me away, and said he didn't support me. I'm worried about my boyfriend. I knew it would really make people feel insecure. Then on the first day, I lied to my friend that I was going to accompany him for a while, and now I don't know what to do.

I can feel your worry and entanglement, and your boyfriend's refusal to accept it has already explained his position. what is love ? Love is when you see a flower you like, you will take good care of it, give it sunshine and rain, and fertilize it. You have done what you can, told him and asked his friends to accompany him. What you can do now is to share your trip with him every day. Does he accept it? That's his business.

Finally, I want to say, girl, you should love someone who can give you motivation, not someone who makes you tired physically and mentally. During love, some topics should not be omitted. I can see that your boyfriend cares about you very much, which is your happiness. When lovers get along, they should also have respect, compromise and tolerance. Everyone is an independent individual and does not belong to anyone, but excessive care and possession will also make people sad. Girls should remember: treat others as they treat you, and your efforts are worthless to yourself.

Besides, are there any other differences in your life besides traveling? What you can do now is that you will be outside and your military orders will not be affected. However, while sharing your daily life, you can also tell him how you feel and think now. A gentle attitude is the beginning of good communication. May you live happily all your lives! ?