My mother went on a trip when you were confined, so I went with her. What happened? What if the husband takes it for granted?

As the old saying goes, it is better to tear down a temple than a relative. But times have changed, and some old sayings have changed, which may no longer serve as a warning. One of the childishness of human beings is to do hopeful things with despair. But you should know that the wrong person will not become the right person because of long time.

In our country, it is a custom for lying-in women to sit on the moon, and it is also for the rest and physical recovery of lying-in women. People often compare the East and the West, saying that western women don't have confinement, and they can't speak Chinese yet. There are many factors such as medical conditions, living environment, physical quality and race, which are not simple yes or no.

Giving birth to a child is a matter for both husband and wife, even the whole family, including both parents. How to treat a wife and young children in confinement is the most important lesson for husbands and new fathers in their lives. No matter how filial it is to take your parents on a trip, things have priorities. There are three reasons why men can leave their wives and children to travel with their mothers:

First, the giant baby who hasn't grown up yet. When one day my parents left this world and there were no artificial bullets in front of the giant baby, I found myself at the forefront of the "trench". At this time, can the giant baby grow up instantly and shoulder the responsibility of taking care of his wife and children and provoking the burden of the family?

Secondly, he didn't realize that what wives and children need most at this time are husbands and fathers. He doesn't know the depth of this irresponsible injury, which is reflected in his mind that his wife, children and small family are insignificant, which is an extreme selfishness.

Third, maybe, just maybe he is not satisfied with the sex of the child, or is there anything in his wife that urges him to do so? In either case, getting angry at this time is not only the embodiment of quality, but also the most fundamental human nature.

It is necessary to repeat the first sentence: the wrong person will not become the right person because of long time. One of our biggest mistakes in dealing with people is that if I treat others well, I will be treated well by others. It may be cruel to say so, but the sooner you realize this, the more you can control the direction of your life.