Why do you take your mother-in-law with you when you travel?

very helpless. I have traveled many times with my wife and her mother, and there were many unpleasant things during the trip, but I have backed out and I can't say anything. Whenever I have an opinion, my wife says that I don't respect her family and don't love her. But a few times I wanted to take my parents with me when I was traveling with my wife, and I had a look after them. My wife said to let them join the group by themselves. I said I was afraid something would happen when I was old. She said that the old man is not free to follow and can't play together. I'm really speechless. I feel that I always indulge her family and wronged mine. I used to think she was selfish when I was in love, but at that time she was young and felt harmless. Now I know that these personality characteristics are mapped to all aspects of life.

Finally, because Aunt Chen traveled with her wife a year ago, the two mothers were completely destroyed, and the daughter-in-law was very dissatisfied. Because the nanny was going home at that time, the daughter-in-law was busy doing the year-end summary. I have to work overtime, and the children are left unattended. So three nights before her mother-in-law went out to travel, her daughter-in-law said to her mother-in-law with her child in her arms: You can leave your grandchildren, and when you are old, we can leave you alone. My mother-in-law was also angered by this, and she was more determined to travel and didn't go home until the 28 th of the twelfth lunar month.

then look at some mother-in-law in life. When a child needed help at birth, the old people refused for various reasons. Now that they are old, their sons may be quite filial, but after all, their sons have many things to do, and it is unrealistic to take care of the elderly in every possible way. Daughter-in-law may just have a decent face, and most of them will not take care of their mother-in-law with sincerity. After all, my mother-in-law only cared about her own chic in the most difficult years of her daughter-in-law, and she didn't help at all. The heart changed for the heart, and her mother-in-law was old. Why should her daughter-in-law take care of you?

As the saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework, and everyone should have his own reasons. Nowadays, young people are busy with their work and ask their in-laws or parents to help take care of their children, while old people sacrifice their time for them.