How to write condolences to loved ones

I suggest you download a sample essay from Baidu, rewrite it based on your aunt's life story, and add your feelings. I downloaded one for reference only:

My deepest condolences and deep memories of my aunt Zhang Xiujuan

Zhang Hong

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Late at night on February 29, 2008, the ringing of the phone woke me up from my dream. I learned from a call from Sister Wu Jin from Hong Kong: My beloved aunt Zhang Xiujuan - the only sister of my father Zhang Zongzhi and the sister-in-law, classmate, best friend and matchmaker whom my mother Ni Yufen always missed during her lifetime - has passed away on February 23 due to long-term illness. Jakarta, India, passed away! When the bad news came, I felt extremely sad and unspeakable. I deeply regretted losing another one of my closest relatives. ...My aunt did not die. She went to heaven to accompany her uncle. She went to the Paradise to visit her brother and sister-in-law. From now on, she will move to the heaven where there is no cold or heat and become neighbors with her relatives forever! ...

I remember hearing from my father and mother many times before: my aunt was very smart and excellent in academic studies since she was a child. She was an outstanding female student in the town at that time, and my father was always proud of her. Later, my aunt was admitted to Hangzhou Normal University with the first overall score in the entrance examination!

My aunt and my mother were classmates and best friends from the same hometown, class, and dormitory in middle school. The understanding between my mother and my father was also the result of my aunt's active matchmaking. It can be said that without my aunt, there would be no home that I had back then, and I would not be here in the world. Of course, there would be no home that I have today.

After the outbreak of the Anti-Japanese War, my aunt and her uncle Wu Junlin fled to the Nanyang Islands (it was a colony at the time, and later became an independent country, which is today’s Indonesia). In the following decades, although she and her mother were far apart, they had always been together. They maintained correspondence. Later, even in the years when "dark clouds were threatening to overwhelm the city" and it was inconvenient to write letters, they still sent postcards to each other during New Years and holidays - expressing their longing for each other. Although they did not write letters, their thoughts never ceased. Uninterrupted, "Everything is left unsaid!".

My aunt was very caring to me. I remember that when I was learning to speak, I knew I had a loving aunt. In 1947, when I moved with my mother from Sichuan to Shanghai for my first summer, I was so overwhelmed by the climate and climate. Unsatisfied, I once developed prickly heat and boils all over my body. After hearing this, my aunt sent me a large package of powder and plaster to treat boils from Indonesia, which is located in the tropics...; while I was bedridden for eight years due to illness, my aunt had many times. She wrote to me personally several times to increase my interest in learning cultural classes while I was ill...; in order to increase my enthusiasm for learning painting, my aunt sent me many picture albums for copying, and she also used colored pencils to draw pictures for me in person. I bought a "Snow Scenery", which I treasured for many years as if it were a treasure. It was not until the eve of the "Cultural Revolution" that house confiscations became common. I was afraid that the painting would fall into the mouths of "jackals", so I sent it back to my aunt for safekeeping... …; At the end of 1982, I went to Tokyo to visit relatives. On the first night at my father’s house, my father made an international long-distance call to talk to my aunt. When I heard my aunt's voice on the phone for the first time in my life, I was extremely excited and cordial, as if my mother was back again. Because my voice was so similar to my father's, when we first talked on the phone, my aunt thought she was She is still talking to her father...; I remember that I sadly said to my aunt on the phone: "Although we are close relatives, we have never met." However, my aunt comforted me with confidence and said, "We will definitely meet. "...; When the dust settled on the motherland and Yuyu clarified, my uncle and aunt returned to China many times to visit relatives; every time they returned to China to visit relatives and travel, my aunt always had a long and cordial conversation with me. I remember that when we visited the "Three Kingdoms City" in Wuxi together in 1990, my aunt told my uncle that she "didn't want to leave." Then she held my hand and asked me to find a quiet place to "sit for a while" with her because we were talking. We were so speculative that we forgot to control the time. As a result, our uncle and cousins ??who were traveling with us could not find us anywhere. We were so anxious that we almost went to the scenic radio room to broadcast the "Missing Person Notice"... So much so that I often recalled this incident later. I always feel apologetic...

My aunt loves her motherland and her hometown. After her uncle passed away, she had bad legs and feet in her later years and had difficulty moving, so she asked her children to push her wheelchair and accompany her back to the country to see the mountains and rivers of her hometown with her own eyes... My aunt's meticulous care for me and her sincere teachings that she treated me like her own child, and her infinite affection for every plant and tree of the motherland, have always been vivid in my mind and fresh in my memory. It will always remain the most warm and heartwarming thing in my mind. The beautiful memories will last a long time and are unforgettable. My aunt's loving voice and smile will remain in my heart forever. ...

After my aunt and uncle started a family, she became a very good wife who "husbands, raises children, and manages the family". Under the difficult conditions of a foreign country and a turbulent environment, she cooperated with her husband for decades, worked together, overcome all difficulties, and built a prosperous and admirable beautiful home.

How could my uncle’s career be so prosperous? The seven Wu brothers and sisters are all excellent in character and academics. Not only have they graduated from college and have successful careers, but all of them can speak fluent Chinese (I once curiously asked my cousins : "You grew up abroad, how come you can speak Chinese so well?" They told me: "Our parents have often warned us since we were young: We are all Chinese and we must learn our mother tongue well"...); Wu family My aunt is indeed indispensable for the prosperity of my family and the high prestige in the Indonesian overseas community. No wonder my mother once lamented that my aunt was a "lucky general" and had a "prosperous life"!

Nowadays, the relatives of the older generation have left and will never come back. May the deep family ties and friendships between our ancestors that have a long history, are connected by blood, and have withstood the test of time, be maintained among our descendants from generation to generation, and stay with the mountains and rivers, and shine with the sun and the moon!

Birth, aging, illness and death are the natural laws of all things in the world and are inevitable. We miss our aunt sadly, and we must inherit her legacy and strive to realize her ideals and wishes during her lifetime.

We must make sure that our uncle and aunt value family ties, love the motherland, and are willing to contribute to the prosperity of the Chinese nation (after the reform and opening up of the motherland, our uncle and aunt have been actively encouraging children to invest in the country). No matter how the external environment changes, we must always maintain a consistent attitude. The lofty ideological character and moral sentiment of a fiery Chinese heart, as the immortal spiritual wealth left to us by the older generation, should be inherited and carried forward to comfort the spirits of our ancestors!

I wish my cousins ??and cousins ??to express condolences and accept the change! Take care of yourself!

Dear aunt, farewell! I have lit candles for you online, hoping to light your way! I pray that you will reunite with your uncle, your brother and your sister-in-law after a long absence in the Kingdom of Heaven as soon as possible, and be together happily forever and ever!

Written in Hefei, Anhui on March 1, 2008, revised and finalized on March 8