Why is travel the only criterion for testing couples?

The saying that "travel can best test the affection between couples" has always been popular in Weibo. It is said that traveling together is the biggest difficulty in testing a relationship. But have you ever thought that the reason for quarreling during the trip is that your boyfriend has "straight male cancer"? And this kind of traveling companion often shirks the responsibility to the girls.

During the trip, the boys are all grandfathers and don't do any raiders. But they think the route you arranged is boring and the shopping time is too long. So you blame me? But have you ever thought, in fact, he is not interested in traveling at all, playing mobile phones or games all the time, completely ignoring your thoughts; Let him take some photos of you and complain that he is always fooling around. Let him take two more photos, and then he will criticize your photos for being poor. So it's my fault that I'm ugly?

# Because it's always so ugly in photos

Versailles is so beautiful. Please take a picture of me. After filming, I found that, alas, my foot was cut off in the photo, and the fountain became the theme. It's beautiful to take a sunset photo in Fontainebleau Square. Hey, how can you make friends with short face and legs and become a quadruped? Even more exasperating, the other party said, "Your legs are so short, and I can't make you a long leg of 1.7 meters."

I know that the most important thing in traveling is the scenery, not the people, but I always send some photos with beautiful people and scenery to my circle of friends. Maybe my photos are not so amazing, but I can still take beautiful photos with a little careful angle. However ... hehe.

Most straight men are poor at taking pictures, which I am already prepared for. Well, regardless of composition and lighting, as long as it can make me frame with the scenic spot. However, after telling him the skills, he dealt with it and got impatient. He pinched two rice bowls and didn't let him spit. The photo album is always full of ugly photos and weird shapes. A man who likes to see ugly photos of his girlfriend is nothing more than him, really! Honey.

How to break it: it's so easy to solve. Let him be a human tripod+pinch the shutter: before each photo, find him a good photo position, set the composition, turn on the continuous shooting mode, let him hold the shutter when he is ready, and you can do all kinds of swinging actions. Take your time when you go home. There must be photos to see (even amazing). It's all from experience. Uh-huh.

# Don't question any decision

Before going out to play, we agreed to be each other's angels There is no opinion and no requirement in everything. When you arrive at the tourist destination, just listen to my improvisation. But when I got to the local area, it changed. We agreed to have dessert in the afternoon and delicious food in the evening. After dessert, we turned our backs and said, "Are you going to let me eat this?" , stubbornly ate a dinner. But I'm obviously full after dinner, so honey, can you stop eating at night? "How can you not eat at night?" Huh?

After dinner, I went back to the hotel and wanted to walk along the cherry blossom path with him. As a result, he directly slammed: "That's it! Take a walk! Take a taxi home. " I'm not interested ... I know you pursue the maximization of efficiency, but can you occasionally do something that you think is silly and meaningless to satisfy the little romance of girls?

How to break it: Who said that couples must always be tied together when traveling? Just like our daily life, we also need independent space when traveling ~ When the itinerary and ideas are different, we can discuss and explore what we like.

You go to your video game store, I visit my ancient street art exhibition, and go back to the hotel at night to talk about new topics; If two people have to play together, they have to "negotiate" to make an exchange ~ I can go rock climbing with you, but in exchange, you don't have to eat when I eat snacks, but don't make me eat dinner when I'm full.

# Always on the road, never give up the goal

Usually sprint short distances and try to follow the pace of men. However, during the trip, I have to walk so much in one day, and my calves are getting thicker every day.

It is rare to travel, and it is understandable to want to go to more places in a limited time. I gave up high heels and put on sportswear and flat shoes, but if I run a marathon every day, I can't.

I want to have a rest when I pass by "Flower God Cafe", which is a famous punching place. Shouldn't I sit down for a cup of coffee before I leave? But the man looked at his watch, so many people sat down reluctantly. After I ordered something, I began to show a fidgety face. "It's been half an hour. Isn't there coffee after breakfast in the hotel in the morning? Do you want to eat for a while? "

Hey ~ I really don't know if this is a trip. I'm always chased by travel plans and always moving towards the next goal.

How to break it: Generally speaking, coquetry is the choice of many girls, but it is also a debatable method. Maybe make your boyfriend change his mind, slow down, or delete a day's itinerary. But it may backfire and make the other person feel disgusted. After all, when they come out to play, both of them are looking forward to a day of sightseeing. You want to be comfortable, but he wants to play more places. But the route is automatically generated by smart travel, and the choice is the deep tour of leisure travel. There's no hurry at all ~

# Always travel with work

There is a kind of disappointing, called traveling with work?

Start computer work at the rest stop in expressway, go to the hotel for video conference, and queue up at the scenic spot to call to urge the work progress? "He actually went out to play work." In the face of boyfriend's behavior, maybe many girls are as disgusted as me.

I have to say that there is nothing wrong with this behavior, because from the initial point of view, a man's first duty is hunting, and this thinking mode of "hunting = work = bringing home the bacon" has been preserved until now. Maybe he especially appreciates his efficiency. "How could I be so great!

While traveling, you can also travel with your girlfriend, which is both profitable and leisure. I earned money in advance to take her out to play next time! "But a rare trip, at least I also carefully planned for two months, really ruined by work? Can't you put it on?

How to break it: the most direct way is to forbid him to take out his computer, so that he has no job to do (but it is also risky, after all, he always remembers how to relax and enjoy the trip); In fact, before leaving, I still suggest sitting down and telling him: Don't be too nervous, relax and enjoy the holiday, and hope that each other will cherish the time alone in a strange environment. Make an appointment to solve all the work at hand before leaving, and then go on a trip.

# Play games everywhere

There is also a sense of frustration that you can sit down and play games wherever you go. ...

The sea view room I stayed in this time is very beautiful, and the floor is specially chosen as a high-rise building, but dear, the balcony with a view of the sea is not specially used to play games for you. Besides, you were already playing games when you were waiting at the airport, and you were still playing games on the plane, but you arrived at the hotel? Ga ~ I will watch you play games quietly.

Boys always put themselves in a (inexplicable) competitive environment? Especially when playing games, you will never stop until you tell me that you lost and I won (winning will never stop! )。 It is understandable to be afraid of falling behind and be competitive! After all, who doesn't love a man with a positive attitude and enterprising spirit? But I don't understand. Playing games at home is not enough. Why are you still obsessed with the game after you finally come out for a walk ... is it because the scenic spots are too unattractive?

How to break it: maybe the arranged destination is really not attractive to male tickets. This can only be achieved through "cajoling" ... After all, next time we plan to go to Los Angeles? When playing GTA, this product is familiar with LA. When I said LA plan, his eyes lit up and he even took the initiative to add scenic spots and capital clothes!

Some people will say that I am wronged, can't I go to my favorite place without losing money? But I don't think so. It doesn't matter where you go, what matters is the people you travel with. Really can't. I can "cheat" him and say that XXX is really like the background of an online game. He will be fooled, and I will lead him by the nose ~

Finally, I want to say that traveling can really see some bad qualities of boys and contradictions between the two sides. But at the same time of complaining, please look at yourself ~ Have you taken the initiative to think about and solve the problems seen by two people, have you shown concern and care for him, have you bossed him around or just thought too high? It is said that "travel is the only criterion for testing couples." You know, the travel mirror is not only for others to see, but also for yourself.