Is it abnormal to travel alone and do what you want to do alone?

Of course it is normal to travel alone and do what you want to do alone!

Traveling alone can avoid conflicts between two people due to lack of preparation and disagreement. Although there is no one to accompany us, the journey is a little more dangerous and lonely, but it can make us think better about what we can do. Someone once asked me, you like traveling, what is the meaning of traveling?

Perhaps in my opinion, traveling is a very relaxing way. I like to go out and see things that I have never seen or experienced. I actually don’t like taking photos because I think focusing on taking photos will reduce the amount of things I see during my travels. When we focus on taking photos at scenic spots, will we really miss a lot of scenery? Maybe there is a very beautiful tree at the other end of the mountain that no one has noticed. Maybe the clouds in the sky are turning into beautiful cotton at this moment. Alone, no one else is talking to you, no one is disturbing your peaceful mind at this moment. We can free ourselves and release ourselves without any worries. Isn’t this what traveling is all about? Isn’t this what truly makes people happy? So it is normal to travel alone because you yearn for a lonely state of mind.

Perhaps this is why a person does what he wants to do. We all know that when we do what we want to do, we will be very focused and dedicated, and we don’t want others to interrupt us, and we don’t want another person to do it with us. After all, this is something I like, not everyone does. Just like me, I love puzzles, and putting together a thousand-piece puzzle really makes me happy. But I like it precisely because of its challenge. So when someone wants to be with me, I get upset. This is depriving me of my happiness in disguise.

A person’s process also allows us to think better. After all, noisy environments are not suitable for thinking. We all know that loneliness is an unbearable state of mind, but it is like bitter tea to our growth. Although it does not taste good, it is of great significance. When I'm alone, I think about what I want to do in the future. Is my life of more than ten years meaningful? What does the life I like and long for look like? How much effort do I have to put in to live this life? A person's growth may be among these "one people". Therefore, some people want to be "alone".

Therefore, it is normal for a person to do whatever he wants and likes, and there is no need to worry too much about this idea.