Boyfriend asks for the date fee AA system. Do two people who love each other have to be so clearly divided?

In fact, girls sometimes have to pursue economic independence. Why do you say that? First of all, it is now a society where men and women are equal. Of course, as boys, we often do things like taking our girlfriends to dinner, watching movies and buying clothes, but this does not mean that girls need to rely entirely on their boyfriends to spend money. AA system can be said to solve the differences and unfairness between men and women to some extent.

First, the economic independence of girls also represents dignity.

Some girls are always said to be kept by others or spend money from unknown sources. In fact, not all girls need to rely on men financially. Independent girls actually support AA system, because it is naive for two unmarried people to have no idea about money, because it shows that neither of them has made a good plan for their future marriage, and blindly pointing to girls who spend money on boys is actually putting down the dignity of equality between men and women.

Second, selective AA system is a good choice for both parties.

If it is a cup of coffee or a meal, boys can actually choose to make wallets generously. But in today's era, generally speaking, boys pay a higher price before getting married. For example, those who have had several girlfriends may not be able to enter the marriage hall in the end, but the money will not be less. For example, I went out to travel with my girlfriend, and as a result, I covered all the travel and accommodation expenses, and finally broke up unexpectedly. Maybe the money as a bride price will never come back.

Third, selective AA can explain your feelings.

Generally speaking, many couples will choose one person to pay all the money when they go out, so as to reduce troublesome things, which is actually a common consumption way for couples in marriage. But it also caused many boyfriends to start chasing after breaking up, saying how much something cost and what they ate. Reasonable consideration of your partner's financial resources, selective AA, and occasional self-supporting consumption are the essence of communication, which shows that you really think about each other and expect their small family to be well-off after marriage.

Why are there always some couples in the society who quarrel after breaking up and ask for the money they paid, bride price and other lawsuits? Because the woman is not independent, since she can't accept each other, she shouldn't spend a lot of money on each other. There are also some bad events in which women use these aspects to deceive men to spend money in places like high-priced water bars, so selective AA can avoid some things, but boys who like AA too much are very disgusted with girls. So how far should we go? Both men and women should control this degree by themselves.