Someone said, "Never travel with relatives, relatives will become enemies." What do you think of this?

Before answering this question, I would like to add one more sentence, which I believe will win everyone's praise. Judge whether your partner is trustworthy, and travel with him and you will naturally have the answer. That's true. Tourism can bring us closer and even integrate into all aspects of life. So why does traveling with relatives become an enemy? ?

First, different ideas and concepts.

The concept mentioned here is a general concept, which is specifically what we often call the three views. There is no right or wrong in a person's three views, there is no distinction between high and low, only whether it is appropriate. In the process of traveling, it will inevitably involve diet, accommodation, travel plans and so on. Now that the plan has been mentioned, we must discuss it together. If we discuss it, there will be differences. If it can't be solved properly, it will naturally lead to resentment. You can also recall, go out to play with your parents, or go to a strange place, will there be differences and quarrels? That's the truth. Therefore, different ideas will lead to enemies between you and your relatives. Of course, the enemy mentioned here is somewhat exaggerated.

Second, you can't speak your mind publicly.

Relatives are members of the family, and they are also our relatives, so we will certainly take care of each other during the trip, and even take care of the feelings of relatives when putting forward a certain opinion or idea. It is different from ordinary friends, some words can't be said publicly, and some truth can't be said directly, so it must be expressed in a euphemistic way. If there is a problem and the expression is not smooth, there will naturally be a knot in one's heart, especially if there is a problem, which will affect the travel itinerary. It's different if you're friends. Whether you are happy or unhappy, you can pour it out at once. When two people find common ground and reach a consensus, the journey will be very happy.

Third, the contradiction of money.

What is the basis of tourism? Money, of course. However, if you are a local tyrant, take this sentence as nonsense. Going out to travel is bound to cost a sum of money, which is interspersed in the whole travel process, such as buying tickets in parks, taking cruise ships, climbing mountains to buy tickets, and even going to roadside snacks. What if relatives are around? Of course, I bought it for my relatives. In fact, as a relative, I will definitely be polite and will delay. However, when you meet a very stingy relative, this beautiful phenomenon does not exist. You spend money on her, but she doesn't say anything, not even a word. You must be unhappy.

These three aspects mentioned above are also practical problems that we often face when traveling abroad. If you want to have a beautiful trip, you'd better make an appointment with like-minded friends and say some thoughtful words when you feel the scenery. After all, traveling is like a short-term cohabitation, and various contradictions are naturally exposed.