Turn around and get off the chart! A stay-at-home dad travels alone with three babies: he enjoys taking care of the babies.

The White Paper on Parent-child Companionship in China released on 20 17 shows that the phenomenon of "fathers growing up without children" is too serious. The data shows that more than half of the families are accompanied by their mothers, and only 12.6% are accompanied by their fathers. This form is also called "widowed education".

Of course, a father from Xi 'an got angry because he took his three children to play in various areas alone, and in the process, without the help of his mother, the children's food, clothing, housing and transportation were all borne by him. My father's name is Zhang Zhaoyuan, and now he works as a full-time nanny.

He said that he felt it was a great achievement for him, and he was proud to see the children happy because of him, so he didn't feel ashamed to be a full-time nanny, and even he was happy because he participated in the growth of children. Therefore, when a father is willing to participate in his children's usual education, then the children will bring him unexpected results.

Xiaoqing and her husband took their children to play in the community park that day. Children usually love to cling to their father, but it is also because his father loves to play with him, so the father and son are always together when playing.

During this process, my son kept calling me "Dad, Dad", which made people think that something had happened. A little girl next to her heard her son shout so, and even called "Dad" with her son. The son was very angry and then gave the little girl a push. Unexpectedly, the little girl cried and called "Dad". Xiaoqing looked at this kind of situation, which was really distressed and funny. From this point, she can also see her father indirectly.

The word father is not only the name of the child, but also means his responsibility to the child. A qualified father can not only shoulder the responsibility for his children, but also shoulder the heavy responsibility of his family.

If a family has boys, then the father's participation can better teach the children to be responsible. Why do you say that?

Because children don't have their own consciousness when they are young, they only learn to do it with others. If a man really has a home in his heart, then he will put more emphasis on the family. At this time, if the child sees it, he will follow his father's example and put everything in the house. As time goes on, children will gradually know what responsibility is, that is, boys will take more responsibility for themselves.

Studies have proved that if a family only has a mother or a father, then when children grow up, their personality will be flawed. Only the mother's children are more introverted, more sensitive and lack self-confidence, while only the father's children are always careless, without proper limit. In a complete family, both father and mother are important.

The father's participation in the child's growth will bring more confidence to the child, because the father mainly deals with the outside world, thinks rationally and makes his father's thoughts more extroverted. Children who have been in contact with their fathers for a long time will unconsciously imitate their fathers, and gradually they will become more and more confident.

In addition to the first two points, fathers can also help children better adapt to society.

Psychologist Gerdi said that the father is a unique existence and has a special power to cultivate children. Because in a family, the mother is mainly responsible for major issues at home and does not deal with people in society, so the children brought out are naturally more careful and introverted, and it is basically difficult for children with this personality to talk to other people in society.

Father's participation can let children know what is strong, what is brave and what is responsible. When the father is in contact with the child, it will have an impact on the child, and these characteristics of the father can better help the child adapt to the society, so the father's participation is very important.

Having said so much, have parents remembered it? No matter how busy you are at work, you should learn to participate in your child's growth, because it is very important for your child. # Breeze Project # # Baby Health Classroom #