Because I mentioned earlier that she would go to Qinghai-Tibet with her colleagues. At that time, I said, I'll talk to you when you leave. Apart from some feelings of traveling on the plateau, I began to say, dear, it's really good for you to travel so hard with your colleagues for the first time. She asked what was wrong. I said that people with bad personalities like us still have to open all social modes when traveling. Can you really hold on? In the past, I went out to play with friends, and there were tour groups organized by the unit, some traveling alone, and some traveling with boyfriends. As a person with a deep understanding of myself and a bad personality, I have long been reluctant to travel with anyone. My sister at work wants to invite me to Sanya, which is basically free. Even this temptation, I resolutely refused. Before traveling with others, you must have a deep understanding of yourself and your fellow travelers. Take me for example, I am a person with a bad personality. Irritability, irritability and fatigue. In a normal life, you can still live in peace with others by opening a social mode. But traveling is different. Travel is when two people or a group of people are together for almost 24 hours. There are many situations to deal with and many decisions to make. In this case, it is difficult for me to maintain a normal appearance. I am also a character who will die if I am unhappy. So going out for a self-help tour with my colleagues is definitely a choice that ruined my reputation at work. Regarding the choice of traveling companions, there are several hard indicators that are not negotiable at first. First, the concept of consumption. I am a person who conscientiously implements the idea of "poor family is rich". I think if we have to go out to play in a pinch, it is purely spiritual. If we can't eat well and live well, shall we go to play or suffer? I can't understand poor travel, so I can't find anyone to play with. When the organization visited the Expo Park, many colleagues brought a lot of food, such as bread, instant noodles, ham and so on. I have to eat by burning the midnight oil, and it is even more impossible for me to squeeze in the Expo Park with a pile of bread. At noon, colleagues got together and started a picnic. I made an excuse and left. I went to a Mexican restaurant for a Mexican meal and a drink. I don't think there is any problem with what my colleagues brought. Everyone has a different view of consumption. In fact, they are thoughtful. I often ask them for help, and they are generous enough to let me take whatever I want. But if you take this economic route with a friend, I can't stand it. In most places, you only go once in your life, so I want to have all the snacks in the restaurant. I like another drink. I want to try the local wine. It doesn't matter if you don't spend money, but you won't let me spend it. Why? If you don't spend money and don't rub me, it may not matter at first. After a long time, I will think, why? If the other person has too much money than me, the hotel must bring a star or something, and neither can I. I don't want you to rub me, nor do I want to exceed my budget. Therefore, people with similar economic levels and similar consumption views are the best. Second, don't force anything. First of all, I am a force. If there is another one, I will definitely strangle it. Physical strength is not good, everyone should rest more, which is ok. But that kind of "the sun is too sunny, the wind is too strong, the scenery is not good, the mountains are high and the water is cold" will directly affect the mood. Eating roadside stalls is too dirty and messy, the attitude of the store is too bad, and eating out is too expensive and tasteless. I think the whole world will kill you and I can't eat anything better. Staying in a hotel, the sheets are too dirty, the bath water is too cold, and the surroundings are very noisy. That compulsion will only make me want to kill her and suffocate her with a pillow in the middle of the night.
Third, independence. I am not in good health, I am a person who is easily tired, and I am also a person who will have a whim casually. In the words of my girlfriend, it is "charging time is too long and discharging time is too short". But I never mind my traveling companion going to places I have never been before when I need a nap. If you live in a beautiful place and I want to wander about 500 meters in Fiona Fang, let's meet somewhere, or I'll be back in ten minutes, which seems to me to be a good plan. What bothers me most is that when the other person doesn't want to go shopping again and I want to go shopping for another ten or twenty minutes, the other person will beg you to stay with her, or if you are tired and want to find a drink shop to sit and wait for her, no, you have to go with her. I can't accept it. I don't like to stop others from doing anything. I hate it when people stop me from doing what I want to do. I hate it. I'm here to play, not to be conjoined twins with you. Fourth, you can take care of yourself. I have a bad personality, turtle hair. I don't like dirty hands I'm allergic to the sun. I get carsick. I'll die if I leave the tissue. I am old, I can't give up skin care. My hair is hard to wash and dry. So when I go out, I will bring plenty of wet wipes and tissues, sunscreen, motion sickness medicine, skin care products and a hair dryer. I'm not afraid of people with turtle hair, especially those who can't stand any hardships, but they don't think about anything and are unprepared. Once I went out to eat with a group of people, there was a girl who had all kinds of needs. I always provide wet wipes, paper towels, hand cream and lighters.