May your soul be full and your desire thin.

The world is very big, unwilling to compromise the life, and rushing to pursue poetry and distance every day. So eager for success and constantly running, I got up in a hurry, but forgot that my naked feet had stepped on the thorny road step by step. Dragging tired and painful feet, standing at the midpoint of yesterday and tomorrow, I am eager for someone to tell me loudly, "May your soul be full and your desire be thin."

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Once in a while, I read a book written by Wan Guoyu in the bookstore. The title is "May your soul be full and your desire be thin", which is a book for girls, about love, life, work and growth. What attracts me most is the title of this book, as well as the cover and content typesetting filled with the breath of a baby, which is quiet and feminine.

I didn't settle down to read this book seriously. I just glanced at the table of contents and knew what this book was written about. We all know the truth. We all walk alone on the rambling street. There is wind, rain and snow. One always rushes through the rain, braving the wind and the heavy snow. No matter where we go, we all try our best to run forward. Everyone's growth can be composed into a tune and written into a book, and we can read it together. It turns out that it is a state of mind to change the soup without changing the medicine. You have your sufferings, and I have my words to stop.

2

The older you grow up, the more things you want, and the more things you have to restrain yourself at all times. It's hard to be generous when you leave. Some people say that you are no longer young and dare not gamble on this few youth. It is also said that a lot of people in married with children are waiting for themselves, and the reality does not allow them to unload their bags and walk quietly by themselves. Some people even say that the courage to start all over again is not enough. Although I am walking very slowly, I am slowly adapting to this helpless life.

sometimes it suddenly occurs to me that if I don't get a lot at first, will I be afraid of losing it in the end? A life where everything is zero will definitely not hold you back, but will only give you the courage to move forward bravely.

The article you wrote yesterday, "You are so tired, it's time to change your way of life", was originally just a sudden thought of my friends' feelings, but I didn't expect it to arouse everyone's buzz, and I received many messages.

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To sum up, many people are in the dilemma of "dislike and change".

I don't like my current lifestyle, but I don't have the courage to change it. There are many reasons, which can be summarized as two points.

I have spent many years in a job. If I change, I don't know where to change, and I can't find the standard of life orientation.

I don't like my current job, but I have a family to support, so I can only stick to it.

these are the main reasons I summarized, that is, "the dilemma of dislike and change."

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In response to the first reason, a netizen named "Orange Sanjin" left a message saying, "I wanted to quit long ago. I waited for the person I like for three years, and now I'm finally ready to quit. I really don't know where to go next when I quit?" Presumably, many people have this feeling. If you change the way, where to change, of course, some people have a clear goal. After understanding it, they will turn decisively, but there are not many such people.

For the second reason, a netizen named "Xia Qing 75194" left a message saying: "I have been selling for six years, and I have thought about leaving countless times. I am tired of intrigue and getting a call from my leader at 11 pm, but I dare not resign casually for the sake of a better life for my family. I will find something I like to do in a different environment after paying off my mortgage next year!" I think this friend may have a strong sense of responsibility and is a very family-oriented man. There is also a netizen named "Color of Life 4" who left a message saying, "I want to resign before I finish reading it, but I can calm down and think about it. Children spend money, parents' responsibilities, and I quit my job ... I quit my job in my heart ..." This is the most common phenomenon in society, and many people compromise their lives. Poetry and distance can only be quietly hidden in their hearts, and I can take it out from time to time to bask in it, which proves that I once had a dream.

At that time, we had dreams, about literature, about love, about traveling across the world. Now, we drink late at night, and the cups touch, all of which are the sound of broken dreams.

I have to admit that this is the normal state of society.

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Of course, there are some positive messages, such as "Doraemon in the sun". The netizen wrote, "Good, I also want to give up my career and live in another city and change my lifestyle, but I still can't be so chic, because it's not my own problem. I have such thoughts and actions now. If I have the opportunity, I will go out to travel, do what I like, write, listen to music, taste food and travel around the world, so that my life will be meaningful and valuable. Don't live like the "three pears" and be a happy self. "

A friend with the online name "Eva 78491237" left a message saying: "I quit my job for several months, and I have been in this company for more than four years. I took a long vacation, took a trip, read two books, got a driver's license, and started again after the year!"

A netizen named "Ugly Cow 1973" left a message saying, "I'm going to resign, too. I am extremely disappointed with China education, extremely disgusted with school management, and extremely helpless about teaching and educating people. " The three "extremes" express how much helplessness and expectation for a new life. I hope this friend can finally find his favorite lifestyle and be full of soul.

These friends who are decisive, crisp and have clear goals will think for a long time before they decide to give up decisively when they start a new life.

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I don't know what's going on recently, but I've always seen such a saying, "You will never be naive until you are poor." Maturity is just good at hiding, and vicissitudes are just no tears and injuries. " Even yesterday's article "You are so tired, it's time to change the way of life" has several such messages. Perhaps this sentence is the most silent confession in many people's hearts.

to get to the point, a full soul and thin desires are actually the best life.

Every day, I am busy enriching my spiritual world, pleasing my spiritual world, fading my desire for the world a little bit, unhurriedly returning to the most ordinary role, no longer competing with the world, and no longer rushing to catch up. This is the most relaxed happiness.

I finally understand that many people once said, "In fact, fools are very happy, I wish I were a fool", but I didn't understand it at that time, because I was thinking, "A fool has no independent thinking ability and poor thinking, so how pitiful and miserable he is. I don't want to be a fool who knows nothing."

Later, I finally understood that what everyone said was such a sentence. In this literary and elegant sentence, "May your soul be full, and may your desire be thin." In fact, it also encourages you to be a fool, but to be a fool with a full spiritual world, you only have the desire to fill your stomach.

Cheer up. The world is so big. Try to flatter yourself and please yourself, be an ordinary person with full spirit, abandon the interest rate of fame and choose your favorite lifestyle. In fact, life is quite good. Occasionally, there will be poems and distant places. Don't be corroded by growing desires, and eventually become a rotten wood.