Sister Ailing walking alone

Do you know why your lover’s steps are often accompanied by a rapid rhythm?

It’s because the scars on their bodies have long been worn away by time. It’s not that they are in a hurry, but that there are stories hidden in their steps.

Are there people around you who are in a hurry? There is such a person beside me. Because she is warm and friendly, everyone calls her Sister Ailing.

The first time we met was on the third day of my internship. Sister Ailing, who was smiling, asked about my employment situation.

At that time, I thought that the woman in front of me was already middle-aged, but my colleague Xiaohua told me that she was 32 years old.

This makes me very surprised. Why is my face already covered with wrinkles at such a young age? Why does she always walk alone in a hurry, whether on vacation or after get off work? Why does WeChat always reply after twelve o'clock?

The reason for all this phenomenon must start with her family.

Although I have a stable job, there is no equivalent life.

Sister Ai Ling, 30, was arranged by her family to meet her current husband. After getting to know each other, the two quickly held hands. Even though they were in different cities, the more than an hour's drive did not hinder them.

Unfortunately, after marriage, all this changed.

Sister Ailing is busy taking care of her children and her parents-in-law every day. She takes on all the housework by herself. Even the decoration of the house is handled by her alone. Xiaohua, seeing her so tired, couldn't help but ask.

And this conversation also answered many of my questions.

"Did you do anything romantic at that time?"

"He comes back on weekends, and sometimes after work early in the morning, to watch movies and cook."

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"Why not let him come back to work? His academic qualifications are very good and he is not afraid of not being able to find him?"

"He thinks the salary is too low and there is no development prospect."

"Then you are taking care of the children by yourself now, and he has not fulfilled his family responsibilities, so why don't you buy a car?"

"I don't have time to drive, and he feels it is unnecessary to come back only a few times."< /p>

"Wouldn't it be tiring to be in such a different place?"

"I'm used to it."

Out of politeness, we didn't talk too much in this conversation. But soon, her husband's actions put Sister Ailing in a dilemma.

For some unknown reason, Sister Ai Ling’s son who was less than one year old had vomiting and diarrhea and was admitted to the hospital. After taking care of her day and night, her mother-in-law had a stomachache and was hospitalized. Sister Ai Ling took care of two patients by herself. , mentally and physically exhausted, it was impossible to describe her feelings.

But the father-in-law stood aside and did not help, blaming Sister Ailing.

"How do you take care of your children? It's not easy for my son to make money. How much will he have to spend if you don't worry about it?"

"Dad, look after my mother. I will pay for the child’s hospitalization expenses myself.”

“I will take care of it myself, and you will pay for it yourself?”

Can’t you support it? Sister Ai Ling, who lives there, called her husband and transferred him to work in Shenzhen. He finally came back more than a week later.

After finally meeting, the first thing the husband said was, "I want to have another child so that the child can be taken care of in the future."

At this time, their son was still She was wearing a sling on the hospital bed, and her husband, who didn't know anything, said this to her, but he didn't care whether she was working too hard.

Sister Ai Ling, who was furious, shouted: "I will never give you a second child again. You have to take care of the child by yourself. After the child is born, I will take care of the child, eat and bathe him every day." You had to wash the family's clothes and do the housework, so what did you do? You had to give birth to yourself! "

The husband was angered by Sister Ailing's attitude and slapped her several times. , and returned to Shenzhen that night.

After more than half a month of hard work, my son’s pneumonia and my mother-in-law’s stomach disease finally subsided.

Sister Ailing cried loudly in the dormitory when she returned to work.

We asked worriedly: "Is your husband bullying you?"

She said: "No, it was my mother-in-law who said she didn't want to help her take care of the child. Taking care of the child made her health worse, and she wanted to travel. Then she left the child at home and asked me to go back and take care of it. Then how can I go to work? "

"Your life now revolves around your children and your husband's family," Xiaohua said worriedly.

"It's a beautiful idea. I only do it for my son. My son spends all the money myself. I never give it to their son, so as not to say that I spent his money."

"Then your husband won't come back to take care of you?"

"The project in Shenzhen has reached a critical point and we can't leave."

"How can one person do it?" , why don't you get sick? "

"If I endure it a little longer, my life will not be so miserable when my child goes to kindergarten."

I asked curiously, "How to love." Sister Ling's parents won't help take care of her? "

Sister Ai Ling answered me: "I have an older brother who has two sons, and they can't take care of me. How can they take care of me? "< /p>

Adult marriages generally have difficulties of one kind or another, either for the sake of the children or for the family.

Looking at Sister Ailing walking alone, I couldn’t help but feel a little distressed.

"It's time to get off work"

"I'm leaving now! See you tomorrow!"

Looking at Sister Ai Ling rushing home in a hurry, I Realize that most people still cannot afford the consequences of divorce, and they can only live with the unsatisfactory marriage in front of them.

I packed up the documents on the desktop and saw the note left by Sister Ailing, "Xiao Hu, help me organize this document. I have something to do at home tomorrow."

At this time I didn't complain too much and stayed to continue to finish the work.

In the days that followed, I still tried my best to complete my work.

And Sister Ailing is still walking alone in a hurry, day after day.