The best way for a woman to live is to enrich herself and raise her children freely.

Epiphany of a 35-year-old woman: The best way for a woman to live is to raise herself, her children and her husband.

Women must pay more attention to their own growth in self-growth. Life is like a mirror. What kind of attitude you have towards life, life will give you what kind of return.

Fu Seoul said: "How can an ordinary-looking woman live a wonderful life? Once you stop appreciating others and yourself, there is no such thing as dullness. " Many people easily fall into a misunderstanding in their lives, and like to take themselves in the eyes of others as the benchmark, for example, they don't want to disappoint others, or they want to find their sense of existence and value from this aspect.

In fact, everyone will be an independent individual. Others may not know the whole picture of their lives, but only they know whether they are living well or not. People stand at the age of 30. After the age of 30, they should think more about life planning, what to do next, what their future world is like and how to live. At this age, we should take ourselves as the center, know how to enrich ourselves and live better; You know, the world you see and the life you feel are the most real.

Enrich yourself.

Only by living a "self" will you know what you want. It is the most real thing to change from this desire to a state of possession. In other words, no matter what state of mind you are in, you should think calmly and do what you want gently and forcefully. I have met a lot of people, because of certain things, certain belonging, they will become different from themselves, and strive to be what others want you to be.

I hope all women will not forget themselves during this time. You are free, and you can assume your due responsibilities and obligations, but that doesn't mean you need to give up many things you don't need to give up, such as more time, more growth and experience. In your spare time, you can fully enjoy your time, do what you want, read books, learn new things, travel, see the world, see yourself and learn more about the world and yourself.

Free-range children

Children are magical treasures, just like mirrors with their own unique souls. They will bring their own different ideas, but they will also be deeply influenced by their surroundings. Through imitation and learning, what they see and hear will be remembered and copied in different ways. Therefore, many parents will carefully educate their children in this respect, and they will want to bring the most correct three views to their children. There are also many parents who will give their children what they think is best for their children's life, whether it is material or spiritual.

Even called it "all for their own good." I believe that parents are serious about their children, but many parents will constantly intervene because they are afraid that their children will take detours or have bad habits, which will also lead to a narrowing of the world outlook of many children.

Free-range children are generally superior to those who are too strict in their ability to resist setbacks and creativity. Children are lovely creatures, and their creativity and thinking vitality will surprise you. Therefore, please parents, whether for the healthy growth of children or for their own time management, the benefits of free-range children must be the best.

Release the husband.

There is a classic line: "A man is like holding a handful of sand in his hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster the sand leaks. If you hold it calmly, it will stay quietly in your hand. " Many people are the same, too much is too late, and everything is suitable. Marriage gives more responsibility and love, but not all love, but more responsibility and obligation to three families. Then at this moment, your focus must not be on him, but on the comparison before and after your love and marriage.

It depends on how much he is willing to pay for his family and how much time and energy he spends in this family. Some men pay and some men contribute, and different families will have different ways to get along. No one is forever dependent, only your own ability is the eternal guarantee. The more you know how to support yourself, the more you will realize the true meaning of life, and others will not affect your beauty.