Is it safe to go to a dating agency and spend money to find a partner?

Personally, I think dating agencies are unreliable to find a partner.

First of all, in our impression, dating agencies must be for older young people to find partners. There are often various reasons why older young people cannot find partners. Some people have poor image. Good, height disadvantage, some people have poor family conditions, and some people may have good image and conditions, but they are more introverted in character and cannot communicate with others normally, resulting in the inability to find the partner they like.

So I think that if a person has good looks, good enough conditions, is very popular, and has a good personality, there is a high probability that he does not need to go to a marriage agency to find his partner. People who have shortcomings in themselves will go to a marriage agency to spend money to find a partner because they are getting older and are urged by their parents. But when you really explore the fees of the dating agency, you will find that Not everyone can afford it, and often it may cost thousands or tens of thousands in introduction fees to introduce you to a blind date.

Then again, since you have shortcomings, the person introduced to you by the dating agency will also have shortcomings, so each other's shortcomings will be revealed during the chat, thus reducing the chances of two people holding hands. Probability, so there should be very few people who are actually introduced by a dating agency and finally get married.

Although the marriage agency will provide you with some small blind date activities to increase the probability of successful blind dates, it also creates various hidden potential risks. In fact, you can’t find a partner. It's not just drunkenness, but it would be even more deceptive if you met someone who was a foodie, a winemaker, or someone who cheated on your relationship during the blind date.

I once had a friend who paid more than 10,000 yuan to a small marriage agency, and then said it would arrange ten blind dates for him. As for whether it was successful or not, it was his own business. But in these ten blind dates, either the girl didn't like him, or he didn't like the girl. There may be some problems with him. After all, he has been single for many years and is not good at talking. Or he does have some personal problems that girls don't like, but it also shows that The marriage agency industry is useless. Since it is difficult to find a partner, isn't the money spent in vain?

The most deceptive thing is what we often call people who are meal supporters, wine supporters, or people who cheat on their feelings. We often see similar news on the Internet. For example, men have gone through a blind date and, based on being with each other, Just invite each other to dinner. At this time, the restaurant proposed by the girl is very expensive, even exceeding the normal consumption level, but the boy is still willing to eat because he is hot-headed. A meal often costs thousands or tens of thousands, and in the end The ending is not that the two people can come together.

Actually, this is not the most exaggerated thing. If it is just a meal or a drink, it is not bad, at least there is no follow-up. It will be even more uncomfortable if the person you are dating happens to be a liar. , I once heard about a girl who was actually married and had children, but she still used the name of blind date to meet men who could not find a partner. After meeting, she tried various ways to find men to borrow money. This behavior is special. shameful.

Having said that, in fact, the cases of wine support, meal support, and money fraud that I mentioned may only exist when a small number of people are dating. More people are also running after themselves. I go into dating with the idea of ??getting out of singles. I believe that everything in this world is justified, since the existence of this industry still has a certain role.

However, it is still because young people sometimes have high ambitions and low abilities, which makes it difficult for them to find a partner. Even if you go on a blind date, it is still difficult to find a partner. The most important thing about getting out of singles is not to let a marriage agency introduce you to yourself. You should set your sights lower and find someone who is suitable for you. If you are a loser, you should not look for someone who is tall, rich, handsome or fair. Because if you keep fantasizing like this, you will never find a partner. , so I think dating agencies are actually not very reliable. It is not difficult to find a partner if you are good enough and can really open your heart.