We usually have a good relationship. When we travel, we find all kinds of problems. What should we do?

There is an idiom on the internet called Narita breaking up. Only lovers break up after traveling. A friend just complained to me today that he went to Thailand with his boyfriend on National Day. I'm coming back now and I'm breaking up! It doesn't matter if you don't ask, you are shocked when you ask. My friend said that only two things happened during the trip: "I'm going to chop him to death" and "I can't bear it".

It turned out that the strategy before the trip was decided by girlfriends, but after arriving, my boyfriend complained that the arrangement was not good and I wanted to be crazy. I have been playing mobile phones during the trip! Walking, eating and seeing scenic spots are all fun! What a hurry! Let him take pictures in front of the scenic spots. He is impatient and lacks arms and legs. It's disgusting. Such a male ticket will not break up when it comes back. Do you want to keep it for the New Year? Afterwards, I talked to her boyfriend. He felt that there was only a small mistake. How did it end badly enough to break up?

In fact, it is very important to travel together before marriage, because the shortcomings of two people are exposed in the 24-hour companionship, so we must think clearly whether we are suitable for each other during the trip. You can start from the following aspects:

First, is the concept of money consistent?

Can two people agree on the concept of consumption? When you are shopping, you meet the original you really want to buy in the bookstore, but the other half is throwing cold water on it. This book is expensive and heavy, so it is inconvenient to take it back. You might as well buy pirated goods online. If you have some questions about money, you must think it over before you get married, otherwise it will be difficult to get along after you get married.

Second, are the values consistent?

You may want to stay in a good hotel and enjoy a relaxed life, but the other half of the trip may just want an economical trip. He thinks it's okay to squeeze into youth travel, and saving money is the last word. Traveling is the most rewarding aspect for him. So it is easy to produce contradictions. You need to know whether the values of two people can match.

Third, is the life schedule consistent?

You like to get up early and hope to watch the sunrise together. But the other half is a person who stays up late and likes to do activities at night. But getting up early in the morning is a frustrating thing. Originally, the schedule was full, but because of the departure time, half of the time was delayed, and it would be crazy. So you should live with people who have a similar life schedule, so that you won't feel uncomfortable.