Is it necessary to fall in love in college? Can I be single for four years?

If you haven't been in love before, go and experience the love in your school days.

Falling in love as a student is really, really sweet. Even without too many basic guarantees, you will feel a kind of happiness, which belongs to the happiness of love. When there is no class, you can go to the park to see flowers and plants in spring; In summer, you can eat ice cream and watch movies. In autumn, you can eat hot pot, hug and watch the yellow apricots in the sky. You can walk outside hand in hand in the sun in winter. There are many things to do together and many memories that belong to you two. I think it is necessary to feel them in my life. To you unconditionally, just because I like you. The process is really beautiful. Maybe the result is not the final result.

But I hope to fall in love when I meet someone I like, not because I want to fall in love, and my purpose will not last long.

But if you've been in love before, I don't think it's necessary unless you really like it. In fact, talking about love is sweet and annoying. Many things may happen in the middle, and too many uncertain factors may affect your life. Don't change your normal life track just because of one person.

How many people can be "responsive"? When you see that people around you are in love, in order not to stray, you choose to fall in love with the crowd, even if you are not very familiar, even if you don't get along very well, even if you don't get along for a long time, at least "I talked."

Or, because, for a moment, my heart was lonely and empty, and I wanted to find someone to fill this emptiness. Although the development speed is amazing, it only took them two weeks to realize their love.

Even, just for convenience, I can have someone to accompany me, but I hastily found someone to help me occupy a place in the library and help me cook. At least I have someone to eat and chat with.

This kind of love for the sake of love, with a certain purpose, is what most people have experienced.

However, just because of the stimulation of hormones and the emptiness inside, do you really want to see the psychology of people around you falling in love?

If there is, I am not afraid to regret the result. I can talk about it for the sake of experience.

After all, they walked hand in hand for a long time, fighting from time to time, just hugging and looking at each other for a while, then pecking their faces quickly and blushing for a while.

In class, he/she can always make the boring class more interesting on his/her mobile phone, chat with you until class is over, and then get together to discuss which one is delicious.

Playing games, watching videos, chatting with you, staying up all night, immersed in sweetness for a long time, unable to sleep.

These moments that make our hearts beat faster and make us happy and sweet are really enviable and challenge our patience all the time.

When I see a couple on campus, my heart itches. I always hope to "find one next time and give you enough love to eat dog food in front of you." .

So it didn't take long to find a couple who seemed to fall in love at first sight and staged a dog abuse scene every day.

It wasn't long before they broke up hastily because they couldn't accept each other's personality, which seemed inappropriate.

Bullshit. Love at first sight is just the clock face of love at first sight.

Before you get to know each other better, or your three views, or your personality, or your past, you suddenly get together and probably won't last long.

Ask yourself, is this really the love you want?

On the contrary, this time is not short. You almost know each other and are fascinated by something. It is not impulse, but mutual attraction in getting along, which is the most comfortable and appropriate.

I don't mean to fall in love with him/her, but I hope you can find someone with the same frequency as you and find someone you really like. You may have different personalities, but you have the same hobbies. You may have different opinions, but you are attracted to each other.

Don't talk because you talk, and don't look for it because you are lonely.

In college, love is really not everything. You can travel, read and study, which can make life interesting. But if you meet someone you like very much, don't miss it, just pursue it boldly. But if you really don't like being single for four years in college, it's not necessary. It doesn't matter if you are single for four years.