Grandpa wants to take his grandson on a trip, but his daughter-in-law doesn't trust to follow him, saying that she is taking care of the children on the way. Is this appropriate?

There is no standard answer to this matter. Every family's situation is different, and every family's relationship is different. If it is a harmonious family, the daughter-in-law can not only take care of the children but also take care of the elderly. However, if the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the elderly is not very harmonious at ordinary times, then this matter should not be considered, which will cause great psychological burden to the elderly.

First of all, I feel that children should be given some space and some opportunities for experience. Nowadays, many families have only one child, and the only child is loved. From the moment the mother was pregnant, the whole family began to urinate around the children. Parents were thinking about giving their children the best growing environment and doing everything they could to create good conditions for them. Driven by good wishes and the care of relatives, the environment for children's growth is a bit like a "hotbed" with complete facilities. However, children always have to face the society independently, and parents care too much for their children, which makes their dependence worse, which is unfavorable to their growth. If a person's growth has been arranged long ago, life will miss a lot of wonderful things.

Secondly, I think the most important words are "care", "tolerance", "understanding" and "companionship". I believe that your parents will be at least 5 or 6 years old, and when they reach retirement age, the key for us as children should be to care about their health and happiness, and spend more time with them when we have time. It is not easy to bring us up with hardships, so don't do it again.

Finally, I want to say that every parent is trying to lighten the burden for their children. After retirement, they play the role of nanny, take care of our children, and even make money to subsidize our family. If we still want to be angry with them willfully, isn't it a bit too ignorant?