What does it mean when a man is married and a woman is married?

"Men should be married and women should be married". Marriage is a necessary stage in life that most people have to go through. It constitutes the social relationship between the sexes and has been an important part of human life since ancient times. The traditional marriage of China people not only has a mysterious and long-standing origin, but also conforms to the timeliness of life philosophy, and also contains unique health care significance, which can be said to be a wonderful university question. "Marriage" first, then "marriage" ◆ What does the word marriage mean? The small print of the word "marriage" and the small print of the word "marriage" are both written as "marriage", and these two words have their own meanings. In Shuo Wen Jie Zi, the word "marriage" is interpreted as: "Marriage refers to a woman's family. Ceremony, marrying a woman will make you faint. Women are also yin, so marry them. " A woman's home is a woman's home. "Marry a woman until she is unconscious" means getting married at dusk. This is obviously different from the wedding time of modern people. At present, weddings are usually held at noon, and they are busy from early in the morning, and wedding banquets are held at noon to entertain relatives and friends; The ancient wedding was held at dusk, which was related to the ancients' belief that women belonged to yin, so getting married at night was in line with the way of heaven and earth. Book of rites? It is recorded in "Sacrifice in the Suburb": "There is no need to be happy at the wedding, but it means seclusion." This is the wedding before the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. Even the musical instruments were useless, and the wedding was almost silent. This is also influenced by the wedding custom at dusk. From word to person: raise a child and get married. When men get married, so do women. ◆ What does the word marriage mean? In Shuo Wen Jie Zi, the word "marriage" is interpreted as: "Marriage is also a husband's family. I got married because of a woman. " In ancient times, the word "marriage" represented "marriage" and extended to the meaning of relying on it, which meant that when the woman arrived at her husband's family, she had to rely on it. The word "cause" has three meanings: first, it depends on books, which have basis and uses; The second is inheritance and compliance; The third is to add accumulation. Therefore, we can explain it this way. A woman relies on her husband's family, work and life, contributing to her husband's life and continuing her offspring. When they get married, they will have a home. Therefore, there is "marriage" first, and then "marriage". There is a clear logical relationship between the two. There are many sayings about marriage in ancient China. There are three main ones here: ◆ Snatching marriage: cooking uncooked rice into mature rice. The history of snatching marriage appeared very early in China. "Is it easy? There is a record in this regard in "Swallowing Melon": "Swallowing Ru? (zhān) For example, riding class, bandits and bandits get married (gò u) ... riding class, tears streaming down her face. "The general idea of this passage is: the sound of hooves is not a bandit, but a robbery; The woman cried tears like blood, and the robber took her bride. Of course, the bride can't be robbed in broad daylight, usually at night when the woman's house is unguarded. In ancient times, most wedding robberies occurred after dusk. After the woman was robbed, the wedding was held in a hurry, and raw rice was cooked that night. The next day, when the woman's family wanted to take her back, what was done was done and she had to recognize her son-in-law. So it became "marriage". Now some ethnic minority areas have turned the custom of robbing marriage into an interesting tourism project, such as Wa, Dai, Miao and Yi ethnic minority areas, which can often be seen. At present, there is no final conclusion about the origin and reasons of marriage robbery. The most direct result it brings is that men can reproduce with robbed foreign women, thus achieving the goal of increasing more people. However, snatching marriage is not the mainstream of marriage in China. It is only a stage in the long process of China people's reproduction and growth. Knowing the story of robbing marriage is just to let us know more about the origin of marriage. After the marriage robbery, there was mixed marriage. Intermarriage is produced for the purpose of population reproduction, or more precisely for eugenics. There is a saying in Zuo Zhuan: "Men and women have the same surname, and life is not complicated. "This means that when men and women with the same surname get married, their descendants will not prosper. This sentence was very reasonable in the background of the times at that time, because the ancient population was small, people with the same surname were bound to be related by blood, and the marriage of close relatives was bound to be detrimental to human reproduction.