A friend of mine likes to travel, play around and read books. The culture is not very high, but we can't talk together anymore. What happened?

Hello, according to your description, at first you were friends and had the same topic, because later the other party traveled and read more books. Although the culture is not high, they keep learning, which leads to a certain distance between you and her. There is no topic more and more.

This is normal. That is, one person is moving forward and one person is stagnant. This is the gap. To change this situation, we must read more books, travel more and study more. Only by sharing the same views and experiences with him can we make progress with him.

Look at a person not to stay in a person's past, but to see if he is working hard now. Because in the past, you said that his education was not high, which only represented his past, not his present and future. A person's culture and accomplishment can be improved through hard work and knowledge. So you should look at a person from a developmental perspective, not from a stagnant perspective in the past. Then you will understand why you have nothing in common with him.

The situation you described, this kind of thing happened between friends, lovers, or husband and wife. At first, everyone got along well, but later they felt estranged. Some of them can get better and better together, while others are farther and farther away. In fact, this is the reason.

A person is constantly moving forward, and a person is standing still or retreating. The gap between them will lead to the communication between two people.

Therefore, when you meet such a positive friend, you must be close to each other, learn from him, learn from him synchronously, and strive to improve yourself. Read more books, get close to excellent people, and keep improving yourself. So as not to let yourself fall behind.

There is an old saying that it is never too old to learn. This will get better and better. You can't always be satisfied with the past, but always stay in the knowledge of the past, so you will become short-sighted and divorced from real life.

According to your description, I'm glad you have such a friend. The studious friends in the world are your role models and the direction of your life. Personal advice, thank you!