Does the boyfriend and his wife have a mistress when they travel?

I think there are two kinds of men looking for a mistress. The first is to have fun. The mistress is young and beautiful, and everyone likes her. The second possibility is to really like it. It is difficult for a mistress to judge a man's heart, because no matter what kind, most men are loving.

Let's make this situation a for the time being.

And I like mistresses, I also think it should be divided into two situations:

First, marriage is in a hurry, and there are not many choices. I got married in a muddle, and I didn't realize it was true love until I met San Xiao. But out of responsibility and identity, men have to give up a mistress who is more suitable for them and safeguard their family and reputation.

Let's put this situation b for the time being.

Second, the original match is good, but no one is perfect. In many ways, the advantage of Xiaosan is obviously higher than that of the original match. In this case, men will find a mistress to satisfy some sense of existence and satisfaction that they can't get in the original match. But in this case, it is impossible for men to give up the original match, because just like the original match is rice, oil and salt, and the third one is abalone and shark's fin, rice is a necessity for men. Although it is boring, the third one can only be the icing on the cake and cannot replace the original match.

Let's make this situation C for the time being.

For the third girl, everyone must want to be B, because only in this way can we still get the man back through hard work. So how do you judge which one you belong to?

See what men like about themselves! For example, you are just young and beautiful. Forget it, it must be A. Of course, apart from being young and beautiful, men think you are knowledgeable (meaningful) and talented (for example, you are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and poetry, for example, you like reading and thinking), and there is still a aftertaste in communication, so it is probably B or C.

Then how to distinguish b from c? Generally speaking, the woman in case B is a successful woman. When I say success, I mean career to a great extent, that is, this woman is very independent. The feelings of young women are mostly C.

Finally, back to the landlord's question, will a man have a mistress in his heart? I want to say, whether it's A, B or C, men may think of mistress, but it doesn't make any sense to think of it. The key is what he thinks of himself. For the landlord, does he like himself or play with himself? Will he give himself a future or just make up for the lack of original life? That's all that matters. To judge this man's specific thoughts, one is to judge from his behavior, and the other is to examine a series of problems from his own perspective.

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