How can two people get to know each other?

You kid is so interesting. Can I take away your points if I write an essay on love? Haha, you just provide this little information so that others can help you. I have good luck today. I used double points. I am driving a sheep and herding a group of sheep. I will give you one more answer.

First, since we are in the same hospital, don’t be in a hurry. In particular, I warn you not to rush to confess your love, but to prepare the relationship first and confess your love before she knows you well. , will cause her to be cautious and wary of you, which is tantamount to increasing the difficulty.

Second, the art of war says that knowing yourself and the enemy means you can fight a hundred times without hesitation. Don’t rush into action. It is important to spend some time observing and understanding the other party. You need to try to understand the other party’s family background, life experience, temperament, character, and values. Hobbies, social situations, regular behaviors, ways and attitudes of dealing with others, etc. Methods of understanding: 1. Observation in daily life 2. Chatting with people around her to get a side view 3. Having general contact with her, such as friends and colleagues Communicate with her at a shallow level while waiting for her identity, 4. Get to know her through her friends, spaces, blogs, etc. 5. Organize a group event and invite her to join her. 6. Ask her questions or ask her for help as a friend or colleague. You can also help her...

Thirdly, since she is a new nurse, she will encounter many problems, such as adapting to The working environment, adapting to taking care of patients, how to apply the knowledge in school in practice, getting along with colleagues, all aspects of life, being wronged, etc. You should pay attention to observe, and when appropriate, give her something by chance and coincidence. Help, but at the same time, don’t let her feel that you are helping her on purpose, helping her with intention, so that she doesn’t feel burdened.

Fourth, since you may meet her occasionally, you should adjust your condition well when you meet her. For example, your hair should not be messy, your clothes should be neat and clean, and you should keep smiling. It is best to be able to greet her. She smiles politely or says hello casually, making her feel friendly without being artificial.

Fifth, if you have something to do, go to her department and make up your own reasons and excuses. You don’t need me to teach you. It’s best to become good friends with the male colleagues in her department. Man, that’s it. The reason is not only very easy to find, but also she can become friends or good teachers and students with the old doctors in her department. If anything happens, she can ask questions, and she can handle the specific situation by herself.

Sixth, perform well at work, work seriously, be friendly and enthusiastic to colleagues, be patient and meticulous with patients, leave a good reputation among the masses, which is good for your career, and it is also normal for pursuing her. There are benefits.

Seventh, the most important issue after getting to know her is communication. Communication is the key to bringing two people closer. The key to communication is the topic, preferably a topic that she can be interested in. After understanding On her basis, if she likes Qiong Yao, you must also like Qiong Yao, if she likes Jin Yong, you must love Jin Yong to death, if she likes Kung Fu Panda and Transformers, you must know the wonderful plots by heart, if she likes Jackson or Mianyang Yin , you must hear the calluses in your ears. If she likes traveling, you must be a travel expert; if she likes shopping, you must often "encounter" her in shopping malls. If she encounters problems in her work and life, you must be a problem solver. If she is depressed, you must be the joke maker. If she is a little willful, stubborn and unreasonable, you must be the fault of her bad habits.

Oops, I accidentally wrote so much again. I quit. It’s almost exhausting me. Let’s write this much for now. If you have any questions, you can communicate with me again. I have my own space. Contact details.