Debating essay that independence is more likely to lead to success

Once, I heard and witnessed such a thing at the gate of a school: a mother handed a bag of food and a paper bag to her daughter and said: "This is what you like to eat, and Freshly cleaned shoes." The daughter also handed her mother a package and said, "There is a piece of dirty clothes here, and its button has fallen off. Don't forget to fasten it for me after washing."

In the hearts of children, parents are like a wall that never collapses. However, no one can be a child forever, and no one can always stand under the roof of the family. Entering life, leaving the harbor of parents and the help of relatives and friends is the path of growth in life. We must learn to be independent.

You need to be independent in life. We are not adults yet and do not need to work to support ourselves for the time being, but our most basic independent ability is that we can take care of ourselves, manage our own pocket money, do our own things, cook our own meals, etc. When you become an adult, you must know how to be self-reliant and support yourself. There is a saying circulating in the society: "Parents who really know how to educate their children will never give their children a fortune, but a spiritual wealth of independence and self-reliance." Mr. Stanley, the president of one of the 500 largest companies in the United States, is the world's most famous person. Rich, he lets his children know how to manage money, how to make money, and how to treat money. At the same time, he tells his children that their hard-earned money is the most precious and they must learn to be independent.

Need to be independent in learning. Many students today do not regard learning as their own business, and often rely on their parents to supervise and scold them for learning. Some people complain that their parents are not college students, and they take it for granted that they are lagging behind others, but in fact, learning ultimately depends on yourself. It is true that "tiger children" are common at all times and in all over the world. Madame Curie's daughter is a scientist and a Nobel Prize winner; Su and Su are both among the "Eight Great Masters of the Tang and Song Dynasties"... They have been influenced by their parents since they were young, which makes them interested in a certain field. Interest in the subject is one of the reasons why they become talented. The father of the Chinese mathematician Zhang Guanghou was an illiterate miner and his family was poor. However, Zhang Guanghou continued to strive for self-improvement in the face of difficulties. He relied on his own efforts to tackle key problems and made outstanding achievements in mathematical research. It can be seen that their success is not inherited from their parents, but depends on their own efforts. As the saying goes: "The master leads the way, and cultivation depends on the individual." Parents and teachers point out the direction and learning methods for us, but they cannot accompany us all our lives. Further learning and research are up to us.

Need to be independent at work. As the saying goes: "Rely on your parents at home, and rely on your friends when you go out." But this sentence is no longer applicable in today's society. Today's society needs competition, real materials, and DIY (do-it-yourself) talents. Those who "go through the back door" no longer have much status. To be independent at work, you need to know how to find a job on your own, rely on your own strength to rise step by step, be good at showing your talents in front of leaders, not lament that you don't have talents all day long, complete tasks independently, solve difficulties independently, have the courage to try, etc. As Hugo said: "I would rather rely on my own strength to open up my future than ask for the favor of a powerful person." Believe that "I am my own master!" When Yang Lan was in her senior year, she applied for a job as a CCTV host. Facing strong opponents like Lin, she resolutely said to the judges: "Whether you choose me or not, I must show myself today." She did so, and as a result, she defeated many strong opponents and got her wish. Su Xun, a famous essayist in the Song Dynasty, once showed 22 carefully written articles to Ouyang Xiu, a scholar in the Hanlin Academy. Ouyang Xiu appreciated them and recommended them to the court.

I remember there is a proverb in Latin American countries: "Self-reliance is better than the hand of God." A person's growth is inseparable from the upbringing of his parents, the nurturing of society, and the teaching of teachers. However, these are all external factors, and learning to be independent is the key.

Only when a person values ??his independent ability and strictly demands himself under favorable conditions can he move towards success!