/kloc-how is 42-year-old Yang Lijuan now after 0/3 years?

/kloc-the entertainment circle 0/3 years ago was enough to go down in history.

That year, a girl named Yang Lijuan idolized Andy Lau and even threatened to commit suicide. Successive media reports have prompted the "Yang Lijuan incident" to heat up gradually, and she has also successfully turned her idolized personal behavior into a social event.

Since then, terms such as idolization, stalking and beating the fan have become familiar. But at the same time, the endless debate about idolization, a fan behavior, began.

1994, Yang Lijuan just celebrated her 16 birthday. She is still a young girl. At that time, she had a dream that there was a picture on the wall with lyrics written around it.

At that time, Yang Lijuan didn't know who Andy Lau was until one day her classmate sang this song in her dream. She asked her classmates who sang this song, and they read three words, Andy Lau.

When she got home, she told her father Yang about it. Unexpectedly, her father didn't laugh at her and said that he had the same dream, which was incredible.

Later, Yang Lijuan's mother recalled that she always believed that as long as her daughter saw Andy Lau, they could get married and live a good life from then on.

Since then, the family has been trying their best to help Yang Lijuan realize her dream. When Yang Lijuan wants to buy posters and records, his family will do their best to support them and give them almost everything they want.

In fact, this deformed way of raising and family education has a long history.

1978, 40-year-old father gave birth to Yang Lijuan. The old son's father loved her since childhood, and he didn't beat or scold her when she did something wrong. The couple, like Yang Lijuan's servants, have been waiting on her carefully.

When Yang Lijuan was 20 years old, her father always helped her take a bath and wipe her body, but she never thought there was anything wrong with it, and even thought that parents should do it for their children.

Once, Yang Lijuan wanted to drink Red Bull, so his father went to the shopping center near his home to buy it. But at that time, Red Bull had just entered the China market, and the price was higher. In desperation, my father had to secretly take a bottle from the freezer, not wanting to be caught by the clerk, and was scolded by the boss.

Since Yang Lijuan fell in love with Andy Lau, she stopped going to school. Her family found her a job, but Yang Lijuan didn't do it anyway. She has her heart set on chasing Andy Lau.

After Yang's father came, he indulged in it, selling his house, lending usury and even selling his kidneys to the black market. As long as it is what his daughter wants, he has never refused.

Overindulgence of her daughter and incorrect educational methods eventually turned a dream of Yang Lijuan into a nightmare for the whole family.

1997, the family took out a sum of savings, totaling 9900 yuan. At that time, money could buy a good car and even rent a store to do business.

However, Yang's family used the money to sign a tour group in Hong Kong, hoping that her daughter would meet her dream big star when she arrived in Hong Kong, but in the end she failed.

In order to continue to support her daughter's idol dream, her father retired early and sold the house at home for money. The whole family lived in a cheap house in short rent, and all the money for selling the house was given to Yang Lijuan.

Yang Lijuan bought many records, books and posters about Andy Lau. Playing Andy Lau's songs and his performances every day has almost become Andy Lau's "humanoid encyclopedia".

In addition, once Andy Lau comes to the mainland for filming or activities, Yang Lijuan will buy tickets to the idol's place. It's just that every time he goes after him, Yang Lijuan is disappointed.

In these days, Yang's father not only spent all his savings from selling his property, but even borrowed a large loan shark. The whole family life was distorted by Yang Lijuan's obsession with idolatry.

In 2005, my father and Yang Lijuan came to Hong Kong again. This time, Yang Lijuan booked a ticket for the concert in Andy Lau, intending to "cut" the idol after the concert, but he didn't see it in the end.

1 1 For years, Yang Lijuan failed to see her idol when she went to Hong Kong twice. Although she still didn't let go of her obsession, the Yang family ran out of money and the family slowly fell into the abyss.

The next year, father Yang accidentally learned that selling kidneys can make money. He thought to himself, "You can live without a kidney, so sell it." Without saying anything, he cut off a kidney through the hospital.

In order to realize her daughter's idol dream, Yang told the media this time. In 2006, "the father sold his kidney to fulfill his daughter's idol dream" became the most surprising news at that time.

In 2007, after thirteen years of idolization, with the help of the media, Yang Lijuan finally got his wish and met his idol Andy Lau. On March 25th, the media also specially arranged for Yang Lijuan to meet Liu Deli's fans, trying to get more people like Yang Lijuan to support the idol "Hua Zai".

However, this short meeting did not fill Yang Lijuan's inner desire, and she began to intensify, even offering to meet Andy Lau alone.

At that time, Hong Kong entertainment stars attached great importance to the relationship with fans. Once the "paparazzi" found out that they were in private contact with fans, that person's career was almost over.

Therefore, Andy Lau explicitly rejected Yang Lijuan's request.

Unexpectedly, Yang Lijuan's father committed suicide by jumping into the sea the next day and died unfortunately.

He also left a suicide note with a page of 12, insulting and condemning Andy Lau.

At the end of this suicide note, Yang remained opinionated and always stressed that Andy Lau must meet her daughter alone. And Yang Lijuan as a threat, must see Andy Lau, can't let his father died in vain.

Things have deviated from Yang Lijuan's original intention, and she has become more paranoid and crazy than before. But most people are on Andy Lau's side. After all, Yang Lijuan's behavior was extreme.

Andy Lau's agency knows very well that Yang Lijuan doesn't even want her father, just for this meeting. It is conceivable that there will be a second time and a third time after seeing it. Yang Lijuan's behavior will only drag them down.

Yang Lijuan, who refused to meet alone, decided to "kill Andy Lau". Mother and daughter began to sue Andy Lau, reporting that she and Andy Lau went to Southern Weekend together, claiming 300,000 yuan.

They sued because their father's life and mental damage were compensated, and no one could see her idol. Laughing at the same time, she felt more sad.

It's just that the mother and daughter are so heavily in debt that they can't even afford their father's burial expenses. Singer Yang donated 20,000 yuan to them after learning about it. He bluntly told the media: "I just hope their father can be buried as soon as possible."

Andy Lau also suffered more troubles because of the crazy behavior of Yang Lijuan, a fan. Many people call and threaten their lives in order to see Andy Lau.

During that time, Andy Lau canceled many concerts and even stopped any fan meetings that year. He also suffered from depression and received psychotherapy.

Even so, Andy Lau helped Yang Lijuan pay off all his debts anonymously.

Since then, in order to avoid the media questioning and condemnation from door to door, Yang Lijuan once remained silent. It's just that the story about her is still circulating on the Internet.

In the eyes of idolatrous groups, it is dubbed as "the originator of stalking Fan"; In the face of public opinion, she is the representative of the "waste generation" after 90.

In 20 14, Yang Lijuan was once again pushed to the stage by history.

She accepted Lu Yu's program invitation and stood up. Taking her past crazy behavior as a warning, she called on fans to be rational and worship idols. At that time, her heart had already calmed down and she no longer wanted to recall the past.

Today, Yang Lijuan is 42 years old and has returned to a normal life. Only after so many years of idolization, Yang Lijuan never had a chance to learn knowledge and skills.

Now she is a shopping guide in a supermarket in Lanzhou, with a monthly salary of 2,000 yuan and living an ordinary life. She and her mother live in low-rent housing, and the annual rent is less than 1000 yuan. Her mother lives on subsistence allowances and community relief.

After bidding farewell to her crazy past, Yang Lijuan no longer uses any social software today, but listens to programs on the radio at most. Now she just wants to make up for her past mistakes and treat her mother well.

It's just that Yang Lijuan didn't expect that her original behavior has intensified in today's idol worship circle.

The idolization continues, and even today a complete industrial chain has been formed. But anyway, I just hope that a tragedy like Yang Lijuan will never happen again.

Idyllization is ok, but please be appropriate.

Author: Bai Ziyang