Because life is too bitter, I must add this sugar to you.

I saw a video on Weibo where a boy confessed to a girl with a microphone. What moved me was a sentence.

The girl asked, "Why?"

The boy said, "Because life is too hard, I must add this sugar to you."

Yes, life is really hard. Sometimes I feel that what we have encountered is bitter enough, and as a result, others are more bitter than themselves.

I have a friend in high school, and the college entrance examination is coming soon. Her father was in a coma because of a car accident, and her mother kept it from her until the college entrance examination was over.

However, her father finally amputated. She is going to college at the beginning of school, and she has a younger brother to take care of at home. My mother has no job, and her father is the only one who makes money at home. As a result, the sky collapsed

I went to the hospital to see her and her father. Anyway, I am very grateful to the school and other students around me. At the last stage of leaving school, I called on all my classmates to donate some money to her.

There is a video about students after graduation, in which a person said, "When I was in the worst time, I made steamed bread and mustard tuber every day for a week."

I dare not tell my mother, and I don't have the confidence. I was fine at school, and I could still ask for pocket money. Now that I have graduated, I can't let them continue to spend on me. "

What I fear most is not to encounter a bitter thing, but to endure it as if it had passed.

But a lot of bitter things are put together, and those things will even make you lose confidence in life.

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If you don't see it with your own eyes, you will never know. For some people, just living has done their best.

Li Zhongquan, 87, originally had a happy family, two promising sons and a loving wife.

Life played a joke on him. Something happened to his eldest son and second son who were studying in America.

The eldest son is paralyzed and can't take care of himself. The youngest son, Qi Hao, returned to his parents in a coma. .....

From then on, all they have to do every day is wait for him to wake up, and wait for 24 years.

"Even if there is a glimmer of hope, there is hope, so I have been insisting until now." He said so.

Life always gives you a blow, and then gives you a bigger blow. Eight years ago, his wife also fell ill, suffering from angina pectoris and Alzheimer's disease, and the whole family life can only be borne by him.

Four years ago, Li Zhongquan, who was getting older, sent his wife to a nursing home in despair. After taking care of his son, he went to take care of his wife, even though she recognized him long ago.

As he grows older, he can't help thinking about his children's future, touching his son's face, and can't help whispering, "Come with me when dad dies ~"

Can't say despair and sadness, who would have thought ~

There are many such things in life, and sometimes even people around you feel sour every time they see them.

Before, many friends left messages in the background, telling their own stories and the problems they are facing now.

Someone told me that he was lovelorn today, and I wonder if his relationship will last long.

Some people say that he borrowed hundreds of thousands of money from his boyfriend and needs to pay it back.

There is also a private chat about me. My father was ill, and the cost of treatment overwhelmed him.

I watched 90% of every news in the background, some replied, and some didn't.

I probably don't know how to give you more positive energy After all, sometimes I feel sad.

More often, I can only watch and give you a hug. In fact, it is really insignificant.

But I also hope you can remember that there is warmth and someone has always loved you.

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One day, I suddenly found that many people who live alone are living a hard life:

Often a person is in a strange city, and finally he can't even afford the rent of the house.

For a better life, we are used to leaving with one phone call.

After getting used to working overtime, I will go back to a person's home after feasting.

Can stand the taste of a person.

You can take two boxes and eat two ice creams.

Know how to read the weather forecast in advance and prepare a medicine box at home, so that no one will find themselves sick.

If you are ill, you must go to the hospital alone.

There are also many instant noodles and snacks.

The phone number of takeaway and courier brother accounts for more than half of the communication records.

I miss my mother's cooking at home.

In the dark night, only this lamp on the table is still on.

Overtime, overtime, always overtime.

When I don't work overtime, I naturally wake up and order a takeaway with my mobile phone. It seems to be dark again.

I wonder what TV series is popular now. It seems like a long time since I watched TV.

I want to travel, so I packed my bags with great interest. As a result, my friend who made an appointment also left for something.

On Valentine's Day, even going to the movies was ridiculed as single dog. The last row booked a ticket for themselves and watched a movie called "Lonely Island".

But it doesn't seem too bitter. Those middle-aged people dare not bend their arms and shelter their families from the wind and rain.

Behind him are his wife and children who need protection. He can't fall. Even though I was scarred, I never dared to stop.

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A netizen said: "The collapse of modern people is a silent collapse. Seemingly normal, joking, fighting, socializing, seemingly calm, in fact, bad things have accumulated to a certain extent.

I won't slam the door and smash things, I won't cry, I won't be hysterical, but I may suddenly accumulate to the extreme in one second, I won't talk, I won't really collapse, I don't want to live, and I don't dare to die. "

The older you get, the more things you have to bear, and the less you want others to see your weaknesses. You can carry it yourself.

When we are young, we can just be ourselves, give ourselves some subsidies from time to time, and live a chic life.

With the growth of age, there are too many different identities, and each identity represents a certain responsibility.

Even sometimes we prefer to escape and live alone.

Some even exclude others from entering their own territory and are separated from the people around them by many units.

But there are still some moments when I envy those people who are in love, or the old people who walk hand in hand in the sunset.

I also want someone to talk with me at any time, share joys and sorrows, help me with my luggage, and jump into a person's arms like a swallow when I leave the station.

I also want to put my little self under my arm and whisper to you.

Talk to you about your favorite music,

Cook a happy meal,

There is even a funny toy in the street, which I want to share with you.

I always say to others, "I really want to find someone to talk about a super sweet love."

But, very cowardly ~

Dare to say and dare not do, even if you try, you are cautious, as long as that person is a little impatient and reflexively takes his hand back.

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Why don't so many people want to fall in love now?

I don't want to, but I want to talk about a real love.

Don't fall in love because you are old, and don't get married because your parents urge you to get married.

It's not because I'm too lonely. I want to find someone to accompany me and make a living.

Just because I saw you in the crowd, I was sure that if I wanted to get married, it would be with you.

It can only be you, not others.

So even if social activities are so hot, few people get married in the end.

Not everyone has the courage to taste the results, in case it is bitter ~

"Hey, when will you pick me up? Other children have been picked up. "

"Don't worry, turn around, I'm not far from you."

Yongtao Zheng, who works in Beijing, went to Suzhou on business to repair switches for a specialty store. She met Gong, a fellow villager who worked as a shopping guide in the store, and fell in love with this girl at first sight.

A pile of old Beijing-Soviet tickets witnessed the beauty and difficulty between them. Yongtao Zheng took many photos of girls and put them in the shape of love. They also met to see the sea, stepped on the soft beach and walked hand in hand in the sunset. ...

Just like the story of his friend and Jia Jia in the Big Ice Book, their love was opposed by the girl's parents, and realistic reasons forced them to compromise.

Life gives them opportunities to meet, but it also gives them hardships. The girl suffered from "acute myeloid leukemia".

Yongtao Zheng came to the girl's side the day after she learned the news. He took out all his savings to treat the girl, accompanied her with chemotherapy, cooked her favorite meals, told her jokes and accompanied her to open the black.

Fortunately, the girl's brother is half compatible with her bone marrow and can provide her with hematopoietic stem cells.

"When I'm ready, Xiao Tao said he would take me to the movies and go shopping. I also want to go to go to dali, to the grassland and to see the scenery I have never seen before. "

Yes, life is hard, and I don't know when and where to let you fall.

However, with you around, I don't feel any pain.

"I didn't want to get married before I met you. I never thought of meeting you and getting married. "

This is what Mr Qian Zhongshu said to his wife Jiang Yang.

I have also read Wang Xiaobo's book Love You as Life. He said to Li Yinhe, "I will let you say something I don't want to say to others every three or two days."

He also said, "I've been thinking about it all day. Let's go today. The faster the days go by, the sooner Li Yinhe will come back. Don't think this is disgusting, the fact is not disgusting. "

Wang Xiaobo in front of Li Yinhe loves her carefully, which is a bit childish.

"Li Yinhe, I am not bad now. My conscience is you, really. "

After such a bitter experience in life, we still refuse to give up and are willing to believe in true love.

That love is like a candy in your life and mine. When you are bitter, you will forget the bitterness of life, leaving only sweetness.

Li Zhongquan, 87, still insists on going to see his wife by tram every day, even though she doesn't know him anymore. She would beat him and scold him.

"I like her scolding me so that I can feed her more."

No matter how much suffering I encounter, I can persist with you around.

"Before I fall, I will try to take good care of Qi Hao and the mother of the child. This persistence will not change ... "

Even if time flies, some things will never change, and that is love.

You are the candy in my life and indispensable.

In this already difficult life, when more and more people choose to live alone, would you like to come with me to show me that there really is love?

I wish I could meet you earlier. When I cross everything that has fallen and fight for eternity, you are my flag.