How to start a chat topic

Wow! It is necessary to develop a communication way to open a chat topic. Yes, it is "giving value" chat, and she will be more active to you;

Why should chatting provide value? Will it be uncomfortable to ask for it yourself?

In fact, people exchange values.

When talking to people who are not so interested in yourself, you should take the initiative to contact them at first.

Because people's nature is to care about their own gains and losses, everyone likes to gain rather than lose.

If you can provide the other person with a sense of value in the communication, then she will feel close in the chat, and it is easy to double her goodwill.

1, high chat quality:

(1) Have you ever eaten meaningless expressions? What are you doing? Good morning, good night? Are you busy? .....

Talk about some trivial things in work, life and study every day, or about her, and they are all questions and answers, or have any emotional ups and downs;

It doesn't make sense, brother. It may even make people feel that you are bored and have nothing to do, but you will not be interested in you.

(2) Interesting chat

Things that can provide emotional value, practical value and face value in a wonderful chat make the chat have an ambiguous atmosphere.

Emotional values such as happiness, sadness, companionship, humor and sadness;

Strong professional ability, rich life, profound thinking about things and other practical values.

Of course, Gao Yan value has its own "face value", and they are all people who like to look good.

2. "Emotional value" ignites attraction

To put it bluntly, it can make the other person happy and she will like you.

She asked you, is my hat nice?

Just say, just so-so.

She said, huh? Besides, it's beautiful!

And then you said, yeah, people look better. That's getting closer and closer, and I kind of like them.

Of course, even ordinary chatting is indispensable, but we can't always chat in ordinary daily life. You should show your worries in the chat and provide the value of advantages.

Don't always talk about eating, saying good morning and good night, or saying something about work.

For example, when it comes to eating, he took a photo, and you said, hey, I can cook this dish, too, which shows your advantage.

Don't talk, there's no need to drag it to the front. If you talk too much, the mystery will disappear, which will make her feel that you have a strong sense of need.

Everyone likes to make friends with excellent people.

4, * * * * Love and empathy, she will be moved;

I told you today that girls need to find identity, and then find out what you have in common with her when chatting with her.