A little hot. Ok, how can I repay you with your cold violence?

You should answer: that proves that you can be more comfortable with me.

This involves a question of chatting. First of all, you should reply this message with a little sense of humor. Secondly, you should say how important she is to you. She is not dispensable, so there will be no problem in chatting.

Chatting should also establish comfort, which is to reflect the "unique particularity." The psychological basis of this is people's sense of being needed. In short, if you need someone, you will rely on him, and you will be happy because you are needed by him and feel valuable.