For parents, family education is first and foremost self-education.

August 29, 2019

Thursday ~ Weather: Sunny

Parent-Child Diary ~ 408

Summer movie "Little Joy" 》The TV series has touched many families. Due to time constraints, I occasionally watched a few episodes. The three families in the TV series are all representative. There is no fixed model for family education. Parents are accompanying their children to grow up and growing up with their children. , since children started going to school, parents and children have faced various pressures, and often had quarrels and conflicts. At this time, communication is particularly important. Parents should create a relaxed and harmonious family atmosphere; help their children set reasonable goals; and learn to communicate scientifically and effectively.

The process of educating children is not the process of parents becoming better themselves. The words and deeds of parents are a textbook that will last throughout their children's lives. If there is positivity in this book, then children can learn to fight bravely; if this book is full of hypocrisy and lies, how can we require children to be honest and upright?

If we resist our own growth and transfer the pressure of growth to our children, we will not be able to cultivate a truly outstanding child by relying solely on educational anxiety. Because family education is an imitation game, parents are a mirror of their children. What kind of person do you want your child to be? What kind of person do you want to become first? Just like the educational concept conveyed by "Little Joy": parents should pay more attention to examining themselves than examining their children. Learn more, recharge more, and constantly improve your overall quality. Today's world is a world of knowledge explosion. There is so much knowledge that we can never learn enough in our lifetime. Only by continuous learning can parents tell their children the secrets of the world.

Learn with your children. We must not only study, but also lead children to study together, guide children to develop the habit of loving reading and thinking, encourage children to research and explore on their own, and keep children always strong in curiosity and thirst for knowledge. This is how to guide children to make continuous progress. The only magic weapon. Enrich yourself and inspire your children.

In short, there is no end to children’s education, and there is no end to parents’ own education. Only by persevering can you see success.

I hope that in every family, parents will have more demands on themselves, be less harsh on their children, and cherish every little joy between parents and children. After all, as time goes by, a father-son-mother-daughter relationship is the most beautiful fate in the world. I pity the hearts of parents all over the world, and I wish all parents can give their children a healthy body and a bright future as they accompany their children to grow up.

Zhai Jingting’s father, Shengzhuo Experimental School, Kuiwen District, Weifang City