I said something from the bottom of my heart to the person I like. I really hope that my relationship with him can get better. If I get colder, I don’t know what to do?

Hello, I am An Ran, an emotional teacher under Lemon Psychology. I am happy to answer your questions.

When there is a gap in the intimate relationship with our lover, how should we restore and deal with it?

In the movie "Westward Journey", there is such a classic line:

"There was once a true love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it. It wasn't until it was lost that I Don't regret it.

If God gives me another chance, I will definitely say three words "I love you" to that girl. If I must add a time limit to this promise, I hope. It's 'ten thousand years'."

Zhizunbao did not get Fairy Zixia after all. In real life, Master Xing has always been single, leaving only the regret of this love.

In the face of lukewarm feelings, what should we do to fill the gap and let the relationship heat up quickly?

An official statistics shows that 99% of relationships can actually be saved. The key is whether we can master the secret.

01 Self-improvement

There is a saying on the Internet: "If you are serious, you will lose." This is indeed true in relationships. Even if we love each other very much and want to win each other back, we can't keep entangled with each other all the time. This will only make the other person hide away from you.

A true emotional master understands that "if you bloom, the breeze will come." This kind of self-improvement is not just external transformation, but also internal improvement.

02 Caring for each other

If you want to win a man's heart, you must understand what a man really wants, understand him from the bottom of your heart, care for him, and cater to him.

No one is a cold-blooded animal. As long as we take the time to understand each other's needs, we can make the relationship move forward quickly.

Emotions will have a running-in period. As long as you handle it correctly, you can have a different ending.

If you still don’t understand, please send me a private message.