In-depth analysis: What are the types of men cheating?

In-depth analysis: What are the types of men cheating?

I. Introduction

Almost every wife who wants to save her marriage is silently thinking: as long as he can break up with Xiaosan and come back to live a good life, I will forgive him and pretend that nothing happened. However, reality is slapping you. The more you think like this, the more arrogant a man is. Even if he broke up with Xiao San this time, he will secretly contact him later, and even Xiao Si Xiao Wu.

Is there any way you can forgive him again? Do you dare to trust him again? All the injuries in the world are not without reason, and so are men's infidelity. There is no such thing as confusion, impulsiveness or carelessness. It must be "planned for a long time"!

Second, life has no intersection.

1, because your lives have no intersection.

For example, if your husband is engaged to a colleague, then your marriage is either a long-term separation between the two places, or the man keeps his family as a hotel for a long time and works overtime on business trips every day. Family is already "dispensable" for him. After receiving such a case, after having a child, the man did not participate in the child's upbringing and education, and became the shopkeeper who chopped and chopped.

Women work hard at home to raise children and do housework to wait on him. He only cares about his own career, constantly working overtime and socializing, and there is no normal communication between husband and wife. The wife complains that her husband doesn't care about himself and his children. Husbands feel that they work hard to make them live a better life. After a long time, marriage becomes a "wasteland". When there is temptation from the outside world, it is easy for men to cheat, especially in social and work.

Third, there is something wrong with men's lifestyle.

2. Because there is something wrong with men's lifestyle.

For example, if your husband is always pestering women at night, he must be busy socializing every day or fooling around with a bunch of irresponsible friends. Or your local social atmosphere is like this, and this man has a problem with his marriage concept. She is from Fujian. Her husband has three "girlfriends" outside, one playing mahjong, one drinking and singing, and the other doing business. Every mistress has different functions.

Sleeping in a hotel with different women seven days a week. To this end, she quarrels with her husband every day. As soon as she met, she forced men to delete those hacked women, but she repeatedly banned them. The reason is that all my husband's friends have "girlfriends". Everyone compares who has more "girlfriends" and whose "girlfriend" is better.

Fourth, it can't meet the emotional needs of men.

You can't satisfy a man's emotional needs.

For example, if your husband suddenly wants to live by himself, feels that he has lived in vain, wants to live only for himself, wants to live selfishly, and is really in love with a woman outside, then there must be no emotional, psychological or even physical intersection between you. Some time ago, there was a message in the background that her husband was 45 years old and insisted on divorce after the derailment. After the divorce, he would not marry a mistress and only wanted to be free.

When she didn't agree, she dragged on, and her husband begged her, hoping that she would let herself go, and said to her: We have lost our feelings for so many years, and I reluctantly lived with you for family responsibilities. Now that the children are older, I want to live my own life. Don't worry, I will protect your mother and son's life after the divorce. You are still my relative, and I won't treat you badly. You don't have to worry that I will marry another woman. I won't get married again, and I won't have any children.

Please set me free. She insisted on not agreeing, and the man kept taking her to court and insisted on leaving! However, no matter what the situation, almost 80% of men want to cheat on their marriage, and only 20% of men will be crazy and just want to marry mistress. However, in the face of an derailed marriage, wives are often eager to communicate with men, eager to have an attitude and eager to make a choice.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) is invalid communication.

When your heart is full of anxiety and fear, when you are emotional, it will only increase contradictions, entangle with men, and miss the best opportunity to save your marriage. Many wives will tell me that I communicate well with him and I am calm. We didn't quarrel, but he just didn't cooperate.

Because what you do is ineffective communication, men will certainly not cooperate with you! I talked about the basic principle of effective communication: mutual benefit! You must find the common interests of both of you before you talk to him. Effective communication is good for you and good for him! The biggest mistake of many wives in conversation is to talk about their own requirements without telling men what is good. If you don't find this benefit, a man won't want to solve the problem with you, so he will send you away in the most convenient way.