Diary of Pairing, Familiarity and Walking "New Edition"

Lead: Pairing can narrow the distance between people, consolidate the feelings of all ethnic groups, and contribute to the harmony and stability of the country and society. The following is a model essay on the diary of pairing betrothal for your reference.

Pair up, recognize the relatives, and leave the relatives diary 1 20 1* year * month * day * week * weather: *

Earlier in the weekend, I bought 3 kilograms of apples, 2 kilograms of bananas, five naan and tea, milk tea powder and so on. My husband and I drove to the second group of Daxigou Mucun to visit relatives of poor households. On the way, I gave them to uncle horse, who is several years older than my father. I called him and told him that I was on my way to his house. He happily promised them to be at home.

When he got home, his married third daughter came back and was already helping him clean the room and yard.

Under the leadership of Ma Laobo's daughter, we went straight to the old couple's room. There is only one room, civil structure, about 20 square meters. Although this room is very old, it is very tidy.

When he entered the room, Ma Laobo was absent and turned to go out. From the open door, he saw Mrs. Ma coming into the house with crutches from the corner of the yard, and quickly stepped forward to meet the door and sat down. Without saying a few words, Ma Laobo came back on a simple motorcycle, in good spirits, unlike a 77-year-old man at all.

Explained our purpose, we learned the information in the table we brought and carefully recorded it one by one. Uncle Ma is particularly talkative today. He introduced his six children, three sons and three daughters to us with great interest. Both the eldest son and the second son run canteens, and their lives are OK. The second son is in Beitun, and in the summer, the second son is driving his parents around Beitun. After returning home, I gave my parents 1 0,000 yuan in cash. The boss bought the old man coal for winter, clean oil and flour for home use. My daughter is married and her life is average. Ma Laobo didn't expect his children to help him. He just wants them to live a good life and feel better than anything else. The only thing he can't get over is his third son. Although there are two old people living next to them, their lives are not good, which breaks their parents' hearts. The happy old man was followed by a sigh!

We changed the subject and talked about the payment of the new rural cooperative medical system. The old man said that the new rural cooperative medical system should be paid by one person 180, and both people should go to 360. Money was tight a while ago, but it's better now. He plans to pay tomorrow. Speaking of this year's harvest, Ma Laobo said that corn seeds, fertilizers, hydrazine and other poverty alleviation materials sent by the hospital at the beginning of the year also played a role. He planted corn on 3 acres of land, and the harvest was not bad. He is going to sell it in the spring, and it is estimated that he can earn 2000 yuan. He said happily that his wife was in poor health this year. Every family in the team built a house with the help of the government. His house is too old. When there is a flood in summer, the walls are a little brittle. He said that he planned to build a house next year, improve housing conditions and let his wife spend the rest of her life in the new house.

In the laughter, time passed quickly, and it was already noon. The old man's daughter cleared the table and put on the dishes I brought, as well as the sour plum sauce honey made by her family and the steamed mutton buns sent by her eldest daughter-in-law. The old man said that this honey is authentic honey and very delicious. We responded and tasted it, and really thought the sour plum sauce and honey were authentic and delicious!

Drinking hot tea and eating seemingly simple but affectionate meals, the air is filled with warm flavor. The old man grinned with a big mouth, and his kind smile seemed so warm, saying that they were happy old people and the party was good. They are really lucky and satisfied to catch up with such a good era at this age. The words reveal the determination to know the party's gratitude and follow the party. He said that the * * * production party is concerned about people's livelihood and indifferent to the people, which makes him full of love for the * * * production party.

After dinner, everyone was in a bad mood, so they moved the bench to the yard and took a family photo together.

When we left our relatives' house, Ma Laobo and Ma Aunt insisted on walking us to the gate with crutches and kept saying thank you!

Back to work, I use family photos as my computer desktop. My colleague came in and saw it. He jokingly said, hey, this old Muslim looks really good. Why does he look a bit like your husband? I smiled and responded: relatives must have relatives!

This visit made me know more about the life of Ma Laobo's family. During the previous visit, I only learned that Ma Laobo and Aunt lived on the pension of 1 10 yuan every month. Now I know that there is still some income, as well as the care of children. I feel very comforted for the old man.

May the two old people be healthy and happy, and may the old people build a house next year and let their wives live in a new house as scheduled.

Diary of pairing relatives and visiting relatives 2 20 1* year * month * day * week * weather: *

I'm going to get married in southern Xinjiang, and the place to get married is in shache county, a distant Kashgar region.

1 1 is the early winter season, but the temperature difference between north and south is very large, often cold in the north and warm in the south. When I got up in the morning, I struggled to take off my sweater and trousers and ran to the airport trembling. Think too much or haven't met in shache? Relatives. The airport was crowded with people. As usual, although I was born in Xinjiang, I seldom went to southern Xinjiang, and I didn't get married with ethnic minorities. This time, I went to South Xinjiang to recognize my relatives according to the organizational arrangement, and my heart was full of joy and anxiety.

Due to the differences in religious beliefs and customs, I seldom get in touch with ethnic minorities. In order to promote exchanges between ethnic groups and social stability and long-term stability in Xinjiang, the central and autonomous regions have decided to make full use of Xinjiang? National unity, family? The opening work of the activity is to call on the broad masses of cadres and workers to get married and recognize relatives in minority areas in southern Xinjiang. After the task was assigned, the cadres and workers reacted strongly and rushed to each other. For a time, television, radio, newspapers and micro-groups paired up everywhere, and everyone tried to recognize their loved ones. As a cadre in Xinjiang, even if you are not emotional, you should leave.

There are so many relatives that it is difficult to buy a train ticket. Fortunately, the unit leader decided that we should buy discounted air tickets to Kashgar, and then transfer to the bus to shache. During the waiting period, colleagues sent WeChat? A good man is in the office! ? Think about it, too. It's really not easy for government cadres now, with more and more work and heavier tasks. They can't visit their parents once a year when they are busy, but according to the regulations, they must visit their relatives every two months after they get married. I hope that the sincerity of cadres can win the true feelings of the masses, and I can hear from my relatives in the future? Jaxy, official cadre! ?

Arriving at Kashgar airport, it was already four or five o'clock in the afternoon, and the sun was still burning. It seems that it is right to change clothes in the morning. Time was short, so I ate a bowl of noodles next to the airport to pad my stomach and rushed to shache sweating.

Along the way, looking around, there is not much green and more dust. Due to lack of water, the air is full of sand, and cars run over it, making it dusty, so that the sky here is very close to the earth. The special geographical environment makes the melons and fruits in southern Xinjiang especially sweet and famous. There are fruit stalls along the way, filled with piles of brightly colored pomegranates, apples and red dates, and even cut cantaloupes. Unfortunately, there is no time to stay and taste. The land in southern Xinjiang is very flat. On both sides of the road are tall and straight poplars, and there are many jujube trees and cotton fields where people live. There are many saline-alkali beaches and desert Gobi in uninhabited places, and the scenery is relatively simple. Everyone in the same car slept soundly, only I looked straight ahead. The sign shows that shache county still has120km.

To be exact, our wedding place is Shache Farm in shache county. The farm is located in the hinterland of Taklimakan desert, more than 20 kilometers away from the county seat. This is a small farm, which can hardly be found on the map. The farm was founded in 1966 and was once a local state-owned unit. Because of its special geographical position, it is a part of the local government and the Corps, and its economic, social and productivity development is relatively backward due to several changes in its subordinate relationship. No one wants to stay in a poor and backward place. Fifty years later, the permanent population of Shache Farm is less than 500, and the proportion of ethnic minorities and poor workers is high. Since? 7.28? After the terrorist attack in shache, Xinjiang, the strategic and political status of Shache Farm has become increasingly prominent. In this situation, the Party Committee of the Corps decided to speed up the development of farms and enhance the ability to maintain stability and defend the frontier. It feels heavy and sacred to be arranged here to recognize relatives. At the same time, I still have some doubts and fears: is Shache Farm safe? Do the relatives who will be paired know Chinese? Are ethnic minorities friendly to others? Do they understand the purpose and significance of pairing to recognize relatives? Everything is unknown, and the answer can only be revealed when you get there.

As the sun went down, I saw clusters of villages surrounded by farmland in the distance. The core area is two small buildings nestled together. The driver told us that Shache Farm had arrived. Before the car stopped, the door had been opened by the long-awaited farmers. Shake hands, say hello, help with bags, and confirm the accommodation room, all of which are thoughtful and enthusiastic, just like the sunshine in southern Xinjiang. Director Qi said that the farm had held a mobilization meeting yesterday, which conveyed the spirit of the superior document and made detailed arrangements for the wedding. The determined marriage partners are beaming and passionate, and they are all busy changing clothes, cleaning and preparing meals at home to prepare for receiving relatives. Just now, a few people gathered around here and refused to leave, saying that they would meet their relatives overnight. Hearing these words of comfort, my uneasy heart suddenly calmed down by half. It seems that my relatives are not much worse.

Shache Farm in the night is quiet and soft, and a crescent moon is waiting in the silent sky. There are no crowded and noisy cities here, and even dogs barking in the countryside can't be heard. There are often no dogs in safe places, and my heart is getting more and more practical.

165438+1On the morning of October 9th, the pairing ceremony was held as scheduled. Just entering the conference room, smiling faces and warm hands greeted him. Ashimos. Hello! Tonusik Nimuddin! Nice to meet you? Although it is the first time to meet, I don't feel strange at all. After introducing yourself, you call me brother and I call you big brother. We talked and laughed, holding hands with each other and hugging each other with open arms. The little flower hat is buckled on our heads, and the timid ones are still rubbing their hands in confusion, and the lively ones have already made jokes. There is no need for deliberate matchmaking, and there is no need for special wooing. In less than half an hour, pairs of strangers became congenial friends and affectionate relatives, which is the true expression of human nature. ? There are more than 56 flowers in 56 ethnic groups, and 56 ethnic groups are a family. ? That's absolutely true.

My relative's name is Abdul Sameti? Tulson, with shabby clothes, dark skin, unkempt hair and young age, obviously lacks vitality. At first glance, his life is very stressful and difficult. Abdul Sameti's Chinese level is not high and he is not good at talking. He opened his mouth several times and didn't say three or five words. He just looked at me with a simple smile and eagerly dragged me to his house as soon as the wedding was over.

The yard of Abu Dhabi Sameti is small and tidy. Two rooms, one large and one small, collude with each other inside and outside. They are all built with heatable adobe sleeping platform. There are tapestries on the kang, but there are no tapestries on the wall. The big house is very cold and there are few things. There is a small iron stove burning in the hut, with a large iron pot, a wooden board for cutting vegetables on the water tank, an old wooden table full of sundries, a woman with a scarf around her head and a black skirt kneading dough in the basin, and an old TV set of 12 inch on the kang. The room is very crowded. When I entered the hut, the woman who made dough turned and smiled at me. She quickly brought me a plate of walnuts and a plate of black bananas. Abdul Satira, I sat down on the kang and introduced the woman to him. Ocean jar? (Wife), I can't speak a word of Chinese, and I can't understand it. ? Ocean jar? A little embarrassed, I didn't understand a word of Uighur. Translated by Abdul Sameti: What my wife means is that there is really nothing delicious to entertain you at home. I'm terribly sorry. I hope you don't mind. ?

Because of language communication barriers, we don't talk much. At least, Lian Bi guessed and let me know the basic situation of his family: Abdul Sameti is 32 years old and his wife's name is Bouasse? Turdi is 28 years old this year. She has a son, a daughter and two children. The oldest goes to primary school at the age of 8, and the youngest daughter goes to kindergarten at the age of 4. Abu Dhabi Sameti's family also has a mother, two younger brothers and a sister. 36 mu of cotton has been planted this year, and the yield is not high. I collected seven tons of seed cotton, and even the capital borrowed in the spring was lost. No one works at home, and there are few livestock. * * * There was a cow rowing in direct proportion to six sheep. An elderly woman pushed the door in with her child in her arms and greeted me with a smile. Abdul Sameti said that this is the daughter of his mother and brother and lives next door to his home. I heard that my relatives came to see me specially. My old mother is very kind and kind, staring at me almost intently, pointing to walnuts and bananas and saying? Horsey? My brother Abdul Samaiti rubbed out walnuts and stuffed them into my mouth. Sister-in-law Bouasy kept adding tea to me and indicated that the noodles in the basin were my lunch. The lovely little niece leans straight against me, and the small space is full of deep love. Their simplicity and friendliness also dispelled my last concern.

I ate noodles for lunch, and each person had a big bowl. Only my bowl was buried with dried meat. To tell the truth, I really can't eat, but the enthusiasm and care of my relatives simply make people have no choice. Let's eat, although the meat is fat and chewy.

During the dinner, Abdul Sameti's younger brother Ai Erken? Toulson is here. He is a kind and talkative young man in China. According to him, my father left home when he was very young, and his family was very poor. My brother dropped out of primary school before he graduated. Because I have no education, I can't read books on planting techniques, I can't speak Chinese, and I dare not go out to work. He pays for farming every year. I speak Chinese very well, because I like to make friends with Han people. I used to work in other places. Now that Shache Farm has expanded, there are more opportunities to make money. I came back and bought a high-powered motorcycle with a loan from a Han friend. The fare has been earned back this year, and it will be net profit next year. I asked him? Ocean jar? Where did you get married? He proudly replied:? Shache county's! In the past, the farm was poor and the family was poor, so girls didn't come. Ocean jar? I can't get married Now the state has invested in the construction of farms, sand dunes have been leveled, deserts have turned green, and they are everywhere in Gai Lou. The farm is getting more and more beautiful every day, and the girls outside are scrambling to get married without giving a bride price. ? Then he said confidently:? If you don't work hard now, you can't speak Chinese, and you can't make Han friends. Han friends can make money if they know culture and technology. I raise my mother and my sister, but my brother can't. I'm going to buy another car next year and I'll make a lot of money soon! ?

While doing farm work in the field in the afternoon, a pigeon landed leisurely on Abdul Sameti's shoulder. Abdul Sameti said that he keeps pigeons, and all the cattle, sheep and chickens in his family have a good relationship with him because he is very kind to them! In fact, it is true that people are not like this. If we can truly fall in love with each other, communicate sincerely and blend sincerely in the work of pairing and recognizing relatives, the flower of national unity will certainly bloom invincible. Facing the difficulties of life, Abdul Samaiti said that he would watch CCTV TV programs every day, learn Chinese well and try to live as well as his younger brother. I may have noticed that the noodles at noon were not to my taste, and repeatedly asked if I wanted to continue eating at his house at night and kill pigeons for me. Although the language communication is not smooth, it does not hinder our emotional integration at all. His poverty and kindness deeply touched me. Shakespeare once said: A kind heart is gold. ? I firmly believe that there is such a good minority support policy now, isn't there? National unity, family? With the guidance of activities, my Abu Dhabi Samaiti brothers will surely make a fortune.

When I left Abu Dhabi Samaiti's house, my relatives and family took me to the hospital gate. My old mother is not afraid of He Zi Khan? Tuzun took my hand and said reluctantly, My son's name is Abdul Samaiti. Since you have become brothers with him, why don't you call him later? Alimu? Ok, this name is easy to remember. ? I readily agreed, and immediately felt that I was leaving home. My old mother took me for her other son.

On the way back, I have been thinking deeply about the short time and simple marriage of this trip to southern Xinjiang, the life of Abu Dhabi Samaiti's family, the habits of ethnic minorities in southern Xinjiang, the present situation of Shache Farm and the future of workers. Everything has given me a great public education and spiritual baptism, and also made me know more about development? National unity, family? The meaning of the activity.