Chatting silently with girls about first aid.

Talking to girls about first aid in the ice?

There is no topic in the chat silence. The root cause is:

First, the differences between men and women's thinking

Male thinking is very rational and direct; Women's thinking is very emotional and reserved.

You know, when girls chat, they don't like to talk about sports, racing, military affairs, politics, etc ... They like to talk about gossip, jokes, romantic feelings, etc ... They want to express their feelings more when chatting with girls, so they must not be too direct and take care of their feelings.

Second, the mentality is not relaxed enough.

Why is there no topic when chatting and racking one's brains? It is because you are very formal with girls and care about whether girls are interested in what you say.

You can think about it from another angle.

When you are chatting with familiar friends or family, of course, you will have no topic, because the familiar environment gives you enough tolerance, and you don't need to think too much when chatting.

When you are chatting with a girl you like, you always try to hide your nervousness by chatting because you are nervous. The more you try to hide it, the more you rack your brains to find a topic, which will make the chat atmosphere more and more embarrassing.

Because your mind is not relaxed enough, your inner insecurity, and you are not confident enough about yourself, there are always not enough topics to talk to girls.

How can we resolve the embarrassment of chatting silence?

First of all, express yourself truly.

First of all, relax enough before dating and chatting, and put your mind right first. When chatting, you should really express yourself.

When the chat scene is awkward, you can just say:

"How do I feel chat now have no topic? Feeling embarrassed? " "You may think it may be bad to say so, but when you say so, the girl's answer is basically:

"No, I feel very comfortable staying like this for two people."

In this way, girls will think that you are real, confident and strong inside.

Second, prepare the topic in advance

If you really don't know how to chat with girls, my suggestion is that you prepare some topics in advance and write them in the memo.

Like about eating.

"What do you like to eat?" Can you cook? ""What kind of food do you like? " "Which store has delicious food?" "Where do you often eat? "

About hot entertainment topics:

"Which star do you like?" "What do you think of a star?" "Have you ever chased a star?" "Which star do you like to watch TV or movies?" "Did you want to be a star when you were a child?"

Topics about hobbies:

"Do you usually like to travel?" "Do you have the habit of exercising?" "Do you pay attention to wearing things?" "Where do you want to play most?" What project do you want to play most? ""Where have you been? "

Give yourself a reference in advance, and you can use it to cheat when there is really no topic to talk about. I hope you can chat with girls no longer without topics.