All the skills you want to know to improve your eloquence are here.

In your life, do you feel that no one wants to listen to what you say?

In the communication with friends, do you always offend your friends inexplicably?

When you want to sell products, do you always miss many opportunities because you can't speak?

If your answer is yes, then you must read the book Super Eloquence Class. Because this book contains almost all communication skills and methods in life, as well as a guide to action, it can really be regarded as an eloquent guide.

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This book brings together the communication skills of many interpersonal experts and the successful experience of business elites. Starting from the common social occasions in daily work and life, various eloquence skills are decomposed into 100 knowledge points, covering speaking principles, persuasion eloquence, communication eloquence, praise eloquence, negotiation eloquence, criticism eloquence, debate eloquence, speech eloquence, humor eloquence and taboo. There are both theoretical guidance, coping strategies and case analysis.

The book is comprehensive in content and flexible in form, and readers can read it at any time in their spare time to create their own first-class eloquence. When I finished reading this book, I felt I had to share it. I believe that after listening to or reading this book, you will definitely improve your eloquence on several levels.

Brief introduction of the author

Shi Shaowu, Doctor of Business Administration, Chairman of Yi Sheng Group, Executive Director of Cai Hui Financial Investment Co., Ltd., Excellent Tutor of "Innovation and Entrepreneurship" of Ministry of Education, Vice President of Asia-Pacific Economic Leaders Association, Executive Vice President of Hong Kong International Investment Association and Founding Vice President of China Industry-University-Research Investment and Financing Alliance.

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Part one: Nine principles of speaking.

In the book, the author lists nine principles of speaking, namely:

Rule 1: Think twice before you speak. Before we speak, especially on important occasions, we can't let emotions affect our expression.

Principle 2: Speak on different occasions. Before you speak, consider whether this sentence is suitable for the present situation.

Principle 3: Communication should be a curve rather than a straight line. You must learn to communicate tactfully, not directly.

Principle 4: Make what you say easy to understand. To do this, we must ensure that what we say is concise and accurate, speak Mandarin, don't care about other people's slips of the tongue, and don't be sarcastic behind others' backs.

Principle 5: Have an inner dialogue with each other. Always pay attention to the change of the other person's expression and adjust your words and deeds in time according to the change of the other person's expression.

Principle 6: Speak differently for different people. First of all, we should learn to distinguish different conversation objects, and then choose appropriate conversation methods according to different conversation objects.

Principle 7: After doing something wrong, you might as well review yourself first. It's not terrible to do something wrong, just admit it in time and sincerely.

Principle 8: Don't vouch for others easily. Doing what you say is one of the most basic principles in getting along with people.

Principle 9: Don't speak proudly to depressed people. Learn to assess the situation and not say anything inappropriate.

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Part II: Eight Taboos of Speaking.

In the last part of the book, the author also gives eight taboos that we should pay attention to when speaking. What can't we say?

Taboo 1: Speak freely. Don't let your mouth hurt you, learn to talk less and listen more.

Taboo 2: Poke others where it hurts. Never mention hurtful topics in front of acquaintances or strangers.

Taboo 3: Get along with leaders and say inappropriate things. So, what words are not suitable to say? In the book, the author gives nine quotations.

First, say "whatever" or "whatever" when answering leadership questions.

Second, say to the leader, "I have known this for a long time."

Third, say "you have worked hard" to the leader.

Fourth, say "too late" to the leader.

5. Say to the leader, "What you did really touched me".

6. Don't be too cautious.

Seven, say to the leader, "I think it is very difficult."

When accepting the task assigned by the leader, say "Yes" or "Yes".

Don't argue if you accidentally say the wrong thing.

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Taboo 4: What you shouldn't say when you get along with foreigners. Then, let's see what topics are there!

First, the issue of age.

Second, love or marital status.

Third, income and expenditure.

Fourth, good health.

5. Personal experience.

Sixth, beliefs and political positions.

What have you been up to recently?

So, what can we talk to foreigners about?

I have been in Australia for so many years, and I have also summed up some topics that I can talk to foreigners. But it may not be all right, it will vary from person to person.

We can talk with foreigners about other people's hobbies, local news, chatting and so on.

Taboo 5: There is no limit to joking. You must be measured when joking, and don't joke about each other's privacy or shortcomings.

Taboo 6: those inappropriate words at the banquet. So, what can't be said at the party?

First, don't pretend to be polite and over-persuade alcohol.

Second, don't be emotional and flatter each other.

Third, don't belittle others.

Fourth, don't cry roast meat.

5. Don't lose your temper after drinking.

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Taboo 7: those inappropriate words on a date. When dating, you should not only talk about yourself, but also learn to listen. Also, when you speak, your expression must be natural, your speech must be clear and your words must be simple and clear. Besides, don't forget the power of praise.

Taboo 8: What cannot be said between husband and wife. A large part of the reason for divorce is that couples speak without scruple. When you are with your husband and wife, what are the things you should never say? Don't talk about divorce easily, don't be too critical of each other, and don't be cynical.

In fact, there are many ways to improve our communicative eloquence, but if we just pursue more methods blindly, it will have no practical effect on our communicative eloquence. Only by operating the methods you already know well can you really learn communication skills and really improve your communication eloquence.

Learning communication is a basic skill for us. We should not only learn how to express ourselves, but also learn to use the art of language to establish contact with more people. As Dante said, "As a tool, language is as important to us as a fine horse is to a knight. The best steed suits the best knight, and the best language suits the best thought. "