The meaning of the full text of Di Zi Gui

Parents should call, don't drag down their lives, and don't be lazy.

Parents should respect and listen to their responsibilities.

It's warm in winter, warm in summer and calm in the morning.

Sue when you go out, but face it.

Although things are small, don't be overjoyed.

Although things are small, don't hide them.

Do what you like, do what you hate, and do what you want.

Physical injury brings sorrow to parents, while mental injury brings shame to parents.

Dear, why is it so hard to be filial to me and hate my filial piety?

Pro-advice makes me more comfortable, my color is softer and my voice is softer.

Dare not remonstrate, can cry, can complain.

If you are sick, try it first and stay in bed day and night.

It is often sad to live in a land of sorrow and joy after three years of mourning.

Worship the deceased, offer sacrifices, and serve the deceased honestly.

Translation:

Parents should answer the phone in time, don't answer slowly. When your parents tell you something, you should do it at once, without delay or lazy refusal.

Parents teach us how to be a man, so we should listen respectfully. When parents blame lessons, they should accept them with an open mind.

Serve parents attentively, warm their beds when it is cold in winter, and make their beds before going to bed in summer. When you get up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. Serve parents to sleep at night.

When you go out, you must tell your parents where you are going, and when you go home, you must report to your parents in person to reassure them.

In daily life, we should obey the rules and do things according to the rules, and don't arbitrarily change the cause handed down from generation to generation.

Even if it is a small matter, you can't make a decision without telling your father. If you go your own way, it will be unfilial to be a child.

Although public property is small, it can't be taken for yourself. If so, there will be a lack of morality, and parents will be very sad to know.

Children should try their best to prepare everything their parents like; Things that parents hate should be carefully eliminated.

Take care of your health, don't let your body get hurt, and let your parents worry. Pay attention to your character cultivation, and don't do anything against morality to shame your parents.

Parents love us, and filial piety is not difficult to achieve; When our parents don't like us, or when our discipline is too strict, we can also reflect on ourselves, understand our parents' wishes, try to correct them and do better. This kind of filial piety is the most valuable.

Parents are at fault and should be advised to correct them. Persuasion should be sincere, and the voice should be soft and pleasant.

If parents don't listen to persuasion, find the right time to continue persuasion; If parents still don't accept it, we will cry and beg our parents to mend it, even if we are beaten, we won't regret it.

When parents are sick, children should take care of their parents, taste soup and medicine, and (once seriously ill) serve them all the time, never leaving the hospital bed.

When your parents die, you should be filial for three years and always remember the kindness your parents raised. During the mourning period, the place where I lived was also changed to simple, and alcohol and meat were forbidden.

Handle parents' funerals according to etiquette, not carelessly, and be sincere when worshipping. Respect your dead parents as before.

Be a younger brother

Brothers are friends, brothers are respectful, and brothers are filial.

What's the point of hating property? What's the meaning of words?

Or after eating or taking away the old and the young.

Call a person long and call a person far away.

Don't call your elders by their first names and don't look at their abilities.

Lu Yu's long illness worsened, and he was speechless, ready to stand.

It's still more than a hundred steps to dismount and get off.

Don't sit for the elderly. Sitting for the elderly is sitting for a lifetime.

It is not appropriate to whisper in front of elders.

Advance is retreat. Don't move if you have a problem.

Treat your father like a father and treat your brother like a brother.

Translation:

When you are outside, what you say at home is the way brothers get along and the rules of getting along with their elders. Brother should be friendly, brother should respect, family will be happy, parents will be happy. Filial piety is also among them.

If brothers don't care so much about property, resentment won't arise.

Words can be tolerant, and contradictions and resentment will disappear without a trace.

Eat, sit and walk in life with humility and courtesy, and children should be orderly. The older ones are preferred, and the younger ones are behind.

When an elder has something to call someone, he should call for him. If that person is not here, he should offer to help.

You can't call your elders by their first names, let alone show off your talents in front of them.

When you meet your elders on the road, you should salute and say hello quickly. If the elders don't talk to us, stand back respectfully and wait for the elders to leave.

Whether riding a horse or riding a car, you should dismount or get off to greet your elders, and wait for them to leave for about a hundred paces before getting on or leaving.

When the elders are standing, the younger generation should stand with them and don't sit down first. If the elders sit still, we can only sit down if we are allowed to.

When talking to elders, the voice should be soft and moderate, but the volume of the answer is too small to hear clearly, which is also inappropriate.

If you have something to do in front of your elders, you should move forward quickly, and if you leave, you should quit slowly. Listen attentively when the elders ask questions, and don't look around.

Respect your uncle and other elders as your own father, and love your brothers and sisters as your own brother.

3. Kindly

It is easy to cherish this time by getting up early and going to bed late.

Wash your hands, gargle and urinate in the morning.

The crown must be straight, the buttons must be fastened, and the socks and shoes must be important.

The clothes with a crown are positioned, so don't mess them up and cause pollution.

Clothes are expensive, but cleanliness is not. China calls home.

Don't be picky about your diet, but don't overdo it.

Don't drink when you are young. Being drunk is the ugliest.

Take your time, stand up straight and take a deep bow to show your respect.

Not practicing the threshold, limping, leaning back, leaning back, shaking a moustache.

Don't touch the edge when you slowly open the curtains.

If the virtual device holds the rest and enters the virtual room, if someone.

Don't be too busy to make mistakes, don't be afraid of difficulties and don't be careless.

Never go near noisy places and never ask anything.

Ask who will get started and who will save, and you will hear voices in class.

People ask who is right to name me, and I don't know.

Don't ask is stealing.

Don't worry about borrowing things in time.

Translation:

We should get up early and go to bed late. Time flies. We should grasp in time and cherish our youth.

Be sure to wash your face before getting up in the morning, and then brush your teeth and rinse your mouth. Wash your hands after defecation and develop good hygiene habits.

Wear the right hat and button your clothes; Socks and shoes should be worn evenly, and shoelaces should be tied tightly, so that the whole body can be neat.

After returning home, take off your hat and clothes and put them in a fixed position. Don't throw them around to avoid wrinkles and stains.

Dress neatly, not expensively. Dressing should consider one's own identity and occasion, and also measure the family's economic situation.

Don't be picky about food and partial eclipse in your daily diet. Enough is enough and don't overdo it.

Don't drink when you are young. Being drunk and making a fool of yourself is the ugliest thing.

Walk slowly and stand up straight. Salute and greet respectfully.

Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, don't stand against the wall, don't stretch your legs and don't shake your legs when sitting.

Gently lift the curtains when you enter the door and try not to make any noise. When walking and turning, you should keep a wide distance from the corner of the object so as not to hurt your body.

Take empty utensils as carefully as those full of things. When you enter an empty room, you should act as if someone is there. You shouldn't be casual. ?

Don't be in a hurry, you will easily make mistakes when you are in a hurry, don't be afraid of difficulties, hesitate to retreat, don't be hasty, and handle things casually.

All the bad places that are prone to quarrels and fights, places of right and wrong, must not be near. Never ask evil, bizarre and absurd things.

Ask if there is anyone at home before you start. Don't barge in When you want to enter the hall, raise your voice first and let the people in the hall know.

If people in the room ask who you are, you should say your name, not just "me" or "me", so that others don't know who it is.

You must ask for permission before you can borrow something from others.

If you don't get the consent of others, it is equivalent to stealing.

Return the items borrowed from others immediately after use; If someone borrows something from you, don't be stingy.

4. letter

You say your words first, how can you cheat and ridicule?

It's better to talk more than to talk less, but not smart.

Swearing, foul language and gossip are strictly prohibited.

Don't speak out of turn when you see the truth, and don't spread what you know.

Don't make mistakes if you don't want to.

Where the words are comfortable, don't be hasty or vague.

Gossiping is none of his business.

Seeing people's kindness, thinking strange things will go far and gradually converge.

If you see someone who is evil, you will introspect. If you have it, you will change it without adding police.

Self-discipline is better than virtue.

Don't be sad if food and clothing are not as good as people.

I have heard of anger, fame, happiness, hurting friends and benefiting friends.

I'm afraid I'll be surprised to hear fame, and I'm afraid I'll be surprised to hear happiness

Translation:

Speaking, we must first pay attention to credit and keep our promises. Tricks such as deception or sweet talk should never be done.

It is better to talk less than to talk more. It should be true, don't say anything unrealistic.

Bitter words, dirty words and the vulgar tone of street hooligans should be effectively removed.

Don't express your opinions easily before you know the truth; If you don't know things clearly enough, don't spread them at will.

Don't easily agree with unreasonable things; If you agree easily, you will be in a dilemma.

Speak clearly and slowly, and don't speak too fast or vaguely.

When you meet others gossiping, you should use wisdom to judge, don't intervene and don't mind your own business.

When you see the merits and good deeds of others, you should immediately look up to him. Although there is still a long way to go, you can catch up with him gradually as long as you are willing to work hard.

See other people's shortcomings or bad behavior, first reflect on yourself. If so, correct it, if not, be careful not to make the same mistake again.

People should attach importance to the cultivation of their own morality, knowledge and talents. If they feel inferior to others, they should encourage themselves to work hard.

As for the way you dress, or eat worse than others, you don't have to worry about it, and you don't have to worry about inferiority.

If a person is angry when he is told that he is wrong, and happy when he is praised by others, then his friends will get close to you, and real friends will gradually leave you.

On the other hand, when you hear praise from others, you will not get carried away, but will reflect on yourself, fearing that you have not done well enough; When others criticize their shortcomings, they are not only not angry, but also willing to accept them, so honest people will gradually like to be close to us.

An unintentional mistake is called a mistake. If you make a mistake on purpose, it is a crime to make a mistake on purpose. If you know your mistake and can correct it, you will make it up.

If you not only don't admit your mistake, but also cover it up, it is a mistake.

5. Pan-fans

Everyone must love the sky and share it with others.

People who walk high have a high reputation, while those who value high are not tall.

A talented person expects to be persuaded by an arrogant person, but he won't talk big.

Don't be selfish about what you can, and don't despise what you can.

Don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant, don't be tired, don't like the new and hate the old.

Don't disturb or talk when others are not idle.

Don't expose people's shortcomings, and don't talk about them.

Kindness is kindness. The more you know, the more you think.

To preach the evil of others is to do evil.

Good advice and morality have caused violations and losses.

There are points in taking it, and there are differences in your value. It is advisable to have more and less.

Ask yourself if you want to quit.

If you want to repay kindness, forget to repay kindness. It's been a long time.

Being a maid and servant is kind and generous, although it is expensive.

Persuade people, or persuade them to be speechless.

Translation:

Everyone should love each other, because everyone was born in heaven and on earth.

People with noble virtues will naturally gain fame and fortune. Everyone respects his virtue, not his appearance.

A talented person has an extraordinary reputation, but people admire him because of his ability, not because he can talk big.

If you have the ability to serve the public, don't be selfish and don't be reluctant to pay. We should learn to appreciate and admire the talents of others, not envy or slander them.

Don't flatter the rich, and don't be arrogant in front of the poor. Don't like the new and hate the old.

For busy people, don't bother him with things; Don't disturb others with words when they are in a bad mood or feel uneasy.

Don't expose other people's shortcomings, and don't publicize your privacy.

Praising others' good deeds is doing good deeds. When the other person hears your praise, he will definitely encourage good deeds.

To publicize the shortcomings or shortcomings of others is to do bad things. Too much criticism will bring disaster to yourself.

Friends should persuade each other to be kind with benevolence and morality, so that the cultivation of both sides will be improved. If you don't persuade others' mistakes, you and the other person's morality will be lacking.

The acquisition and giving of property must be clearly distinguished, giving more to others and less to yourself.

Get along well with others. Before adding something to others (asking others to do something), we must first ask ourselves: If it were me, would you like it? If you don't even like yourself, don't force others.

Always trying to repay the kindness of others. If others are sorry for themselves, they should be lenient and forget it. Don't dwell too long on resentments and forget the past. As for others' kindness to us, we should be grateful, always remember it and always think about repaying it.

Treat the servant girl at home, pay attention to your own moral integrity and set an example. Although moral integrity is very important, kindness and generosity are more valuable.

If you force others to obey, they will be dissatisfied with it. Only by convincing others with reason will others be convinced and have no complaints.

Step 6 be kind

It is also the hope of people with different qualities, vulgarity and benevolence.

Many people are crazy, and they dare not speak out.

It is good to be kind, and it is good to be virtuous and enterprising.

If you don't treat others well, you will hurt the bad guys.

Translation:

The same person, good and evil are evil, but the spiritual level is mixed. There are many laymen who follow the trend, but few who are kind and loving.

If there is a benevolent person, everyone is naturally afraid of him, because he speaks impartially and does not please others.

It is best to be close to people with kindness, which will improve our virtue and reduce our mistakes.

If we don't get close to the benevolent gentleman, there will be endless harm, because unscrupulous villains will take advantage of it, bring us bad influence and often destroy a lot of things.

7. spare no effort to study literature

Who will learn to be flashy without practice?

But don't study literature and make your point of view unreasonable.

There are three ways to read: heart and mouth.

Don't admire each other when you read this, and don't get up until the end.

Wide is the limit, tight is the work, just work.

If you are in doubt, follow the notes and seek justice.

Several boxes of clean walls, clean pens and inkstones.

Ink grinding is eccentric, improper words are disrespectful, and heart disease comes first.

There is a fixed place to list ancient books, and there is a place to restore them after reading them.

Although there are urgent rolls and bundles, there are defects and flaws that can be made up.

Don't hide your cleverness and ulterior motives unless you are a holy book screen.

Don't give up, don't give up, saints and virtues can be tamed.

Translation:

We should not live up to the moral principles of filial piety, filial piety, honesty, faithfulness, fraternity and kindness, and study blindly. Even if you have some knowledge, it will only increase your flashy habits. What's the use of reading like this?

On the contrary, if you just do it blindly and refuse to learn, it will be easy to be willful and blind the truth.

The method of reading should pay attention to three aspects: eyes, mouth and heart, which are indispensable. To learn knowledge, you must be single-minded and specialized in order to go deep. )

This book has only been read for a short time, so don't envy others. Don't read other books until you have finished reading this book.

When making a reading plan, we might as well set a more relaxed reading period. In the actual implementation, we must work harder and strictly implement it, and we must not be lazy.

After a long period of hard work, the original obstacles were blocked, and the difficulties and doubts were naturally solved.

When in doubt at school, you should always take notes. Ask your tutor whenever you get a chance to make sure you really understand its true meaning.

The study should be neat and clean, and the walls should be kept clean. When reading, pens, ink, paper, inkstones and other stationery on the desk should be placed neatly, not messy, and everything should be in order, so as to calm down and study.

The ancients wrote with a brush. Before writing, they must grind the ink. If you are absent-minded, the ink will deviate from the center. If your handwriting is crooked, it means you are impetuous.

Books and textbooks should be classified, arranged neatly, put in a fixed position, and put back after reading.

In spite of the emergency, you should put the book away before you leave. If your books are defective, you should repair them and keep them intact. Books that are not about sages' words and deeds, as well as bad books and periodicals that are harmful to physical and mental health, should be discarded to avoid being polluted physically and mentally, blinded by wisdom and unhealthy in mind.

When encountering difficulties or setbacks, don't give up on yourself, don't be cynical, and see nothing pleasing to the eye. You should make up your mind to study hard. Although the realm of sages is high, it can be reached step by step.