My current boyfriend used to be Neptune.

I am handsome now, but not very handsome. Pay attention to temperament, can talk. Especially in love, it will make people happy. There is some money at home. Family situation such as contractor. Very considerate. I like doing housework and cooking for me. Like to take care of me until I can't take care of myself. There are also many people of the opposite sex who like him.

I used to be in better shape. Now I'm getting fat. I haven't gained weight since my present job. But after getting fat, I met the present one. Now I am slightly fat. Clear height 166cm. The opposite sex is good and the family is well-off. Bachelor degree. Currently preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. Belongs to the type of girl who is very smart but doesn't like learning. Personality is cheerful on the surface, but extremely insecure. It seems easy to get close, but it is hard to get into people's hearts. Like to test people.

I met the incumbent in my soul. Look here. It may not be surprising that the current position is Neptune. I use Soul to share the daily life of cats. I used to be a big fan of cats. Say cats can say three days and three nights. There is a roof on the soul. Don't fall in love, just answer questions about cats. Nothing else will be returned. There was a time when I was interested in incense. So I posted a post, looking for someone who knows the fragrance of thread. At that time, I just lacked such friends around me. None of them understand. Then I met my present job. Soul, for him, is not only a place to fish, but also a place to sell incense and develop sideline business. By the way, although he is cynical, he is really persistent about what he is interested in. I like incense and believe in Buddhism. (By the way, believing in Buddhism doesn't mean you're not Neptune. Because in his previous cognition, as long as there is no substantive relationship. There's no harm in simply saying hello. He is developing me into a client.

Later he happened to have a cat. Just asked me a question about cats. Before we begin. Our chat frequency is twice or once a month. Only when the cat has a problem will he ask. The questions asked are limited to cats and incense. Because his first cat died in the meantime. Because business is bad. So he gave it a clear ambiguity. Because I answer questions. I must know that the cat is sick and dead. He told me about the causal cycle. There are six ways in the world. This kind of Buddhist thing. I know he believes in Buddhism.

We talked like this. Half a year later, I saw his photo for the first time, which was amazing. The reason is that his brother was caught by a cat and asked me if I should get rabies vaccine. There is a kitten behind him. Show me the photos taken, the severity. I casually said that the photo of his brother is happy. But I think it's impolite to say so. Just say I'm handsome. He sent his photo and said, is he handsome? I first saw his photo. I recognized it as a dog. But I'm a dog, and this is just the basic criterion to measure whether I can be a boyfriend. Just an admission ticket. No matter how handsome, there is no connotation. I can't get through here. I don't judge a book by its cover, I just judge a book by its cover. But we must start with the face value, be trapped in talent and be loyal to character. Without the support of those things behind. It's no use. I won't start like this. The image he gave me in the past six months was only positive. I can deeply feel that he is a Buddhist.

There are few photos of me in the circle of friends, and I also had a boyfriend when I first met him. I never talk to boys. Whether I have a boyfriend or not. As long as you are not the person I like, not my boyfriend. I will not say hello to you, absolutely not allowed. Not even inclined. I'll cut you short. So I am not Neptune's target. Everything he said to me was a very appropriate restriction. After we got together, I asked him why he had such frivolous language to other girls. The answer he gave me was that Neptune would actually see how much it costs to talk to a girl like you.

He is actually good at reading people. He knew I wouldn't say hello. Very positive from the beginning. He has a bottom line. It's not that I'm not his target, but that he is actually the kind of Neptune who cooks for everyone. At first, he added me because of something serious. Thinking about making money. Because he was too lazy, he was hot for three minutes. Actually, he didn't make any money from me. Ha ha. It's far from looking at photos. It's really my aesthetic point. Hmm. But I am a good reader. I can see it from his photos. I know the expression, the eyes and the temperament. Not ordinary people. More or less. Just look at the waves. He belongs to the kind of person who greets you, but will not replace you and will not make you public. But I won't have sex with you. Because his bottom line is sex. He was appointed by Buddhism. I won't elaborate on this. Anyway, he believes in Buddhism, very much. There is no way to violate it.

I am a bold girl, so I told him directly that I was interested in you. I like your appearance. The feeling he gave me in the early stage was also relatively positive. So it's a gift. We haven't seen each other for half a year. Then we talked in detail all night. We will be together. He carefully chooses the other half. It was announced in the first week together. He talked to me when he got home that night. Tell his mother about me. Tell his brother about me. Introduce me in various ways. He has seen my photos before. Just because you have fewer friends doesn't mean you don't have them. He approved of my appearance, my attitude towards the opposite sex and my three views. Is that he had a crush on me before. But I have a boyfriend. The sea can be the sea, but don't cross the moral bottom line. Someone who knows that someone else has a boyfriend and still shows affection for you. It's a little inappropriate. In my opinion, I despise it. He can do this to you or to others. To put it bluntly, there is no lower limit. So when he heard I was interested in him, he was actually very happy. I'm not casual I treated him for half a year, and I can feel that he is more active. To put it bluntly, his Neptune is a way of life for single men and women. But for me, I actually don't accept it. Because I think the appropriate limit is divided into people, not whether he is single or not. Don't talk to others. Hello. You don't think it hurts, but you do.

I didn't ask him about his past after we got together. He confessed to me a very disgraceful past. I did accept it. Because it's no longer glorious. Far enough away from me. But I didn't say I used to be Neptune. It can be said that Neptune was a month before you and I were together. Every day after that, we were fine. Everything is sweet. There are almost no contradictions. Share the daily life of others when they are in love. We fall in love and talk about Taoism, Buddhism, life, philosophy and traditional culture. Explain, don't spray me: Although he is ignorant, others like to read books, all of which are China traditional culture, Buddhist scriptures and so on. Don't be surprised. People are very complicated. No one stipulates what Neptune must look like, because we are all people who like to dig deep into things. It is because of this feature. So I haven't digested his experience with Neptune. I won't tell you exactly what to talk about. Anyway, it's the kind where normal people fall in love and don't talk all day. My friend said that listening to us fall in love is very brain-consuming. On May 1 day (three months later), we rushed to the scene (online dating), and the result was naturally good. According to his later description.

In the usual video, I am the kind of beautiful woman who looks more budding. Real people are so beautiful. Mainly because I know that I have gained weight, chubby girls have to take a sexy route. The usual makeup is also relatively light in Europe and America. Usually playing video is very dull. It is impossible not to dress up for the first time. Of course, I like him very much. When I met him, I was more sure of my favorite type. Raise your hand and cast your feet. It can be said that you like all your hair. There was no embarrassment when we first met. Everyone is going well, as if they have known each other for a long time. Because it was very hot in Chengdu that day, he traveled a long way. (I'm in the south, he's in the north) I'm very tired after sitting all day because I changed my hairstyle. It's natural for everyone to hug each other when they meet. Both of them are too tired. Then I really felt unprecedented peace of mind. He's happy. I can feel it. He gave me the passwords of all his social accounts at the back. I can watch it if I want. And although he is at work, he is not happy at work. He is learning other survival skills. Because that's the condition of our marriage.

Even in a different place, he always keeps his voice on at work and won't hang up. Sometimes he will give me a video to show me what he is doing. Just him. Give me the right to supervise him. Of course, even so, I still firmly believe that if he wants to lie to me, of course I don't know. So I use my way to build what I want. Sometimes he will ask me no matter what he does, how he loves me and how he pays for me. Not as good as what he used to do. Actually, it's not like this. It's not that I choose to turn a blind eye, but that what he did can't build the sense of security and trust I want. The sense of security and trust I lack can only be rebuilt in my way. This is the difference between people. I'm not saying that my way is good, but if two people want to go on like this, they must compromise and give in to each other.

Of course, I stress again that I am not suggesting that you adopt my way, but because everyone has different growth experiences, he will have his own way to build a sense of security and trust. People are different. Almost every subsequent anti-quarrel was in the middle and late stages. At the height of his emotions, he realized that I was educated to quarrel because of the past, so he quarreled with him. At that time, it was impossible for him to give up his mood at once, but once he knew that I had turned against him because of the past, his mood would immediately drop significantly. And he will gradually adjust his mood, and then mainly. As for such frequent quarrels in the last two months, he is almost always like this.

So at present, a certain sense of security and trust has been established. Speaking of which, that's enough. I think we can make some endings. Everything I say below cannot be a single measure, but should be looked at comprehensively.