What kind of experience is mother's menopause?

I am the mother of two children. Although I went through menopause for a long time, I also suffered for a long time. Let me tell you about the experience of someone who has experienced it. This is a process that every woman must go through for your reference.

Everyone's physical and physiological conditions are different. Some climacteric conditions reflect sooner or later, some are heavy or light, some climacteric conditions do not last for a few years, and some people will be fine in two or three years. Under normal circumstances, when women are around 408,950, there will be obvious menopausal reactions both physically and psychologically.

Climacteric phenomenon has both physiological and psychological (emotional) abnormalities. At first, one day, for no reason, I suddenly felt feverish and sweaty all over my face, and then suddenly disappeared after a few seconds, which made me wonder what was going on. I didn't take it seriously at first, once or twice a month. With the increase of age, the interval of this situation is getting shorter and shorter. At first, it is several times a month, once a few days, and two or three times a day when it is serious. In winter, I will suddenly get hot. What followed was that the monthly menstruation began to be abnormal and the disorder was less. Later, with the growth of age, I came once every two or three months to once every six months or two or three times a year until menopause.

I didn't know my physical reaction at first, but later doctors and people around me didn't care much. Some people are relieved to find a doctor to take some Chinese medicine to recuperate. The reaction in my heart is that I am impatient, easy to do, irritable for a little thing, seriously depressed, asking for trouble, and feeling that everything is not going well. The key to this situation is to find out the reason and adjust your mood, and not indulge yourself. It is still possible to overcome your restraint. Do more things you like. Listen to music, find happiness and adjust your mood. At this stage, family members should be more concerned and considerate, more understanding and tolerant, and less concerned and enlightened. Both men and women have menopausal reactions, understand each other and spend their physiological periods with each other. As the saying goes, you are menopausal, ignore him! It means to let her husband, children and relatives give more care, understanding and love at this stage, help her through menopause and make her family happier.

Mom, what kind of experience is menopause?

I am a mother, and I have passed menopause, but unfortunately, I have no experience of menopause, unlike hot flashes, irritability and insomnia as mentioned in the book. I don't have any of these symptoms, but I have witnessed my friend's menopause.

Many years ago, I traded in the stock exchange. Most middle-aged women sit in a row of chairs. Several people of similar age are going through menopause. Obviously, there is air conditioning in the hall, but they sweat from time to time. A sister simply took a towel, and the clothes she took out were all wet. People who don't know the situation think that she is sweating because of the stock market decline. In fact, she is going through a special period in her life. Others are prone to impatience and inexplicably lose their temper during menopause. Everything you say in front of her is wrong, and everything you say is wrong.

At this time, the family should give more understanding, especially the husband, learn to be patient and give more care to his wife, especially An Wei in spirit, who regards female menopause as a disease in a special period, tolerates his wife more and spends special periods with women.

Someone told me about menopause. "Menopause" varies from person to person, and its duration is different. Some people pass without feeling, while others are very sad and uncomfortable. It is an involuntary distress, which is caused by endocrine disorder after menopause and needs time to recuperate and recover.

Menopause began at the age of 50, and it came suddenly. I was fine for a few days at first, but suddenly I became irritable for no reason. I don't know why. I don't like watching anything, and I have to worry about getting angry about a little thing. That kind of anxiety is with yourself, with adults and children, and will calm down when you get there. What followed was poor sleep, loss of appetite for food, dislike of going out, and even feeling uncomfortable at work. I liked to stay at home quietly ... for more than two months. I feel very puzzled myself, asking myself again and again, what's wrong with me? Why am I not who I used to be? I used to be very happy, but now I am anxious all day. What the hell is going on? I'm not afraid of jokes, but I suspect I'm not possessed by ghosts, right? I hate this mentality, which makes me more anxious. Later, my sister said to me, "Don't worry, you are a menopausal reaction, a pathological state caused by physical changes. Women have this experience, so don't worry, it will be fine after a while. " My sister is ten years older than me. Her words made me feel relaxed. I've only heard the word menopause before, but I really haven't seen it. Then I went online to check the information. When you are upset, hide in a deserted place and calm down slowly. I can't tell you exactly how long it took. Once our whole family was together to package jiaozi, our son suddenly said, "Mom, I found that you have stopped worrying recently, and you have recovered." . Oh, it suddenly occurred to me that yes, I haven't been in a hurry for a long time. I slept well and had a good appetite. I also like to go shopping. Calculated by fingers, it takes almost 7 months from the appearance of menopausal symptoms to the end. After that, everything will return to normal.

Finally, I want to say that people with upright menopause need care and love. Don't follow them, because all her manifestations are pathological reactions of endocrine disorders, which are involuntary and need time to recover automatically. Everyone's care and love are very important.

I am a mother, and menopause is very painful. When I went to the hospital, the doctors all knew me. I was dying when I went to the hospital. When I went to the hospital, I saw a doctor. I was not sick. I can't tell you what it's like to go through menopause. My face is red, my heart is pounding and my blood pressure is high. I was sick for a long time, and I controlled myself, thinking that it was nothing, but it was really painful. It's lighter than before.

Hello, teacher. What kind of experience is mother's menopause? I am a mother. After menopause, some people have changed their personality during menopause. People worry easily. Lose your temper. I suddenly have a kind of Korea. Sometimes I get upset. I can't say how uncomfortable it is. Some menopausal people don't know anyone. I can't help myself. Nobody likes it. Generally speaking, this stage of menopause is not easy. This is a road that every woman has to go through. This age starts at the age of 47 or 48, and it doesn't start until the fifties. I won't be able to go until I'm over sixty. Menopause is easy to forget things. Sometimes I don't want to talk, communicate with others, have no courage and get scared easily. Suffer all this silently, this is my own opinion, I don't know if it's right.

I am a 50-year-old mother who has reached the legendary menopause. It's a good thing I don't have menopausal syndrome. I am peaceful and have a good time every day. When I can't control myself, I don't think about things and don't interfere. My daughter graduated from graduate school this year, and I have no anxiety at all in the most difficult employment season. I leave everything to time. I believe my efforts will be rewarded. All I can do is wait for good news!

But 30 years ago, I felt my mother's menopause, which left a deep impression on me. I thought menopause was still terrible!

I just graduated that year. I am the oldest in my family. My sister doesn't like studying and has gone to work. My younger brother went to junior high school, belonging to a family with a strong will but no strength, but my mother was competitive and always felt that her life was not as good as others. At that time, I remember what she said most: who works in the factory, how many people help at home, how many people say hello when walking on the road, and how many people's wives are from other places. The tone is full of dissatisfaction with her father, who has not brought her a glamorous life. Actually, my dad is not bad in the factory. I feel that I have lived in my father's aura since I was a child, and I am not worth mentioning to my mother.

One noon, my sister came home from work and left her bike for work downstairs. That is a new car that my father just bought for my mother. My mother didn't want to ride it, but my sister used it. Unfortunately, when I went to work in the afternoon, my bike disappeared downstairs. Then my mother flew into a rage and scolded my sister like a dog. Looking back now, how can those words of being a mother be scolded? Sometimes I shudder when I think about it, and my mother will be afraid at that time.

People at that time probably couldn't understand these problems from the heart. In addition, there are many children at home, and the pressure of life is great, so I can't manage my emotions. The problem of menopause is more prominent. However, after all, my parents raised me and gave me life. I still have to be filial and die for them.

I am a mother, and now I am in menopause. At the age of 50, I entered menopause and my temper became dry. I have insomnia, hot flashes and sweating. Because I used to be a very good-tempered person, and now I get bored when I talk about it. My husband and daughter say that I have changed, especially my husband. He said I used to be a little sheep, but now I'm like this. Actually, I know I shouldn't lose my temper, but I just can't control myself. There is also insomnia, I can't sleep at night, and I have to go to work during the day. My spirit is very bad. It is very uncomfortable. Later, I went to the Chinese medicine department and prescribed several Chinese medicines, which were very effective and relieved the symptoms. Later, as long as there are symptoms, I will prescribe Chinese medicine. I hope to get through menopause early. But after menopause, I also entered an aging society.

My mother is a typical rural aunt, and the impression of her menopause is a little trivial matter, with her father quarreling and her grandmother quarreling. First of all, my grandmother, who are sworn enemies, often staged a mother-in-law war, and we are used to it. However, when my mother was in menopause, I had the impression that she would get angry every time she saw my grandmother. If we were present, we would persuade my mother to calm down. If we're not there, maybe we can't stand it and get angry with each other. My mother has had a lot of grievances with her grandmother from before, and they will never be solved. Where's my father? Because my father is slow or disorganized, my mother is impatient and has a menopausal temper. As soon as she came up, she shivered with her father. My father felt wronged too, but he still talked back to her mother. The two men had a fight and ignored each other. This kind of thing basically happens once every three days. Sometimes two people can have a cold war under the same roof for ten days and a half, or even have three meals a day, and ignore each other. Every time we call home to make peace.

As a girl, I understand my mother very well. Just like menstruation, I am upset for no reason before coming, and menopause is also very painful. Sometimes she will feel better when she goes home on holiday and listens to my mother's complaints to help her solve her worries. I also bought various supplements, and she thought it would be better to listen to her nagging more. Later, the second sister gave birth to a baby and asked her to help. Slowly, there were fewer wars at home, and the feeling of menopause came to an end.

To sum up, menopausal mothers may not say anything uncomfortable, but they are very anxious. What you can do is to listen more, understand more and transfer more. There is also a critical moment when male compatriots need to understand, care for and tolerate women and accompany their mothers through menopause.

She will get hot flashes and sweat easily. She likes cool things. When the weather is hot or sultry, she will feel uncomfortable. Minimize her time in the kitchen.

Her patience may not be as good as before. She is not impatient with you, but her mood fluctuates involuntarily. Try not to argue with her, show her some comedies or make her happy and calm down.

Due to the lack of estrogen, bone mass will be rapidly lost during this period, which is easy to cause osteoporosis. Give her calcium, don't let her jump rope or do strenuous exercise, so as not to cause sports injury. Some mothers are prone to knee swelling and pain during this period, and it is a little difficult to climb stairs or walk. Pay more attention to your mother and spend more time with her in the sun.