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How to comfort girls when they say it's too hot?

First, the purpose of chatting The ultimate purpose of chatting is dating. In the early stage, I established a sense of comfort with girls through chatting, and made girls happy with humorous jokes. At this time, I also need to master some flirting and chatting skills, so that she can feel ups and downs when chatting with you, make her feel very congenial to you, and finally give the girl a sense of security to ask her out. If your chat has been dull, she will naturally have no feelings for you after a long chat. For example, a girl says it's hot, and you only know how to treat her to ice cream, but you don't know how to promote your relationship with her. In the end, I will only enter the friendship zone with her or become a spare tire. Second, girls say how to respond humorously 1, thinking in reverse. The so-called reverse thinking is contrary to the usual thinking. For example, when a girl asks you a question while chatting, you will answer the question directly because of inertia thinking. There is nothing wrong with this reply, but it can't stimulate the emotional ups and downs of girls, and chatting naturally becomes boring. If you want girls to feel your special and humor, you can reply to girls with reverse thinking humor, which may make girls giggle immediately. Example: Female: "It's really hot today" Male: "Then turn on the air conditioner quickly" (general reply) Male: "I'm freezing to death, please help me neutralize it" (reverse reply) 2. Deliberately misinterpreting girls. When girls tell her that they are hot, they usually help girls solve their problems seriously, such as letting them find a cool place to rest. How can a girl? In fact, girls are just sharing their emotions with you. If you are too serious, you will lead the chat to a dead end, or even have nothing to say at the end. At this time, they can deliberately misinterpret the girl's "spicy" meaning to increase the interest and continuity of the chat topic. For example, a woman: "Why is it so hot today?" Male: "You won't take off all your clothes now" (deliberately misinterpreting the meaning of girls) Female: "Fuck you, you have to take off all your clothes" (arousing the emotional reaction of girls) Male: "You have such a good figure that taking off your clothes will make women all over the world jealous" or "You can't take it off" 3. Make fun of yourself. I believe everyone knows that thick-skinned boys are more likely to find girls, which is realistic. This is precisely because they dare to laugh at themselves and laugh at themselves. They are not afraid to chat with girls and say the wrong thing, but they will make girls feel that he is very real and grounded. Laughing at yourself can also make girls think you are interesting. Therefore, when chatting with a girl who says she is very spicy, we can try to do the opposite and reply humorously to the girl by self-teasing. For example, female: "It's too hot today" male: "Yes, I'm almost sunburned. I'm almost burning up." Woman: "Ha ha ha, why are you so funny?" Man: "Do you want to be my little flame?" Woman: "How?" Man: "I look at you. You look at me. At the moment when our eyes met, your mouth was too sweet. " How to comfort girls when they say it's too hot? 2 1. Girls don't respond well. The girl's bad reaction shows that her emotional state is very unstable at this time. Besides, it's not appropriate. The weather is already hot and dry, which may instantly detonate girls' emotions. So the correct way is to listen patiently, comfort and let the girl know that you understand her, and then the relationship will be much smoother. For example, a woman: "I am very upset today, and I feel terrible." Man: "This bad weather makes you unhappy. What's wrong? " Woman: "The boss blames me for not being able to do this, so I'm not worth it now. I will buy you an ice cream after work. Let's fire the boss together. " 2. Girls' reaction is average. Don't say to girls, "This is a very logical way to reply. Logical chatting can't arouse girls' emotions, and even make girls who have a good impression on you lose interest in you, so try to make chatting interesting. Example: Female: "It's too hot to do anything" Male: "I'm blowing air conditioning in the air-conditioned room at this time." Female: "Che" Male: "Grandma Feng is my sister, and I'll ask her to send you a bag of wind later" (role-playing) 3. Girls are having an affair with you. If you are having an affair with a girl, then. If the current conditions are inconvenient, we should continue to enhance the ambiguous atmosphere with girls. Ex: Female: "It's too hot" Male: "You need an ice cream when you pinch your fingers at this time. I feel very cool when I think about it. " Woman: "Ha ha, you are really good at calculating. Are you a fortune teller? " Man: "Why don't I treat you to ice cream after work and then go to the movies?" How to comfort girls when they say it's too hot? Many boys deliberately misinterpret it. In fact, girls are just sharing their emotions with you. If you are too serious, you will lead the chat to a dead end, or even have nothing to say at the end. At this time, they can deliberately misinterpret the girl's "spicy" meaning to increase the interest and continuity of the chat topic. 2, self-teasing, I believe everyone knows that thick-skinned boys are more likely to pick up girls, which is often staged in real life. This is precisely because they dare to laugh at themselves and laugh at themselves. They are not afraid to chat with girls and say the wrong thing, but they will make girls feel that he is very real and grounded. Laughing at yourself can also make girls think you are interesting. Therefore, when chatting with a girl who says she is very spicy, we can try to do the opposite and reply humorously to the girl by self-teasing. 3. Vaguely reply female: "Honey, it hurts me to death" male: "Then I will help you undress" or "You remind me of a shy picture" or "I am a small air conditioner, and chatting with me can cool you down" 4. Direct date Female: "Honey, it's too hot today" Male: "Then I'll take you to eat ice cream after work" or: