Problems in life: There are always some strange things in life. What is the reason?

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A friend asked:

I have a college roommate. She has encountered several strange things recently, and she is a little scared. I happened to see your column in Zhihu, so I wanted to ask you something.

She has a good life, no illness and no disaster, and her parents are both good, but from a very young age, she felt sick as soon as she entered the temple. I used to think she hated the smell of fireworks. Since last year, she has broken three mirrors in a row, all of which are toilet mirrors in the dormitory and hung on the wall. I saw them twice, and she stood in front of the mirror to make up, and then the mirror broke with a bang. Now that I have given up buying a mirror, I'll stick that mirror with tape.

These things are strange, but my roommate thinks it's no big deal since it doesn't hurt the body. But a week ago, she lived at her boyfriend's house. The Buddha statue that her boyfriend had left at home since childhood fell off three times in the middle of the night. It was really scary. The first time and the second time, I felt unstable, but the Buddha statue has not fallen for more than 20 years. Later, his boyfriend even fixed the base of the Buddha statue with hooks and ropes, but it didn't take long for the hooks to fall together. The two of them said they were scared and stayed up all night. There was no one at home that day except them, as evidenced by the video of the corridor. And I'm sure it's not the cabinet

I just want to know, what is going on in this situation? Roommate said she wanted to buy a safety buckle. Do you think this will help alleviate this situation?

Reply:

There is a reason for this situation, but the truth is not what most people can believe and understand.

Why does a person's birthday carry the information of this life? It stands to reason that a person's life came to this world by accident, and the future development of a person's life should be uncertain, but the information in the eight characters clearly records his life's poverty, wealth and misfortune, even the information of marriage and parents and children. What the hell is this about?

There is only one possibility, that is, this life is not a simple life, but a past life and an afterlife, and this life is only a fragment of the complete life course of this life. Everything in this life is the result of past life behavior, and what you do in this life will affect the afterlife of a life.

Give an example to illustrate.

When we sleep, are we connected with the world? Do you have any contact with your relatives around you? Are you in touch with our friends and colleagues? Do our debts to others have anything to do with our lives? This has nothing to do with it, of course. But when you wake up, everything in the outside world is connected with us. Our life is just like today. Our old life was just like yesterday. Our afterlife is our tomorrow and the day after tomorrow.

Therefore, we can't wake up and deny what happened yesterday and everything we have because all the people and people disappeared at that moment because of our connection with the world last night.

If we owed someone money yesterday, he will surely come to collect it today. If we don't pay it back today, he will come to beg for it tomorrow or later.

When a life dies, it is not really dead, but has a soul. Soul exists in the state of microscopic particles, and we know that human life information is holographic. Every cell in our body carries complete information about our life. In the microscopic state, the connection with other life in the world still exists.

Your friend's situation is that she had debts with her before she had spirits, and those supernatural situations caused by those spirits. When she went to the temple, she had a special reaction, because there were many people in the temple praying for God's wishes. Some of them think that God's message is very strong, and your friend's spirit doesn't like it very much, so it acts on your friend's physical and mental state and keeps her away from these places. Because these spirits exist in another space, there is no real threat to your friends at present, and their feud may end at some point in the future.

In fact, this situation also exists in other people, but if a person's yang is strong, the mental body can't help it and can't get close to the body, so there is no vision.

Let your friends keep good thoughts, become sunny, care about others, associate with people with positive energy, and do some good things to help and care about others, and this situation will be reduced and eliminated. Based on the theory of thorough elimination, it is another topic, so I can't elaborate here for the time being. If you want to know, we will talk about it in another article.

Reply: Kindness is quality. Quality is innate and acquired. This kind of life is pure when it comes, which is innate. Show tolerance and forbearance. The day after tomorrow lies in enlightenment and environmental influence.

For example, some people get excited when they see blood, and they get upset when things happen. This is because the microscopic substances that make up this kind of life are stagnant and turbid, and their tolerance is poor. But some people can't bear to see others suffer, and seeing a weak life will arouse their inner desire for protection. This is because they are soft and tolerant. The material that can bear and tolerate is delicate and elastic, which shows the purity and beauty of its material.

Having an impure life, later education will make them kind-hearted and behave correctly. Life that comes from pure material will be changed the day after tomorrow because it is close to Zhu Jinmo.

There is no distinction between good and evil in personality, only differences in behavior. Personality will affect fate to a certain extent, but it will not change a person's quality.

You can try to change your state in this way.

It is to use a table to fix the schedule of your life and work. At the specified time, no matter whether you have finished what you are doing or not, you should resolutely put it down and do what you should do in the next time period. Strict implementation, regardless of the consequences.

In this way, you will have to pay for the consequences of your delay and the money loss you caused.

The knife cut your finger, bleeding, and it hurts deeply, so you will remember it, and you will honestly finish what you should do within the specified time next time.

Reply: When people are in adolescence, the germination of such feelings is very emotional and difficult to control. You choose an excellent literary work, trying to fully understand the thoughts, feelings, growth experiences and life experiences of the protagonist there, and experience the rich inner world of an excellent character. In this way, your vision will be broadened. When you look back at the young boys around you, you will realize that they have not grown up, can't bear the responsibility of love, have no ability to love, and don't know how to cherish beautiful girls. So you're growing up. You begin to have the ability to distinguish and restrain. Let's go

A: People's life, in different growth periods, have different inspirations and gains from studying the Tao Te Ching. Because Tao Te Ching talks about the principle of the operation of heaven and earth, we can learn the principle of the change of everything and the principle of reading people and doing things in the world. And how to understand it requires life experience and knowledge accumulation.

For example. The word "morality", if asked by a first-grade pupil, he said that picking up money is morality. His answer is undoubtedly correct.

If you are an adult, morality has covered how to be a person, how to fulfill your responsibilities as a child, husband or wife, and how to stick to the moral bottom line.

If you are a national monarch, the meaning of morality includes how to love the people, how to conform to public opinion and how not to disturb the people.

And the highest state of morality, Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching:

Saints treat the world with a view of inaction and educate the world in a silent way: let everything go with the flow without starting, do something without adding their own tendencies, and succeed without pretending to be themselves. Just because you don't take credit, there is no loss.

Therefore, due to different life experiences and feelings in different periods, people have different gains and understandings in learning and understanding the Tao Te Ching. People's life will also have many desires and needs to reread the Tao Te Ching. This is the process of growing up. Blessing!

What's the use of weather forecast? Know the weather changes and adapt to the operation of heaven. Man cannot conquer nature, and heaven and earth have the will of natural forces.

The principle of yin and yang changes in the Book of Changes reveals the law of the operation of heaven, making people know that the destiny cannot be violated.

At a deeper level, people fear the God of heaven and earth and seek the origin of human life and the jurisprudence of causal cycle.

God really exists in this world. Therefore, the old saying goes: there is no reward for good and evil, and there is privacy between heaven and earth.

Just think, is it just an accident that you are for you and I am for me?

Laozi's ideal society needs everyone to have spiritual restraint and uphold good thoughts, while people have desires, which are difficult to satisfy, and people will do things beyond their abilities and needs because of desires.

In essence, the existence of any substance and life will show the process of success, birth, bad and death. Therefore, even if such a result is really achieved, it is still unsustainable, because such a social form is actually a static appearance.

Reply: Nuo Nuo's passive state is blind obedience, and his supercilious state is capable and calm. The latter is something that newcomers in the workplace can't do, and he doesn't have the capital to do so. If you insist on being neither humble nor humble, it will make people feel arrogant and rude. Modesty and politeness are the best expressions for newcomers in the workplace. Ask more questions, listen carefully, do a good job in the work and matters assigned by leaders and elders, and reflect and review in time. This is necessary in the process of growing up.