How to enliven the atmosphere when eating?

If we want to change this lifeless atmosphere, someone must stand up and break the deadlock. The most convenient and natural way is to ask questions. An interesting question can attract everyone's attention in an instant, quickly arouse everyone's curiosity and let everyone actively participate.

Therefore, don't underestimate the problem, it can lead to discussion and a series of updated topics. In other words, a person who can ask questions can make the atmosphere of the dinner more active and make the dinner more interesting and unforgettable. Talk about some hot topics in today's society.

You can observe his words and deeds and vote for what he likes.

Now that the Spring Festival Gala has just passed, we can also talk about the programs of the Spring Festival Gala or something.

We can start with hot topics, such as sports programs and news. Son, pull. Film screening. Pull a cart or something.

Then talk slowly, talk about what he is interested in, and he will naturally talk to you very speculatively. Wine table rules

First, there are familiar people and strangers in the dinner. The topic to be discussed should be Xian Yi, young and old, which is easy to understand. That is to say, everyone can put in a word, which can quickly narrow the distance between you and strangers, and the wine table will be happy and natural.

Dinner skills

Second, when everyone has no topic, you can share your prepared topics and stories with them, and prepare more in advance, which will always be used in silence. Remember to observe the words at any time and talk about topics that everyone cares about. Life, work, hobbies, etc. They are all good topics to chat with. Try not to talk about controversial and biased topics. If you feel that the atmosphere is wrong, you should immediately turn to the next topic.

Taboo: If you are not absolutely sure about the jokes you prepared, try not to show them. Some people have a slow reflex arc.

Toast skill

Third, many people who can talk about Kan Kan on the wine table always think that an active atmosphere is a long speech. In fact, this is also a skill to avoid silence when speaking at the right time.

Note: Not many people are interested in your past. Your topic about yourself depends on the specific situation.

Suggestion: Many small games of gathering and dinner can also be used, such as grabbing red envelopes. In life, many students always seem embarrassed when they have a boss or a stranger's dinner, and they can't let go of themselves. Looking at my deskmate at this time, it seems that I always have the ability to amuse the audience and always talk to people in a flattering way. And I'm not embarrassed at all. In my heart, there is always some unhappiness.

On the one hand, I am not good at communicating with others. On the other hand, I think those who are good at communicating with others are picky and flattering, unlike attacking themselves for honesty and frankness, which is embarrassing. You feel that you are not doing well enough, and those who do well are not good people. Is there any trouble? Therefore, first of all, we should correct the concept that whether we can get along with others at the dinner table is not a matter of personality, tact and frankness, but a matter of judging the bureau. In other words, do you know what you are doing here today?

As we all know, the focus of eating is not on the meal, but on the words. Every bureau has a certain purpose and a certain result. Talking about cooperation is the result, enhancing feelings is the result, and exchanging information is also the result. First of all, you should define your identity at the dinner and promote the achievement of the dinner.

Generally speaking, a dinner party has three identities. Master, that is, the person who initiated the invitation and was responsible for the checkout; Guest of honor, mainly by public relations, has been dealt with; There is also a kind of person who mainly helps the host communicate with the host and guest, helps the host control the rhythm, and helps the host handle the relationship between host and guest. Such people are called local support. As a trustee, flattery to the host is to make the host happy, or it may be to help the host put forward a certain condition. For example, two people who have a good relationship talk about cooperation for the first time, and neither of them is embarrassed to talk about money first. At this time, if a discerning agent sends such a sentence to the host, "Oh, I know he is your good friend, but this time, you are not going to let your good friend work voluntarily, are you?" At this time, the host can pick up the words smoothly. "How come, how come, brothers have to settle accounts." You see, that's when the situation opens.

So, first of all, you have to understand what this bureau is for. You can usually tell when you say hello at the front of the dinner, or you can ask the host directly if you have a good relationship with the host. However, it is not enough to save the game, but also to clarify the flow of rights in the dinner.

If you don't understand this, even if you have a good try, you will fall into a misunderstanding. For example, a blind date bureau took away the right to speak in order to help the host pursue the guest of honor too enthusiastically. The host said to the guest of honor, "Let's go to the movies." Then you interjected, "How can one scene be enough? After reading it, go to the bar, have fun and go home later. " Think about it. If girls can't lose face at this time, if you put such pressure on them, they will definitely go back. What's wrong with this statement? Because of this game, the pursued person has the highest power, and the owner dare not expect anything. As a bureau manager, how can you push your luck and exert pressure at random? So, at this time, you should decompress the girl and pass on the subtext to her. With me, you can communicate more and learn more, and you won't be embarrassed with me. In this way, the host and guests can put down their guard and release their rights.

Conclusion: When eating with strangers, you must aim at a person with an active atmosphere. One is to judge, and the other is to know where the power lies, that is, who is the most powerful person this time.