The natural temperament type determines the upbringing. What is the temperament type and upbringing style of children?

Temperament is one of the psychological characteristics of a person's personality. It refers to the stable psychology of a person's cognition, emotion, language, and behavior in terms of the intensity, speed, flexibility, and directionality of psychological activities. feature.

When children are born, the first difference that appears is the difference in temperament. Some children are active, some are irritable, and some are quiet.

Childhood is the early stage of the formation of a person’s temperament and character, and it is also a crucial stage. It plays an immeasurable role in the formation of a child’s good temperament and character.

A child's temperament and character are related to innate factors, but the temperament and character with obvious and stable characteristics are not formed at birth, but are cultivated. The growth environment and self-training will affect the child's temperament and character. Temperament develops, so a child's temperament is malleable.

There are many classifications of temperament. Children's temperament types are roughly divided into three types: easy type, difficult type, and slow type.

Easy type

Easy children are very lovable. Their life is characterized by regular activities, a positive attitude towards new stimuli (such as strangers, objects, scenery), and the ability to quickly adapt to different environments. Mild emotional response, lively and cute, good mood, not under the guidance of adults, will smile when seeing strangers, can be easily comforted when crying before going to bed and after getting up, can be easily comforted when crying, likes to actively seek and accept new things< /p>

Difficult type

This is the type of child that often troubles parents. Children with this temperament type have irregular lifestyles, irregular eating, defecation, and sleep. They shrink, avoid, and react negatively to new stimuli. They are not easily excited when playing with new toys, and show an indifferent attitude.

It is difficult to adapt to a new environment, or it is slow to adapt, has strong emotional reactions, and will get angry if you don't like it even a little bit.

Reactions are stronger when encountering difficulties and setbacks, more difficult to be comforted, emotionally unstable, poor self-control, stubborn, and more difficult to get along with others.

Slow type

If the easy type and the difficult type are the two extremes of a child's temperament, then the slow type can be seen as the neutralization of these two extremes.

This type of child is inactive, not good at activities, a little timid, and cannot adapt to the environment as quickly as ordinary children, but is a "slow-motion" child who can slowly adapt after repeated exposure.

Such children are always excited but not active, but they are not indifferent, but always in a quiet state.

Lacks strong interest and exploration in new things. You will slowly become interested in new things and become active.

Cultivation methods

The method of cultivating easy-going children is relatively simple. It is necessary to encourage the spirit of exploration and innovation, and to give correct guidance so that children can have self-confidence, but to cultivate modesty and prudence. Attitude to life, be careful not to let your children become conceited or sloppy

Children in difficulties should especially be patient and enthusiastic, and never be impatient. You should control your temper, take your children to interact with others more often, let them adapt to different environments, try new things, and adopt targeted methods that suit their characteristics, so that they can gradually adapt to society and learn to interact with others.

The key to late-onset children is to "master the heat." The requirements for children cannot be too high or too low. Let your children adapt to this society in their own way and don't put too much pressure on them. Otherwise, the child will have ups and downs. It is necessary to gradually improve the child's ability to adapt to the new environment in stages.

For children on the autism spectrum, the natural temperament type may make certain behaviors more obvious and certain abilities weaker than other children. Parents should observe carefully to understand their child's temperament type and carry out family intervention based on the child's temperament characteristics.

Because the child is a spectrum child, ignoring the child's natural temperament characteristics and forcibly training the child into an "ideal model" will not only fail, but will easily lead to negative emotions such as anger, anxiety, and powerlessness, which will make parents Distrust, indifference

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