Self-fulfilling prophecy and Murphy's Law

Hello, everyone, this is what Uncle Duo said. The virgin article that should have been posted to the public account had to be posted because I was away from home. I hope everyone can support it. (However, there is a problem, the app crashes, and the code is repeated)

? good night, everyone, here is what Uncle Duo said, that’s right! I am your Uncle Duo whose wisdom and good looks cannot coexist.

?I think everyone will generally have this experience. When you believe that something will happen (in fact, it may not necessarily happen in the first place), then it will eventually happen. The probability is greatly increased and this is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Especially when bad things happen mostly, no matter how much you worry about good things, the probability of them happening will not increase much.

For example, Uncle Duo has been trading in the stock market for more than a year and feels that he will never be able to catch the daily limit. But if one day it occurs to his mind that he will be buried today and is trapped, then what will happen? The probability will be greatly increased. This is Murphy's law. Murphy's Law: In short, when you think something is going to go in a bad direction, it will go in a bad direction that cannot be pulled back by nine horses.

? Regarding Murphy’s Law, in Uncle Duo’s view, it is very difficult to accomplish something. It requires the right time, place and right people (a probability of 1/9), but to mess up something It is indeed too simple. None of the three things can be successfully messed up (8/9), especially when you realize that things are going to be bad, it means that there are already signs, and when the signs appear, unless there is extreme Otherwise it would be difficult to reverse great abilities.

If Murphy's Law is relatively objective, then the self-fulfilling prophecy is purely subjective due to psychological suggestion addition and other factors. Speaking of which, you may not quite understand, but Uncle Naduo has to mention a famous experiment:

There was a famous experiment in psychology - the Rosenthal effect ( 1968). In a double-blind experiment (that is, neither the teacher nor the students knew they were in an experiment), Rosenthal selected three classes from each of the six grades in an elementary school and told the teacher that according to his own experience In the students' tests, it is estimated that some people will show greater progress during this semester, and he also notified the names of these people. Eight months later, he tested these students again and found that the academic performance of the named children had improved significantly, and the teacher also made a good evaluation of their conduct.

This is the result of psychological suggestion. When you feel that you can do it, you will work hard to prove that you can do it. But when you feel that you are not good enough, bad weather may also be the reason for your failure. Of course, Uncle Duo, as an unknown anti-chicken soup person, solemnly states here that he does not agree with the view of success scholars that if they can do it, then they will definitely do it, because success requires many factors, self-confidence is only one of them, but If you don't have self-confidence, you will definitely not succeed.

If the above experiment still doesn’t make you understand, then think about "The Heroes of the World" that you watched when you were a child. As the saying goes, success is the result of success, and failure is also the result of the situation. It is precisely because Xiongba believes this sentence Only then did he force Feng Yun and the two to rebel, making him truly defeated. If he didn't believe it, Feng Yun would probably still be his general, and he would still dominate the world.

People are mirrors of each other. How you treat and treat others will, to a large extent, be treated by others in the way you imagine. For example, if you are treated as a villain by someone and treat the villain accordingly. treatment, then you will most likely be a villain in front of this person, because in other people's minds you will be like this without doing anything, then if you do, the situation will not be worse, and you will definitely want to repay It's better to simply vent your anger.

? The final closing words, as for the reason why the self-fulfilling prophecy will come true, Uncle Duo thinks it may be the following aspects:

1. Hint, when you feel that a If something is not good for you or has a low probability of success, then obviously you will not invest much energy in it, and your motivation will be reduced.

2. Attention, when you think something is difficult or not easy to do, then you will notice that it is difficult, but when you think someone’s character is not good, you will only do it Observe what you care about.