How to answer girls' cold questions?

According to the degree of communication, girls can say that they are indifferent in the following ways: they have just known each other for a long time (humor method), they have known each other for a while (ambiguity method), and they have not made progress in knowing girls for a long time (rational method).

1, just met soon (humor method)

Your relationship has just been known for a long time. Don't let girls dislike you when chatting at the beginning of meeting girls. It is best to establish a sense of familiarity and connection between the two people at the beginning of the chat, and show yourself humorously and interestingly to leave a good impression on the girls, as follows:

Woman: "It's so cold. It's snowing too hard outside today. "

Man: "Not cold, is it? It will cool down again these days. " (caring about girls)

Woman: "No, no"

Man: "If you freeze, you will become a beautiful frozen fairy." (Humorous jokes praise girls)

2. Know each other for a while (ambiguous method)

After a period of contact, the two people have also established a sense of security and familiarity, and the girls have a good impression on you. At this stage, you can talk to girls in an ambiguous direction, connect all the topics with each other, create ambiguity through language, and increase the sexual tension between two people. Ambiguity is a sign that two people will establish a love relationship. Details are as follows:

Woman: "It's so cold today. I feel unconscious. "

Man: "I can't wake you up until I feel it." (Create a sense of picture, language moves forward)

Woman: "I hate it. I know I take advantage of others."

Man: "If I go shopping with you, you can put your hand in my pocket to keep warm." (Suggested meeting date)

Woman: "Are you a small stove?"

Man: "I am the big sun, which can warm the baby's heart." (Continue to mention the relationship)

3. I've known girls for a long time and I haven't made any progress (rational method)

You have known that girl for a long time, but you haven't seduced her yet. If so, it is very likely that you have entered the friendship zone, or because you are not good at chatting with girls, girls are not interested in you at all. No matter how you seduce her, it is difficult to have further development with her.

Woman: "It's so cold today."

Man: "Wear more if you are cold." (Straight male standard answer)

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Boys' High EQ Chatting Style

1. Chatting is a process of providing value to girls, not asking for it.

In the process of chatting with girls, many boys always like to ask questions. This process is to demand the value of girls. After a long time, girls will think you will be bored. When chatting, only by constantly providing value to girls will girls recognize you. This value can be the kind that makes her physically and mentally happy, at least not boring.

It's important to share the same interests.

Girls are emotional animals, so a girl's circle of friends is naturally colorful. You can learn a lot of information through the restaurant where she eats, the place where she plays, and even some selfies. You can see the girl's eating habits through the restaurant, and you can judge what kind of activities the girl likes through the place where she plays, whether the girl likes playing games and so on.

Get to know a girl with your heart and your hobbies. If it happens that her hobby is what you are good at, so much the better.