Adolescent children: understanding and acceptance are the key.

Adolescence is the only way for children to grow up, and the physical and mental changes of children need our peaceful attitude, positive attitude and scientific knowledge to guide them. As parents, we need to understand and accept children, become their friends, and accompany them through this stage full of challenges and opportunities.

Understand and accept children

Understanding and accepting children is our primary task. They are facing many unexpected changes and need our support and understanding. Don't panic because of some of their changes or behaviors, let alone respond with beatings and accusations. Otherwise, it will only make them more rebellious and farther away from us.

Make friends with children.

Trying to be friends with children is their greatest wish in adolescence. They are eager for respect and independence, and hope that we can treat them equally as adults. We need to change our roles and educational concepts, from one-way imperative education to two-way inquiry education. From caring about their daily life to guiding their growth and development, we strive to be their mentor.

Harmonious family atmosphere

The survey shows that more than 90% teenagers are more willing to talk to their friends than to their parents and teachers when they encounter difficulties. Therefore, a harmonious family atmosphere and a good mother-child relationship are very important for children to successfully pass adolescence.