Will you be a tool man?

In the fifth week, I found myself unconsciously brushing naked resignation and not going to work. Recently, I spoke about related groups in Douban, and I didn't react until I finished brushing. It seems that there is always a big vacancy in my heart, and I need to look at these things to make up for it.

But in fact, at present, this job is generally better than the previous ones, but people may always be greedy or there is always something annoying in every job. Without 996 and 007, there might be PUA leaders. The organizational structure is not chaotic, and there may be unfriendly colleagues; Without ultra-low wages, there may be a long commute.

Tell a friend, is it too difficult to satisfy people? It's hard to find a job with long holidays, no overtime and no 24-hour online WeChat, but PUA-style leadership, a job with no sense of value and accomplishment, is unbearable. Is it always difficult to find a satisfactory job?

Friends say that work is an anti-human invention, hahaha. The essence of work is to sell one's time and spirit to make money. It's better to think of yourself as a tool and not think too much.

But I still can't help thinking, what is the meaning of work? What exactly do you want? Is work really never satisfactory? Ah, so tired? .

How much do you want to be a salted fish, care nothing, or a cat? I wish I could comb my hair leisurely every day!

Another friend said that the most inhuman thing about working in a big city is the commuting time on the way to and from work. When you cram yourself into a closed carriage packed with strangers like sardines for several hours every day, the sense of powerlessness and energy consumption are immeasurable.

My present job is like this. Although I don't work overtime, I go out from 10: 00 to 7: 00 every day 12 hours, plus commuting time. I usually come back after dinner after nine o'clock. Go back and brush my phone? Sleep, open your eyes and start a new round of crowded subway? Work? Cycle? . I didn't have time to do the daily housework until the weekend.

I always feel stressed during working hours. Although I don't work overtime, I can fish for one second. No time After a day of intense and concentrated work, I am also exhausted.

I used to be really tired after working for a while, and I just wanted to lie flat and do nothing.

Before this job, I really had a long rest (almost a year), and I also went through a stage where I could do nothing but physical illness. So I don't hate work yet, just want to have some meaning and sense of accomplishment. I want to take three days off a week when I want to get off work.

Just ... think about it. ...

It always takes some time to get used to the environment, get to know my colleagues and get familiar with my work. I always tell myself to adjust my mentality, but I feel as if I didn't adjust it until naked resignation left.

How can we adjust our mentality and make our work easier?

Maybe my friend has a point. Don't put too much emotion and emotion into your work. Mechanize your work. When you finish the task, don't care what others say about your work, let alone judge yourself by it. Jump out of this frame and relax &; Peace.

I'm also trying some methods. If you don't want to work after work, you can get out in time to have a full rest and do some thoughts, things and outputs that have nothing to do with work. Use some other methods to find your own sense of value, for example, as I do now, code words to find approval.

Then, don't stop being aware of your emotions, don't stop thinking about what you want, and what is most important to you in a job.

Find some of your own happiness and happiness. For example, for me, the smell of camphor trees in the air can make people happy for a long time. What about the lukewarm weather in spring and evening? The sun is setting and the sky is still shining. It's so happy to go out for a walk.