How to chat without silence?

Take a positive attitude towards the person you are chatting with, and don't face each other with an antagonistic attitude. For example, when you express your views on something to yourself, don't always rush to deny the other person's views.

Because it will make the other party feel very uncomfortable, as if the listener is despising the other party. You should ask the other person for a positive opinion. Even if you think some of the other person's views are really stupid, don't be too obvious.

2, find * * * the same topic.

For example, two girls who like the same star can talk together for hours. Because we have the same hobbies, there are many things to talk about, and the atmosphere of chatting will become more and more warm.

So if you don't want to be silent when chatting with others, then you should be prepared before chatting and find out what the same topic is.

3, pull the topic to each other.

If you want to chat, you should try to arouse the interest of the other party in chatting with yourself. The easier way is to bring the topic to the other person and let the other person keep telling you what happened while you are listening quietly.

Extended data;

Answering skills;

1, practice being cheerful in front of people at ordinary times, otherwise even a simple smile will appear stiff and clumsy.

2. Cultivate the habit of responding to small things and create a warm and relaxed atmosphere.

In order to connect with a topic that you are not interested in, such as golf, you can throw a question that you want to know the other person's personality and character, or a question that you are interested in to solve the problem.

4. Seven themes:

① You can end the conversation with safety topics: work, weather, health, news, performing arts, streets and traffic.

2 topics that are easy to empathize with can enhance each other's feelings: age, age, place of birth, place of residence, friends, acquaintances and family.

Three topics that can be talked about come in handy when eating: food and restaurants.

(4) Compliment each other and lead to topics of interest: fashion, beauty, body shape, weight loss and health.

⑤ Topics that can make each other happy, and can understand each other's values and his personality: interests and skills.

6. Random topics, unlimited topics, easy to use everywhere: people, things, sights and things around you.

The topic of sharing feelings is used to enhance the feelings of both sides: happy, angry, sad, happy and so on.