How can a long-distance relationship keep the desire and freshness of sharing and share its own experiences?

Distance is to love what wind is to fire. It strikes at the weak and inspires the strong. My sister and classmates talked about long-distance love for eight years. They have endless words every day, but unfortunately they broke up because of the long-term long-distance relationship. According to my experience as a psychologist at school and my sister's story, this paper summarizes how long-distance lovers keep sharing desire and freshness and never break up!

1. Contact every day.

Good morning and good night every morning and evening, and tell each other what you want to do now when something happens. I may not be able to reply to the message for the time being, and I will reply when I'm done. Telling lovers like this will reassure them.

2. Be outspoken and express your emotions correctly.

I find that too many people can't talk well. Couples are just one of your partners. If you have something on your mind but don't say it, ta won't tell you the joys and sorrows! If you have any ideas, you can tell them directly. The fear of long-distance love is mutual unwarranted suspicion. However, when expressing emotions, we should directly use facts+feelings instead of questioning+personal attacks. For example, I think your response to messages is slow these days. You must be chatting with that little sister. You never care about my feelings.

3. Lovers who are wronged, lonely and sad must be comforted.

If your lover encounters a sad thing, such as a social death, even if you feel funny, comfort yourself before laughing. Otherwise, the other party may think that no one understands ta, and they are isolated. Or ta is criticized by the leader for doing something wrong, and don't criticize ta in a hurry. Comfort your emotions first, and then analyze right and wrong when the other party calms down.

4. Let lovers and friends have some intersection.

It is good to have a few friends in love, which can reassure each other. After all, it is a different place. If anything happens to you, ta can contact you with friends through * * *. But also need to keep a standard with * * * friends, otherwise it is easy to cause misunderstanding.

? 5. What can a long-distance relationship do

Although long-distance love can't hug and have physical contact, there are many things that long-distance love can do! For example: reading the same book, watching the same movie, watching the same drama, learning the same course, playing games together, talking about a hot event together, sharing interesting things with each other and so on. Long-distance love must have the common goal of ending long-distance love, otherwise it will disappear into the vast sea of people one day. Just like my sister, because both of them can't give up their jobs and can't see the future, they can only break up in the end.

"If it weren't for loving you, who would like to have a long-distance relationship with you? ! "All shall be well, jack shall have Jill! If you can't get married, it is also a kind of happiness to let the other person go! ?