How to fall in love

Things you should know before you fall in love.

Love has always been a difficult problem in our daily life, but it is not difficult to say it.

In love, first of all, three views should be correct. You should know that some things can be done and some things cannot be done. Don't fall in love with a playful attitude, which will not only hurt others, but also fully prove that your character is extremely poor. Such people really don't deserve love and can't be happy.

I think you should find someone you really like in love, not make do with it. After finding the person you like, you should be single-minded. If you love someone, there is only one person in your heart. You can't have two hearts. You can not love, but don't hurt.

You can devote yourself to love, but you should know that love is not the whole of life. Don't let love occupy most of your time and energy, because nothing can be overstressed.

If one day, I find that my feelings really can't be maintained, then I think the best way is to let go, because it's useless to be reluctant. Only by loving each other can we maintain our feelings.

Things that girls should pay attention to in love

Many girls easily lose their minds when they are in love. At this time, girls are more vulnerable.

With the growth of time together, girls like boys more and more, while boys dislike girls less and less when they reach a peak. So girls must grasp this degree and don't give everything to the boy in front of you easily. As a girl, we must protect ourselves.

Don't be too dependent on each other. Do your best. When many girls fall in love, they will rely on boys to be kind to themselves and ask each other to do everything. Over time, they have developed the habit of interdependence, but you should know that if one day the other person leaves you, you will even have problems with your survival, which is really sad.

Don't always ask each other for gifts. If he really likes you, he will do it even if you don't say it. If he doesn't like you, no matter what you do, he won't care.

Don't invest too much. Love is not the whole of life. Don't let love occupy most of your time and energy. What you have to do is to constantly improve yourself after falling in love and make yourself better.

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If you firmly know that you believe in love, then the following are the love cheats you should know:

How do people build relationships before they fall in love?

In life, we will always meet people who make us excited. They may be interested in appearance and figure, inner cultivation, or long-term love. So how do we start a relationship? The data shows that people attach great importance to their first impression of a person, and a person's appearance largely determines whether you and your favorite partner will start a relationship smoothly. No one can have a good impression on a person who looks ordinary and leads a sloppy life. Therefore, even if you are average-looking, but clean and tidy in appearance, honest and enterprising, plus you take the initiative and treat the person you like with your heart, then a relationship is likely to start.

How do people in love maintain their feelings?

Appreciate each other. We should always tell our lover what you love him or her and what he or she enjoys. We should constantly encourage and support each other.

Tell each other I love you. Although actions are better than words, words are more expressive than actions and can make the other person feel safe quickly. When two people are in contact, they should pour out their love to their lover from time to time. A simple "I love you" can make a lover feel safe in love.

Open your heart. Don't shut yourself in, keep everything in your heart. Since you love him (her), it means that you trust him (her), and you should also trust him (her). You can share good things with him (her) and of course share your troubles. We should make sure that our lover is the one who knows our secrets best, not others. Although you should keep some private space in front of the closest people, you should spend more time talking and communicating with your lover.

Always show love. There are often some intimate gestures, such as holding hands when shopping, hugging your lover's shoulder when sitting on the sofa watching TV, and giving each other a big hug, which will make your other half feel deep love. Physical contact can promote emotional communication between the two sides.

Send gifts. We should know how to seize any opportunity to give gifts to our loved ones to show our love. No matter the size of the gift, as long as it is carefully prepared by yourself, you can let the other party know that you care about him (her) very much, and you are the one who cares about him (her) most except his (her) parents. This will make the other person more confident, more determined to be with you and more secure.

Know how to tolerate each other. Everything is beautiful in the early days of love, but after getting along for a long time, you will have a tired mental state and even doubt this relationship. This is particularly normal. Get along for a long time, and each other's shortcomings will gradually be exposed. At this time, we need to tolerate each other, adapt to each other and even make corresponding changes for each other.

Improve yourself and make yourself more mature. We should keep learning, not be self-motivated, keep breaking through ourselves, try more and get in touch with new things, so that our other half will not get tired of life and you.

How to maintain a long-distance relationship?

First of all, for long-distance love, we should have a common goal. Then some people will say, there is no future without the present, just cherish the present. There is nothing wrong with this sentence. But I want to remind friends who have this idea that we are talking about long-distance love. For couples who are not long-distance lovers, they can talk face to face, and even if they quarrel, they can see each other's facial expressions. It is much easier to maintain a relationship than a long-distance relationship. But what about long-distance relationships? Man is a very realistic animal. How many people can be sure without seeing the future? Especially for girls in long-distance relationships, most of them feel insecure. Long-distance love, insecure, she will lose her temper and make noise for no reason, and ask you if you love her from time to time. Under such pessimism, a boy with firm belief will have a tired day. But if the goals are the same, such as a simple meeting schedule, you will not be confused about the future and will go on more firmly. So having a common goal has laid a solid foundation for our long-distance love.

Communicate more. The biggest weakness of long-distance love is communication. If you only rely on mobile phone network communication, it is easy to misunderstand. Because words have no tone and expression, what people can't fool others is just their eyes and subconscious actions, but they can't see them in a different place. So what should we do? Don't read each other's minds, don't be too sensitive. If you encounter something you don't understand in the chat, you'd better ask directly, instead of guessing for yourself. For example, if he didn't reply to your message in time, don't think that he doesn't care about you. Maybe he was busy and didn't see it in time.

You should know the gender differences between men and women. Especially for girls, when the other person does something you are not satisfied with, you will compare the other person's reaction with your own to prove that the other person doesn't love you as much as you love him. If this happens, please stop this bad way and be kind to him, that is, be kind to yourself.

No topic, make a topic. Why do you suddenly feel that there is nothing to talk about between us, and it has always been cold? This is a common problem in long-distance relationships. We should treat it with normality. This is normal. When we are in love, we are inseparable and have endless topics, but when we get to know each other, we will suddenly become cold. At this time, don't be discouraged, let alone panic, learn more about each other's work and study fields, pay more attention to what you are interested in, artificially create topics, and enhance emotional communication.

Don't be afraid of the unknown future. People in long-distance relationships are particularly afraid of all kinds of variables in the future, and they suffer a lot when dealing with feelings. At this time, we should strengthen contact and communicate more, especially at the spiritual level. Nothing lasts forever. As long as we keep up with the changes, we can be relatively static and full of confidence in each other's future.

Stop perceptual thinking and be good at adjusting your mind. Long-distance love should be more rational and less emotional. Proper "quarreling" is not a bad thing. You should express your true thoughts in a way acceptable to the other party, don't hold it in your heart, and don't hurt the other party insincerely.