Is there a difference between 99 days and 100 childish?

Emotionally, I am still too naive and naive. Suddenly I thought of a love story of a prince and a princess told a few years ago and asked me what I would do if I were the protagonist. At the beginning, I naively replied that as long as I really love her, I just need to stand 100 days and marry the princess back. As for whether she loves me or not, I will get along slowly. I got a dirty look. I know what it meant at the beginning: selfishness, overconfidence, male chauvinism, all kinds of immature love labels.

Tell me a story. The story goes something like this:

A prince fell in love with a princess, and the princess told him that she would accept him if he wanted to stay under her balcony for 100 nights in a row. The prince did so. No matter how bad the weather was, he didn't leave. He waited for one day, two days, three days ... until the ninety-ninth day, he stood up and left. ...

In fact, the meaning of the story is to explain or discuss a love game more accurately.

"Prove your love in 99 days and your dignity in 100 days."

99 days is enough to prove everything. If the princess loves the prince, she won't wait 100 days. Waiting 100 days may make the princess yield, but I'm afraid this is not what the prince wants. The prince didn't want the princess to love him because of his promises and bets at that time. Love cannot come from commitment. Instead, I love him because of my promise. The prince wants to break the contract before waiting for the princess ... If the princess goes to see him on the 99th day, then the prince really waits for his true love.

The wise prince's departure on the last day is a defense of dignity, because he knows that for men, this is a man's foothold in the world. At this special moment, dignity is more important than love.

Of course, women don't think so. They thought the prince didn't love the princess enough, so they finally gave up. A prince who has experienced 99 days of wind and frost and all kinds of hardships will never choose to give up when he is close to victory. So this is a story that only men can read, because for women, dignity is far less important than love. For men, once love loses its dignity, it is a complete failure. This is why women are often warned that if you are really interested in him, then the degree of torture needs to be grasped. Men who lose confidence will leave halfway, while men who love women will feel the loss of self-esteem at the last minute and leave angrily. It's not so much that the man is a little short as that the woman's requirements are too high. Love is the business of two people, not the charity of one party to the other. Because a man who has self-esteem based on the world and loves her is the real man that women should look for.

The manuscript of the story comes from "Letter from Torres Saka", which is a story told by Torres Saka guards when his feelings are frustrated. "I always thought he was a clever soldier, because he knew that only by doing so would the princess remember him forever," said Duriss Saka.

Let's suppose that if the prince waits 100 days, it will be difficult for the princess to break her word, which will result in a fait accompli that the princess must marry him whether she likes it or not. And marrying a princess who doesn't love herself deeply is not what the prince wants! The departure of the prince not only lets the princess know that she really loves her, and can fulfill the promise of waiting for 100 days, but also gives her the right to choose, because he really loves her, so he will be considerate of each other. I think a man who really loves him will be more considerate of each other, even if he is sad again. If I were the protagonist, I would think so, too. There are three sentences that are very suitable for summing up this story: First, bitter gourd is not sweet. Second, to love her is to let her pursue happiness. Third, love has self-esteem, and any party who hurts this relationship will not last long ~

Of course, in real life, we are not princes, and there are not so many princesses. Sometimes girls don't want to do multiple-choice questions at all, just want to find someone who loves themselves completely and can manipulate them at will. Now, if she wants him, she can be a prince, and if she wants him, she can be a servant.

Love is a kind of nonstandard and unsatisfied. For a person you love, as long as you really work hard, even if you have regrets, you don't waste your youth.